| 4/14/2008 5:57:22 PM | Lonley... Need advice from girls or guys. | |
mahal55
Fayetteville, NC
age: 22
| O kae, I'm 22 go to college N belive I'm good looking or at least good looking enough to get a good women! But latley I've found myself lakin confidence n I really want to be in a relationship, but I just cant seem to get a womens attention! Ne good advice on something I can do myself to make girls notice me more then just as a friend??? I seem to fall into the friend zone with girls way 2 offten n need to change something up... I'm always described as really funny down to earth n life of the party. I love living for the moment, but knowing what I want in the long run.
Please help me shake this friend zone off of me n sugest things to help me land a good girlfriend! =) thx!
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| 4/14/2008 5:59:12 PM | Lonley... Need advice from girls or guys. | |
harley9482
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 25
| I am in the same trap, but don't quit trying. Try to engage them differently, without being a creep.
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| 4/14/2008 6:01:34 PM | Lonley... Need advice from girls or guys. | |
mitchell1221
Chattanooga, TN
age: 45
| what is your approach and method of meeting women?
And so you share your feelings with them?
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| 4/14/2008 6:19:59 PM | Lonley... Need advice from girls or guys. | |
mahal55
Fayetteville, NC
age: 22
| I am or would like to think alright at meeting women
The hard part for me is what comes after... I cant seem to folow up well... I dont know what to do after I meet them that is.... I usually meet them at a club or a party scene... n then I get there number n text / call them or something the next day n I dont know what happens from that time to the next time we meet, but I always Always end up as a friend that they want to hang out with more but Not date =/
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| 4/14/2008 6:29:40 PM | Lonley... Need advice from girls or guys. | |
mitchell1221
Chattanooga, TN
age: 45
| what do you tell them when you call or text them?
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| 4/14/2008 6:31:00 PM | Lonley... Need advice from girls or guys. | |
kittyriffic
Georgetown, FL
age: 52
| If you are meeting them and getting their phone numbers when there is alcohol involved, the next day when you call, they probably don't remember who you even are. 
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| 4/14/2008 6:37:48 PM | Lonley... Need advice from girls or guys. | |
mahal55
Fayetteville, NC
age: 22
| Yah, Well I guess meeting ppl while drunk aint the best thing is it heh...
But I text / call them with like msg's saying "hey what are you doing today? Wana go hang out or something? what do you like doing for fun?"
is that bad thing to say cuz I do that same msg like a million n 1 times after I meet a girl... =/ I just rather do something that they enjoy n something physical more then just something of the norm... like going to watch a movie or out to eat..... I'd rather do something that would make us interact n have fun together n put us in a situation to get to know each other you know? is that a bad aproach or something? should I just stick to normal activities? =/ It's just so boring though... =/
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| 4/14/2008 6:41:46 PM | Lonley... Need advice from girls or guys. | |
mitchell1221
Chattanooga, TN
age: 45
| if something isn`t working, CHANGE it, and fast. How about you try this,
How about when you find someone you would like to spend time with, don’t ask him or her to go anywhere. Just tell them that you are planning to be at such and such a place and that it would be nice if they could join you.
Example: I’m going to go to the coffee shop tomorrow night for some of that good coffee they serve. It would be nice if you could join me for some stimulating conversation.
You actually haven’t asked her to go anywhere, but what you have done is let her know your plans and invited her along.
This takes a lot of the pressure off of you. You are letting her know that you are going to go have fun whether or not anyone else wants to share with you does not matter. If she says no, you can reply with something like, "So you don’t like good food?', or "So you don’t like to have fun?"
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| 4/14/2008 6:50:25 PM | Lonley... Need advice from girls or guys. | |
mahal55
Fayetteville, NC
age: 22
| hehe, I like that advice I think I'll have to try that style of response
I'll prolly switch it a bit up like say yah I'm planing on going to go play minature golf tomorrow if you're not doing ne thing you're more then welcome to come with?
Is that like what you're getting at? I get it. Thx! =D that might actually work cuz it invites her out but doesent make me look desperate or feel stupid if she says no... =)
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| 4/14/2008 6:56:38 PM | Lonley... Need advice from girls or guys. | |
tx38austin
Dallas, TX
age: 38
| Dude: No offense to you but learn to spell, period.
Quit using slang. If you want a respectable girl (I assume you're not into gangster, are you?) Start using adequate vocabulary. Works wonders my friend, and works 'almost every time'.... just my opinion. 
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| 4/14/2008 6:58:21 PM | Lonley... Need advice from girls or guys. | |
mitchell1221
Chattanooga, TN
age: 45
| And if you tell her that you are going to go play minature golf somewhere, do it , even if she turns you down. You never know, she might just show up.
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| 4/14/2008 6:58:41 PM | Lonley... Need advice from girls or guys. | |
flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 46
| austin my spelling hero.................
mitchell - I have a suspicion you might be Dr Phil in cognito 
[Edited 4/14/2008 7:00:29 PM]
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| 4/14/2008 7:01:34 PM | Lonley... Need advice from girls or guys. | |
mitchell1221
Chattanooga, TN
age: 45
| Hardly Dr Phil, I have more hair. 
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| 4/14/2008 7:02:25 PM | Lonley... Need advice from girls or guys. | |
tx38austin
Dallas, TX
age: 38
| FLOWERGIRL!! How are you sweetie?
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| 4/14/2008 7:08:37 PM | Lonley... Need advice from girls or guys. | |
tx38austin
Dallas, TX
age: 38
| No problem mitchell, but with more hair..
flowergirl, good morning.
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