| 4/16/2008 6:27:51 PM | Do I need to be a b*tch to get a man? | |
kittycat23
Santa Ana, CA
age: 30
| I dont get it. Im not crazy nor am I drama. Im smart, no kids, never been married, I make sure that Im kept up. When I have a man I take good care of him in every way....yet Im still single. Do I need to NOT be sweet and be a b*tch? I go to the stores and malls and see these men chasing these horrible woman that disrepect them and I cant get a date...Do men like being treated like this
[Edited 4/16/2008 6:34:49 PM]
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| 4/16/2008 6:30:49 PM | Do I need to be a b*tch to get a man? | |
teddybearforu
Oshkosh, WI
age: 36
| yeah, i would say that sounds real effective ?
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| 4/16/2008 6:32:46 PM | Do I need to be a b*tch to get a man? | |
xpureluckx
Cerritos, CA
age: 62
| Its the cats, trust me on this one. It is definitely the cats.
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| 4/16/2008 6:35:56 PM | Do I need to be a b*tch to get a man? | |
niceguy0487
Zanesfield, OH
age: 20
| keep tryin youll get there and no you dont hafto be a b*tch most guys dont like it in my opinion!
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| 4/16/2008 6:41:56 PM | Do I need to be a b*tch to get a man? | |
kittycat23
Santa Ana, CA
age: 30
| Teddy, Im not saying I want to be...Im asking should I? Apparently it works.
BTW, Pureluck. Leave my pussies alone. Its better than 2 screaming brats!
Thanks niceguy for your kind words.
 V
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| 4/16/2008 6:44:38 PM | Do I need to be a b*tch to get a man? | |
towtrk1
Groton, CT
age: 36
| A b*tch? NO...
A balance of sass, attitude, and confidence is something a lil different. Something men will respond to.
What's this about cats??? I didnt read your profile, but are you being nominated for "Cat Lady" of the year? That could be turning guys away, too.
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| 4/16/2008 6:55:05 PM | Do I need to be a b*tch to get a man? | |
drumrman
Belmont, MA
age: 43
| kittycat, where have u been all my life? 
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| 4/16/2008 7:13:39 PM | Do I need to be a b*tch to get a man? | |
niceguy0487
Zanesfield, OH
age: 20
| welcome!
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| 4/16/2008 7:17:00 PM | Do I need to be a b*tch to get a man? | |
kittycat23
Santa Ana, CA
age: 30
| Awww, drumrman. In Cali, thats for sure! I wasnt trying to be mean or rude with my posting. But, it seems thats being sweet and catering to a man isnt enough. I think that they want to be slapped around. Its almost like women with their bad boys~
[Edited 4/16/2008 7:17:24 PM]
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| 4/16/2008 7:42:50 PM | Do I need to be a b*tch to get a man? | |
xpureluckx
Cerritos, CA
age: 62
| O.K so I bring up cat's and it offends you to the point you call kids brats?
Like my original post says. Its the cats, trust me! It is definitely the cats.
FYI little girls ages 3 and 7 are not brats 
Also if you want to try the b*tch route, be ready for the aftermath it will cause. The world is full of people with a sharp tongue and the Wit to twist things the wrong way!
OMG kinda sexual in that last note sweet!
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| 4/16/2008 7:54:50 PM | Do I need to be a b*tch to get a man? | |
bry11ca
Buellton, CA
age: 43
| Kitty,
Just be yourself. Would you really want a guy that doesn't want you for who you are?
My suggestion is that talk a little bit more about the type of guy you want in your profile so that he knows that you are more compatible when he reads it.
Bry 
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| 4/16/2008 7:56:16 PM | Do I need to be a b*tch to get a man? | |
b_86
Dekalb, IL
age: 22
| I agree with Nicguy's post. Most guys don't like girls bein b*tches. Just maybe work on more confidence (but not too much confidence bc that can come off as b*tchiness)and just be yourself. That's all you can do and the right guy will come along soon enough. Personally I think that you may even have the genders switched. Seems to me that most girls are turned on by guys being overconfident assholes (which I refuse to be which could be my problem). Also just remember that guys want what they can't seem to have so maybe play a little hard to get. Sounds like you have a lot of potential - recognize that potential and you'll get the confident boost you may need.
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| 4/16/2008 8:01:25 PM | Do I need to be a b*tch to get a man? | |
kittycat23
Santa Ana, CA
age: 30
| I doesnt offend me. And Im not saying all kids are brats. I love the babies in my life (my friends kids) But I hardly think thats what it is. Should I have a lil lap dog and take it everywhere I go and put it in my purse like most girls? I prefer cats since they are independant. Besides, my kittycats are very likeable
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| 4/16/2008 8:06:14 PM | Do I need to be a b*tch to get a man? | |
smile_4me
Palmdale, CA
age: 27
| WOW!! you too? I often ask that question because I wonder what the hell is up with that. And for those of you who say "boost confidence", "hard to get" none of it works. I too have witnessed women strip men of their manhood and they keep coming back! I'm read to holler and throw up both my hands! 
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| 4/16/2008 8:10:11 PM | Do I need to be a b*tch to get a man? | |
fourbars
Alva, OK
age: 23
| is it me or should her name be in pink????
the women here have their screen name in pink letters...and the guys blue...i think you may have missed something or misread something when making your profile...but than again..i may be wrong with some of these updates that are going on in this site as well..
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