| 4/15/2008 9:54:57 PM | what is going on here??? | |
datdardood
Murray, KY
age: 46
| Is this site for meeting or even dating or is it for bashing the EX?
or even getting your poor behavior validated by other pissed off people?
I Have been on here for about two weeks and for the most part all I have seen from the threads is one person or another looking for somone to help them bash or to at least encourage them to bash the EX. 
I for one do not understand it!
looks to me like many people here need to work on thier probs (ALL ON THIER OWN) before they even think about looking for another person to drag into thier life. I am thinking that maybe a bashing site must be out there.
do the site,
pass the test,
get you "free of bagage card"
then you can come to a dating site. if there is not one for yall to vent at just let me know I will get started on it right away. this may hurt some folks feelings but I have only seen one person on here that seems ready to have a relationship and you all know her.
(sitkarains) she seems to have her head on strait. it seems that a lot of people on here could gain a bit by taking notes from her!
ok I have said my bit now you can all bash me.......
then go find that site! 
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| 4/15/2008 9:56:48 PM | what is going on here??? | |
kitkat1204
Crawfordsville, IN
age: 49
| It comes from too much built up sexual frustration!!
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| 4/15/2008 9:59:43 PM | what is going on here??? | |
datdardood
Murray, KY
age: 46
| again bashing site! lol
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| 4/15/2008 10:00:07 PM | what is going on here??? | |
onelife2live
Janesville, WI
age: 43
| Spring is in the air.... ...
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| 4/15/2008 10:01:19 PM | what is going on here??? | |
kgearly1021
Valdosta, GA
age: 48
| I having taken the leave all your baggage behind test, and I think I have passed, just waiting on the mailman to deliver my scores, meanwhile, sign me off as the Cynical Smartass.
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| 4/15/2008 10:06:28 PM | what is going on here??? | |
wolfcreekgal
Sheridan, WY
age: 44
| datdar, damned if I didn't think the SAME thing when I joined DH. But give it time and you will see that there really ARE women out there, like me, looking for men to date, love and spend our lives with.
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| 4/15/2008 10:09:08 PM | what is going on here??? | |
datdardood
Murray, KY
age: 46
| Wolf, I hope i did say everyone, just mean a good part of them..
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| 4/15/2008 10:11:22 PM | what is going on here??? | |
neetos
Fernley, NV
age: 46
| No ex-bashing here.....his choice to leave......my choice not to play his game.
Simple.
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| 4/15/2008 10:12:06 PM | what is going on here??? | |
kgearly1021
Valdosta, GA
age: 48
| I try really hard to look at my ex husband's and all the baggage I have acquired and lost over the years this way...I am who I am because of what I have experienced in my life. I like who I am.
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| 4/15/2008 10:17:18 PM | what is going on here??? | |
datdardood
Murray, KY
age: 46
| I will admit I have not made much talk with people on here. been kind of looking at whats going on for the most part. It just seems like with all the hateful BS, not much time for making nice.
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| 4/15/2008 10:25:20 PM | what is going on here??? | |
chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47
| How one post is how one is perceived. It is a good way to see how potential mates handle situations. Yah, I mention my Xs in threads but that is my past and I hopefully have learned from it and I hope it would also help someone else out as well. Yes, this is a dating site but I've seen married people on here as well. So basically the site is what a person makes of it.
There is frustration because of this fast pace environment we live in we expect to get the same in finding a mate. When reality sets in that relationships are not found that way is when you see the drama. It it like a glass coke bottle where the smaller part of the glass is the frustration and the larger part of the glass is the fun time. I see more fun times than frustration and I've been here over a year now.
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| 4/16/2008 11:12:34 PM | what is going on here??? | |
datdardood
Murray, KY
age: 46
| It it like a glass coke bottle where the smaller part of the glass is the frustration and the larger part of the glass is the fun time. I see more fun times than frustration and I've been here over a year now.
oh sheeeeet! if that is yor responce to the thread, your gonna be on here for a few more years,EH?
i defer to one that seems much brighter than many of us
if possible do the math.......................
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| 4/16/2008 11:41:23 PM | what is going on here??? | |
your_sweetie
Yuba City, CA
age: 49
| wow
are we having a bad day?
yes they do cut loose in here at times.
with only being on here a short time how could you even know how most women are here.
Alot of it is fun and play. When people start to do put downs it's time to move to another thread.
Now you have started a thread for everyone to come b*tch....lol
thats funny
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| 4/17/2008 12:05:01 AM | what is going on here??? | |
ravishingred
Corona, CA
age: 37
| Sooo....You're bashing the bashers??? I am so abashed!! lol
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| 4/17/2008 3:58:27 AM | what is going on here??? | |
mrsmiles4444
Culpeper, VA
age: 52
| ok hear this. ON this site, or any site, you really need to see how many people are online at the same time. YOU DO THE MATH. you will find some having bashings, some talking amongst themselves, and others having fun in the forums. seems you have gone into threads that maybe are in a negative nature, thus giving you this bashing idea from some, and I use the word loosly, SOME.
If you are to make judgement after 2 short weeks, then you my good man, are a better man than I, but in life, as in love, and also in research, which is what I suggest you call it for the time being, you MUST allow time to show you the real colors of people, and NOT what a few say, simply because, we ALL HAVE our bad days. maybe the folks you refer to were having a bad day. JMO
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