| 4/18/2008 2:47:08 PM | BREAKING UP: Do you have to have the last word? | |
pleasurepirate
Shreveport, LA
age: 47
| | 1. Damn right! I'm gonna have my say! | | 2. Who cares if you're not trying to get back together? |
If a relationship has met your definition of "beyond repair," do you have to put in your two cents worth and tell them why they are no longer worthy of you and/or your love or time?
If they blow you off, and you don't want it to go on either, but you think they misjudged you or said something you disagreed with, do you feel the uncontrollable urge to set them straight? If so, do you indulge it?
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| 4/18/2008 2:55:18 PM | BREAKING UP: Do you have to have the last word? | |
honeyheart95
Elkins, WV
age: 35
| Don't know but closure sure would have been nice !!!
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| 4/18/2008 3:06:10 PM | BREAKING UP: Do you have to have the last word? | |
pleasurepirate
Shreveport, LA
age: 47
| If you each still disagree, will you ever achieve closure? Isn't there a point where you just figure it's not worth the tit for tat?
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| 4/18/2008 4:17:41 PM | BREAKING UP: Do you have to have the last word? | |
gr8stwoman
Napa, CA
age: 41
| If he does something where I feel I MUST "set him straight," yes, I'm going to have my say. After all, when the relationship is over, its over. I can get "closure" just by saying what I feel needs to be said. I'm rather "disgustingly kind," though. That's why I have been known as "gr8stwoman," a nickname given by my exes.
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| 4/18/2008 4:18:46 PM | BREAKING UP: Do you have to have the last word? | |
drumrman
Belmont, MA
age: 43 online now!
| when it's over, it's over! if she has to have the last word, fine! so what, let her.
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| 4/18/2008 4:22:00 PM | BREAKING UP: Do you have to have the last word? | |
kfab1023
Jacksonville, FL
age: 52
| Hmmm just me but yeap I always try to have the last word Hey Drum
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| 4/18/2008 4:22:41 PM | BREAKING UP: Do you have to have the last word? | |
57rickie
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 57
| Yep, I'm stubborn that way. Plus after what he said and did, he needed to know exactly how Badly he hurt me Did I do it in person, NO, I wrote him a letter and sent it. Somehow when its in Black & White it has a tendency to Sink in better. Yep, Its Over, hes DEAD
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| 4/18/2008 4:24:06 PM | BREAKING UP: Do you have to have the last word? | |
hkm
Bloomington, IL
age: 37
| I always have to jhave the last word, even if it is just in an argument. I don't like bein that way but just how I am. 
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| 4/18/2008 4:25:37 PM | BREAKING UP: Do you have to have the last word? | |
your_sweetie
Yuba City, CA
age: 49
| well mine is defined as way way beyond repair.
I do put my 2 cents in only due too a business we still run together.
also I have no problem giving my 2 cents on my daughter's future.
As for my marriage, I really don't care and have not for a long time.
I know there was a lot of miss judging and disagreeing but it's not worth
my time to set it straight.
so no I wont indulge it.
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| 4/18/2008 4:28:43 PM | BREAKING UP: Do you have to have the last word? | |
bella2020
Lebanon, OH
age: 47
| Yes some way I will have the last say,It might not always be in words,I can wait as long as it takes to get the last words or actions in.But when Im done Im done ,don't make the mistake of trying to come back ,Thats when I will have the last say
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| 4/18/2008 4:54:43 PM | BREAKING UP: Do you have to have the last word? | |
cosmoisin
Santa Rita, GU
age: 66 online now!
| Distance is a great safety Buffer, I like at least 100 Miles...
 If she is willing to go that far to see me, then I know she ia action orented...
 Also at 100 Miles, when the relationship turns South, it don't matter what she say's, because you will never hear it... 
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| 4/18/2008 4:59:59 PM | BREAKING UP: Do you have to have the last word? | |
epiphany4me
Bullhead City, AZ
age: 47
| I usually get the last word because as I'm
tossed from the moving car I yell:
Noooooooooooooooooo
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| 4/18/2008 5:04:12 PM | BREAKING UP: Do you have to have the last word? | |
metu
Mansfield, TX
age: 46 online now!
| Good idea in theory, Cosmo but what happens when they keep following you? I moved 750mi away only to have him pop up 90mi from me. Kinda' like dog sh*t on my shoe.......
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| 4/18/2008 5:07:01 PM | BREAKING UP: Do you have to have the last word? | |
oldeschoolcharm
Monroe, WA
age: 46
| What's the point?
I'm more concerned if I've let the physical relationship go further than I would have liked in the hope that the relationship would have some sense of permanence.
My only real concern is whether we are breaking up over some misunderstanding or miscommunication.
[Edited 4/18/2008 5:08:11 PM]
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| 4/18/2008 6:28:44 PM | BREAKING UP: Do you have to have the last word? | |
pleasurepirate
Shreveport, LA
age: 47
| Good point, old school!
If you know the differences are irreconcilable, do you still feel the need to have your say? Take your parting shots?
[Edited 4/18/2008 7:02:46 PM]
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