| 4/16/2008 10:08:26 AM | why is so hard to find a relationship? | |
mrmarvel
Camden, NJ
age: 24
| Please somebody why?
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| 4/16/2008 10:46:34 AM | why is so hard to find a relationship? | |
wanda61
Biloxi, MS
age: 45
| Because too many peopple are hung up on looks and some crazy fantasy about what the other person has to act like or be like and forget that they aren't perfect themselves.
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| 4/16/2008 11:07:04 AM | why is so hard to find a relationship? | |
missyroo375
Suffern, NY
age: 21
| Maybe your looking to hard....Ya never know if what your looking for is right in front of you.
JMO
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| 4/16/2008 11:07:46 AM | why is so hard to find a relationship? | |
worhtlesswisdom
Dade City, FL
age: 41
| Because if it was easy to find a relationship, what challenges would there be in life?
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| 4/16/2008 11:08:27 AM | why is so hard to find a relationship? | |
stormygrl
Casa Grande, AZ
age: 42
| so many reasons - me i don't look I'm hoping it will find me...
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| 4/16/2008 11:13:48 AM | why is so hard to find a relationship? | |
grill_master
Crawfordsville, IN
age: 46
| You gotta get out and be nice and forward. Everyone says helloback at least once. And when they see you 3 times or more you become familiar to them and they speak much easier. But you must get past the cold start and communicate. And no bull just straight up politeness works.
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| 4/16/2008 11:21:38 AM | why is so hard to find a relationship? | |
grill_master
Crawfordsville, IN
age: 46
| missyroo you are so right, most people I have dated have been to the same places I have for years and sometimes live just a few blocks away.
[Edited 4/16/2008 11:22:09 AM]
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| 4/16/2008 11:23:59 AM | why is so hard to find a relationship? | |
desimann
Cambridge, ON
age: 28
| Stop jerking off all day long and go find a chick...lots to choose from.    
[Edited 4/16/2008 11:24:21 AM]
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| 4/16/2008 11:24:14 AM | why is so hard to find a relationship? | |
tahoefreak64
South Lake Tahoe, CA
age: 44
| what he said
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| 4/16/2008 11:43:58 AM | why is so hard to find a relationship? | |
fryyyy
North Kingstown, RI
age: 49
| I think that it's gonna be hard to find while your looking. You might try instead just to surround yourself with friends and then see what happens over time with that. I think if your looking for a relationship, your probably looking for the wrong reasons, and probably for the wrong things.
I think a lot of people blow by friendships that could have been, because they were so busy looking for a relationship. I dont think they stick around long enough for anything real to develop. I think if your looking for a relationship you might as well be looking for a russian bride or something. I'm not sure what the success rates there are.
To find new friends in your life try thinking of some activity that interests you, then go do it. If you spend time around new people and they share interests your bound to make a few friends just by proximity and common interests. Try something small yet new in your life every day or every week.. Stuff will slowly change to get you out of your rut i think.
Just being here is probably something new and different, so your off to a good start.
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| 4/16/2008 11:48:10 AM | why is so hard to find a relationship? | |
digiskillz
Conway, AR
age: 44
| Sounds like good advice to me
Well said
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| 4/16/2008 1:10:21 PM | why is so hard to find a relationship? | |
dontchababy2008
New Richmond, OH
age: 19
| Its not about looks how strong he is its about if he can treat u well n his personallity if he has a reputation of betting women get the heck away but u will find sum one to ur liking k
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| 4/16/2008 1:12:30 PM | why is so hard to find a relationship? | |
firstlight
Strasburg, VA
age: 48
| Because relationships take time to percolate and everyone wants instant.
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| 4/16/2008 5:57:38 PM | why is so hard to find a relationship? | |
mrmarvel
Camden, NJ
age: 24
| i try almost it all
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| 4/17/2008 9:18:13 AM | why is so hard to find a relationship? | |
sensuousmagic
Grand Prairie, TX
age: 57
| Maybe you are trying to hard!!!! Try finding a friend first that has things in common with you. Just remember, in a good relationship your partner must first be your best friend.  
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