| 4/16/2008 8:58:33 PM | I'm heartbroken also! Help | |
destination63
Jonesboro, GA
age: 45
|  I just ended a 3 month relationship with someone I was falling in love with and it was one of the hardest things I had to do! It's definately over this time I can't take it anymore. At first we got along good and wanted the same things but then I found that the least little thing seemed to agitate him and he seemed to stay mad and then would get mad if I got mad about him being mad!. What started out all right went down hill really fast to the point where I was wondering am I losing my mind?. When a person makes you feel like that; it's time to move on. But I can't help but feel lonely and hurt although I know I'll get over him sooner or later but right now I'm depressed. Talk to me people I need lots of encouragement!
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| 4/16/2008 9:08:02 PM | I'm heartbroken also! Help | |
bobbiemgee
Conway, SC
age: 42
| Been 3 months since mine ended. So your NOT alone!!
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| 4/16/2008 9:17:43 PM | I'm heartbroken also! Help | |
onefunguy30
Twin Falls, ID
age: 30
| ladies you both are beautiful and some doors that close even tho it may be hard, it's to open up new doors. So chin up and smile your pretty smiles. You never know what the future holds.
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| 4/16/2008 9:17:43 PM | I'm heartbroken also! Help | |
destination63
Jonesboro, GA
age: 45
| I know Bobbie and thanks...It will get better day by day.
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| 4/16/2008 9:20:41 PM | I'm heartbroken also! Help | |
destination63
Jonesboro, GA
age: 45
| Thanks onefunnyguy....I'm feeling better already! 
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| 4/16/2008 9:39:25 PM | I'm heartbroken also! Help | |
whiteshoo
Silvis, IL
age: 48
| Well at least you didn't invest any more time into this relationship.Better to get while the gettins good. You've expressed something that seemed to go wrong here so build on that & try not to get caught up in that web again. I know you're hurting now but things will get better. Keep your head up & know in your heart that there's someone out there who's better for you than what you just had, and don't look back. JMO 
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| 4/16/2008 9:40:16 PM | I'm heartbroken also! Help | |
davewave1
Ann Arbor, MI
age: 61
| You have a lovely smile, intelligence, are certainly quite beautiful and from this thread, a woman capable of deep caring and devotion.
Give it time. Think of your situation like this: There is one very nice thing about taking out the garbage and putting it on the curb. It is almost always gone the next day.
Put this bad situation out of your mind and on the curb where it belongs. Then go to the grocery store and treat yourself to some thing sweet and good for you and those you love.
Cheers!
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| 4/16/2008 9:41:00 PM | I'm heartbroken also! Help | |
bobbiemgee
Conway, SC
age: 42
| It has gotten better,just the way it ended was BAD!!
You ever want someone to vent to...im here.
Didnt really have anyone myself and it SUCKED.
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| 4/16/2008 10:26:03 PM | I'm heartbroken also! Help | |
daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54 online now!
| Consider yourself lucky it could have gone a lot farther before you found out and your heart would be broken in a lot more places than it is now. Its small constellation but like they say if you can't swim it's better to find the water getting deeper than step off the ledge.
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| 4/16/2008 10:41:26 PM | I'm heartbroken also! Help | |
destination63
Jonesboro, GA
age: 45
| I thank all of you for listening to me and encouraging me. It means a lot to me and I'm going to get back in the saddle. Besides, he wasn't worthy of my love anyway come to think of it!
I've updated my profile to let men know exactly what I'm looking for (and don't want!). (hope it helps now)
Thanks again all, I feel a lot better.
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| 4/17/2008 1:46:47 AM | I'm heartbroken also! Help | |
snowonevergreen
Monroe, MI
age: 39
| Dear destination, We all have been there before, it's a fact of
life right of passage for a lack of better word's, regection is
one of our hardest thing's to deal with, but remember you got through
it before and one day you will wake up and it won't hurt anymore.
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| 4/17/2008 2:04:25 AM | I'm heartbroken also! Help | |
irparis39
New York, NY
age: 49
| He had anger issues, consider yourself lucky. Don't you dare lose one more minute of sleep over this man, he's not worthy of you.
Someone with anger issues, well, you just never know how that anger eventually is going to spill out and you're going to be in the way of deflecting that anger emotionally, physically and mentally abuse. That!! is going to make you even more a lone and hurt. Remember, love is action word...if the relationship doesn't reflect what your interpretation of LOVE is, its not love.
As everyone else says you're both beautiful women. You recognize an issue that might be potentially harmful down the line and your survival instincts went into self preservation mode. Remember this is just as much about you as it is you as a couple. If it doesn't make you feel safe, then go with your gut feeling. Your feelings, hard though it might be to carpartmentize them, will find its place to be stored. Its just how the brain works due to your recognition of danger. Should such an experience surface again, you brain will then recognize the actions and super warn you again. So don't beat yourself up. You've become one more woman determine to have a healthy realtionship with her partner and herself and not a hospital emergency room.
paris
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| 4/17/2008 3:12:42 AM | I'm heartbroken also! Help | |
ariesera
Albuquerque, NM
age: 58
| Been there, done that too many times. I have written this for myself and for those like us who have had to deal with a broken heart, and I hope it helps you and everyone in some way:
"Let the river of our tears flow downstream into the vast oceans to be forgotten, but always a reminder of what they've made us today."
Find closure and move on. Do not dwell on what was or could have been, but what you have learned and never forget it. Love hurts, but love heals.
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| 4/17/2008 3:50:58 AM | I'm heartbroken also! Help | |
bobbiemgee
Conway, SC
age: 42
| Im glad and Hope you are doing better,wish I could that fast....lol
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| 4/17/2008 8:15:30 AM | I'm heartbroken also! Help | |
baltimorebob
Gwynn Oak, MD
age: 58
| Good Women & Good Men get their Heart Broken.
Bob
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