| 4/18/2008 9:48:45 PM | BREAKING UP: Do you have to have the last word? | |
dyezah
North Little Rock, AR
age: 36
| When I'm done, I'm done. Why bother trying to convince that person that they lost the next greatest thing to sliced bread? 
Don't people as a general rule either do one of two things?
Oh yeah?!!! Well you suck eggs because....
or
You can't make it/live/function w/o me...
[Edited 4/18/2008 9:51:51 PM]
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| 4/18/2008 10:38:48 PM | BREAKING UP: Do you have to have the last word? | |
fryyyy
North Kingstown, RI
age: 49
| If a relationship is over there's nothing left to say.
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| 4/18/2008 11:16:23 PM | BREAKING UP: Do you have to have the last word? | |
chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47
| Hell ya I'm gonna have my say!!!
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| 4/19/2008 2:55:54 AM | BREAKING UP: Do you have to have the last word? | |
singleagain50
Greenville, SC
age: 50
| When it reaches a certain point, I'm just happy to get out, I don't care what they say.
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| 4/19/2008 4:57:28 AM | BREAKING UP: Do you have to have the last word? | |
freebirdvt
Milton, VT
age: 51
| every girl I went out with we are still friends and I always wish then the best...or if they needed something i would be there to help,,,,it to hard to turning a good love that we once had into something ugly,,,,,well when i brake up i feel sorry for a while but I know when one door with close another will open.....I still have these lady friends always treat me good for christmas and my birthday...its not about sex it always about being into a x lovers heart for life..some people think of love from they pants but my love comes 100 percent from the heart...in life sometimes we dont like the cards that are delt to us but make the best of the hand you were delt...dan
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| 4/19/2008 11:20:51 AM | BREAKING UP: Do you have to have the last word? | |
speedydonut
Palestine, TX
age: 57
| If the differences are irreconcilable, whether that's my decision or his, I have already said anything that mattered, and I could talk 'til I'm blue in the face with no desirable result.
Anybody remember the Far Side cartoon with the man talking to the dog? First frame is labelled "you say..." and the caption is "Ginger, you are such a good dog..." Second frame is labelled "she hears..." and the caption is "Ginger, blah blah blah blah blah".
 
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| 4/19/2008 11:33:40 AM | BREAKING UP: Do you have to have the last word? | |
magtag
East York, ON
age: 41
| If I have chosen to end a relationship, I will most certainly tell the person why, I think it's only fair. But, after the initial conversation and explanation, there would be no more communication about it, unless that person requested it due to a need to feel closure. However, if he has ended the relationship and has told me why, regardless of the reason, I will move on.
I believe that arguing should have a purpose/goal. Once you've achieved the purpose/goal, the arguement should end. Bickering back and forth just to get the last word is not productive, it's destructive.
If someone wants the last word, let them have it. Only they have to live with it, I've already moved along.
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