| 4/14/2008 7:11:09 PM | Lonley... Need advice from girls or guys. | |
krupa1
Abilene, TX
age: 40
| Brother....find something that you enjoy when no one is around..Music/cooking/bird watching for god's sake...for me it is art....get descent at it. Focus on it. Then, when you are interacting with ANYONE, you have a topic of conversation to focus on that you are comfortable with and that shows confidence. Everyone likes being around confident people.
But, I can say this next statement with absolute resolve......doesn't matter what you do...if you don't look people in the eyes when you speak to them and you only look at your feet....you will be ignored. Even if you ain't confident.....fake it.
I know far too many people who fit into that ignored catagory.
Just my opinion my man.....give me a bit of credit and think that I might possibly have a clue.
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| 4/14/2008 7:18:19 PM | Lonley... Need advice from girls or guys. | |
tx38austin
Dallas, TX
age: 38
| But, I can say this next statement with absolute resolve......doesn't matter what you do...if you don't look people in the eyes when you speak to them and you only look at your feet....you will be ignored
That's very true.
Even if you ain't confident.....fake it.
That is not so easy, but advice well taken.
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| 4/14/2008 7:50:12 PM | Lonley... Need advice from girls or guys. | |
yarnball
Edmonton, AB
age: 30
| its sounds kind of lame but the best thing you can do is be yourself, if they are not noticing you, they probably are not the right women for you
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| 4/14/2008 7:59:35 PM | Lonley... Need advice from girls or guys. | |
jessie7856
Jupiter, FL
age: 35
| Well it sounds like you definately need some confidence.Next time you call a girl just ask her out what's the worst thing that will happen.Then when you do go out it might be vague at first that is the conversation just talk about things that you like and see if she has the same interests if she dosnt then ask her what she likes then the ice is broken and your home free.
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| 4/15/2008 10:27:11 AM | Lonley... Need advice from girls or guys. | |
nicksterdemus
Little Rock, AR
age: 51
| 1st post n ya giving up all kinda personal contact info...
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I guess that poster/poser was deleted...
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| 4/15/2008 11:07:54 AM | Lonley... Need advice from girls or guys. | |
mylae
Brookings, OR
age: 31
| I would suggest you not ask if they want to go hang out. We can do that on our own and with our FRIENDS! Get an idea of something fun or different...something that will make you stand out from the rest that are pursuing them! Also take your time...you don't want to rush into anything.
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| 4/15/2008 8:14:02 PM | Lonley... Need advice from girls or guys. | |
sinomangirl
Baltimore, MD
age: 30
| people always want what they can't have. i don't even know you, and your post comes off as co-dependent, needy, clingy......you get the drift. make yourself unatainable. ever realise no one asks you out untill you have a girlfriend? same concept. just have fun by yourself, hang with friends, and enjoy life. you can not be happy with someone else untill you are happy by yourself. that is what others find attractive, knowing someone is compleate instead of seaming like they are unwhole without someone else. no one wats to play personal jesus to someone who is all EMO and needy. it's a total turn off.
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