| 4/17/2008 8:49:18 PM | Why are you here? really? | |
pwin_here_n_now
Annapolis, MD
age: 39
| 2 Smart.....
You said what I about to say before I could post!  Thank you! Now I can keep this short.
Laz: I understand the frustration. And Agree that way too much bashing goes on in "generalities" and out venting....
You also, as I percieve it vented. As humans we all need to do so on occassion.
Bottom line is most are here to find that special person. What each person's preferences are - infact - Are unique to them. Not something to looked down upon - but respected as you would like your preferences respected.
This is a "dating tool" - it is not an instant fix - it takes time - it takes exploration - and requires patience, a sense of humor, and an open heart!
And that doesn't mean that every heart has to be open to open to every person! - if that were the case, could you imagine the orgy? No one would ever make that special connection... We'd all be too busy jumping from one to next...
Rather than letting small minded people who bash everyone ruffle feathers... why not laugh and feel sorry for them? Who wants to be someone who rants on the forums?
Peace!
p.Win
P.S. Shorter than it would have been... AND sorry for the typos.... but ya'll get my drift.
[Edited 4/17/2008 8:57:11 PM]
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| 4/17/2008 8:52:40 PM | Why are you here? really? | |
dej88
Harrisburg, PA
age: 59
| Judy, That was a wonderful post. Thanks for adding your thoughts. I really don't think they were talking about people in your age bracket. It think it was meant for some people he is not physically attracted to and I don't think he was referring to any one age group but I love your group. ( I'll be there soon.) I wish you a lot of luck.
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| 4/17/2008 8:55:20 PM | Why are you here? really? | |
indiannwoods
Evans, GA
age: 49
| I think all of you think you are PERFECT. How about going back later and reading what you posted.
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| 4/17/2008 8:59:19 PM | Why are you here? really? | |
knittinkitten
Lady Lake, FL
age: 72
| You know, dej, I really try to give much thought to my posts....(maybe I have a slight advantage from being a writer and Editor for many years), but I'm realizing, that at a time when our eyes may begin to dim a bit, our mind's eye opens wider and wider, and, we can finally SEE things that eluded us for many years.
You see, I can even find good words to say about old age....
Thanks, hon, for your kind words...I try.
Fondly,
KK
Judy
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| 4/17/2008 9:04:04 PM | Why are you here? really? | |
indiannwoods
Evans, GA
age: 49
| Kitten everyone should think like you. It will take us a long time to have your wisdom.
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| 4/17/2008 9:05:01 PM | Why are you here? really? | |
pallyboy
Ramona, CA
age: 48
| I am! I am perfect! Just ask Me4. I can be a perfect Ass! 
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| 4/17/2008 9:07:15 PM | Why are you here? really? | |
ladyvirtue52
Redding, CA
age: 52
| Hey chaos, here here! I agree with you 100%! We all are entitled to our preferences. 
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| 4/17/2008 9:08:28 PM | Why are you here? really? | |
classyguy333
West Fargo, ND
age: 57
| I'm feelin' the love in the original posters' post.
Shame on all you gals. (If you gals don't carry Mace, maybe you should start. Ya might just meet some crasies out there.)
 
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| 4/17/2008 9:15:38 PM | Why are you here? really? | |
dej88
Harrisburg, PA
age: 59
| Thanks, Judy. BTW, you are not old until you say you are. Ignore everyone else!
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| 4/17/2008 9:17:01 PM | Why are you here? really? | |
bethlett
Spokane, WA
age: 89
| KnittenKitten!!!! 
You are the most intelligent and wise woman I know, not to mention a hottie who could run circles around half of us here! I wish I could convince you to start dating those 30 year old pool boys. LOLOL
Red Hats Unite!!!!
Ok, I lied before. I'm also here because I love the women. And NO, NOT THAT WAY,,,,
And NO, Pally, you canNOT watch, you trashy little treasure you! ROFL
 
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| 4/17/2008 9:21:04 PM | Why are you here? really? | |
pallyboy
Ramona, CA
age: 48
| No fair reading my mind before you get to know me!
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| 4/17/2008 9:21:55 PM | Why are you here? really? | |
belladreams
Binghamton, NY
age: 38
| I carry pepper spray...the ones the police officers carry......I am here to find a nice guy, a decent guy, a guy who smiles, a guy who laughs, a guy who crys, a guy who mourns, a guy who cuddles, a guy who kisses, a guy who just believes that love can happen within a blink of an eye. I am not looking for anyone perfect. I dont care about the color of your skin, how much you weigh, how much you bench press, how much you eat, how old you are, what the size of your wee wee is... sorry had to add that in there.. time is running out for me...i will be 38 next month...i have been single for ten years. I deserve happiness as well as that man does who is waiting for me as i am waiting for him. So what are you guys waiting for? I just dont understand. Alright, im going to play marine corps. Everbody up......
For those of you who are interested in a nice, pretty attractive italian female from upstate ny who's job is relocatable in 50 states, please leave me a message in my mailbox and kindly wait for the beep......BEEP.......and i will tell you....you may think this is funny.......but i swear on my sons life.....i am being dead serious......
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| 4/17/2008 9:24:35 PM | Why are you here? really? | |
bry11ca
Canton, MI
age: 44
| Knitten,
My friends say that I should watch your posts to glean wisdom from them. I have read your profile and am intrigued by your artistic sense and accomplishments. My mother is in the league of Red Hat Ladies and is also quite beautiful.
I'm looking forward to it.
Bry
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| 4/17/2008 9:28:06 PM | Why are you here? really? | |
traveller64
Cambridge, ON
age: 44
| Bella, only in 50 states??? What about Canada??
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| 4/17/2008 9:30:15 PM | Why are you here? really? | |
indiannwoods
Evans, GA
age: 49
| Hey bud she already posted another thread !
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