| 4/17/2008 9:43:24 AM | I afrolicious have a dilema. | |
sensuousmagic
Parsons, KS
age: 56
| METU,
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| 4/17/2008 9:52:27 AM | I afrolicious have a dilema. | |
goodlyfe26
Scotch Plains, NJ
age: 27
| HELL NO he has no right and id miss you so ya ass betta not go nowhere lol!
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| 4/17/2008 9:53:08 AM | I afrolicious have a dilema. | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35 online now!
| please leave... please?
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| 4/17/2008 10:03:08 AM | I afrolicious have a dilema. | |
ptriley
Staten Island, NY
age: 47
| Evil thats funny.Afro,You are are an inspiration to the dark side.Don't go
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| 4/17/2008 10:18:17 AM | I afrolicious have a dilema. | |
bry11ca
Camp Verde, AZ
age: 43
| Why can't you two enjoy it together . . . get a new nickname . . . post a pic . . . and have some good natured fun. Be careful that he doesn't have the Green Beast in his heart.
Wishing you the best and if you do leave, let us post a good-bye party for you.
Bry 
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| 4/17/2008 10:36:47 AM | I afrolicious have a dilema. | |
stellablu
Saint Louis, MO
age: 50 online now!
| Everyone has an opinion....
Your choice however.
I got off once and missed my friends!
Rock and I have shared here, don't now, though. I felt I lost a part of myself sharing.
My emails are from friends, talk to a couple guys. Jason is non neg, Michael is my...baseball fantasy guy...WOW! That sounds cool! He'll love that!
It's all about you, what you want...
These folks are important to me! If they are to you, stay.
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| 4/17/2008 10:47:39 AM | I afrolicious have a dilema. | |
eightinchbend
Gadsden, AL
age: 44
| A lot of good input here, but I really like what both Muffycakes and Fryyyy have pointed out. The site is something you enjoy and it would be a shame for you to give it up; he wants you to cancel out of it because he only sees one purpose for DHU. "Meeting Singles In Your Area" is only one of many uses for DHU. Muffy has a great idea to invite him into your (Cyber)world. Don't focus so much on what words he reads in your posts, but let him discover how you think and interact with so many different people. Maybe at some point you can take a picture of yourselves together and post it to your profile.
Consider also this; you have learned a lot from the forums. We don't have all the answers to everything, but everyone chips in where they can help. The input on the forums is a great source for support, constructive criticism, verification of your own thoughts, and genuine concern. The real beauty about this site...all of this can apply to anything, not just dating. Convince him that what you have experienced on DHU has brought you into contact with people who are responsible for how you think and feel differently about yourself, and how you interact with people in general terms. Show him how the same things can happen for him.
Think back on how you felt about relationships before you created your account with DHU, and consider how you feel now. Is is possible the site made you less afraid of meeting someone? Tell him if it were not for DHU, you might have said no to him.
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| 4/17/2008 10:50:21 AM | I afrolicious have a dilema. | |
stellablu
Saint Louis, MO
age: 50 online now!
| exactly 
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| 4/17/2008 12:23:28 PM | I afrolicious have a dilema. | |
afrolicious
El Paso, TX
age: 28 online now!
| Oh gee thank you people for all of your input. I posted on another thread that he was going to come over my apartment yesterday and I was going to cook him dinner. I was nervous, but every thing was great. I cooked him chile colorado with mexican rice. For those of you that don't know what that is, it's pork cut into pieces with small cubed potatoes mixed with red chile. AND HE LOVED IT. He was getting along with my kids and that's very important. We laughed and picked on each other. He gave me a piggy back ride lol. And we made out.  even if we may have wanted to do more we didn't, and we have an understanding that we were going to wait till we both are ready. He left at a decent time around 9:30. And he already has the weekend planned for us.
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| 4/17/2008 12:28:29 PM | I afrolicious have a dilema. | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35 online now!
| ya that's right.. you make the man his dinner... good girl.
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| 4/17/2008 12:40:13 PM | I afrolicious have a dilema. | |
sweetiepie1977
Jacksonville, FL
age: 31 online now!
| Its all about TRUST babe....
I just recently started dating someone and he CLOSED out his DH profile however he trusts me and knows that I am only on here, like you, for the fun amusement and drama....so he told me if I wanted to keep the DH profile it is ok...as long as I state on my profile that I am not looking for any boyfriend or hookups...which I already took care of that. Now mind you, I am the one that told him that that is what I was gonna do, he just said ok to it.
I will NOT give up my DH acct for NO ONE....if you have to, just delete the pics or leave 1 on and state in your profile that you have a man that you are not looking for anything. I would just tell him truthfully, "I am not going to delete my acct, its kind of like Myspace and its fun, a great cure for boredom, you should trust that I am not doing anything behind your back".....
At least thats what my man knows about me....he isnt concerned, I know what I have with him is a GREAT thing and I am NOT willing to jeopardize that for anyone. JMO
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| 4/17/2008 12:42:19 PM | I afrolicious have a dilema. | |
afrolicious
El Paso, TX
age: 28 online now!
| All right here is the 411 on him. He is younger than me 24, but he is very independent and a hard worker. Caucasian. Straight up country. His name is Jesse and my name is Jessica. So we both get mixed up because people call us both Jess.
We have nothing in common. I like hard core rap he likes rock. He loves dogs I am utterly afraid of dogs. He likes the country I like the city. He likes traveling I am stationary. Totally diverse but I tend to date guys that are my total opposite. Totally adorable. And he thinks that I am really pretty.
This may not be for long term who knows but I'm having alot of fun thus far.
Oh yeah by the way he washed my dishes last night when we were done eating. He said he has to earn his keep because I cooked for him. That was weird but I said hey go ahead.
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| 4/17/2008 12:43:53 PM | I afrolicious have a dilema. | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35 online now!
| That's a lot of personal information you just posted there.
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| 4/17/2008 12:55:07 PM | I afrolicious have a dilema. | |
oldeschoolcharm
Monroe, WA
age: 46
| Sounds like a straight-up guy so far. Good for you.
Perhaps he does not understand that DH is more than just a "dating site".
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| 4/17/2008 2:18:56 PM | I afrolicious have a dilema. | |
daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54 online now!
| Well if you can't tell him you are here for friends only, and post that on your profile, he doesn't trust somebody, and without trust the rest don't matter. No one has the right to demand you do something, I'd consider them control freaks.You friends will be your friends long after most dates have come and gone. But its up to you, how real do you think this budding relationship is
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