| 4/18/2008 8:40:43 PM | Hey big women do you agree? | |
mcb90826
Barberton, OH
age: 18
| ya know, i am so fed up with threads that bash or insult us big girls, seriously people need to learn to think about the people they might hurt. and most of the people who post those threads ain't no ken or barbie! so all you out there tell me whether you agree or disagree! 
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| 4/18/2008 8:45:31 PM | Hey big women do you agree? | |
homesteder
Red Deer, AB
age: 43
| I agree mc....give em hell
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| 4/18/2008 8:48:06 PM | Hey big women do you agree? | |
katrina_sq
Mena, AR
age: 39
| Some people are just shallow inconsiderate a**holes. Ignore them. I do. They are not worth my time and aggravation.
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| 4/18/2008 8:50:31 PM | Hey big women do you agree? | |
dej88
Harrisburg, PA
age: 59
| Im with you, Mc. There is no reason to insult anybody for the way they look, tall or short, big or small, No reason to insult because of faith, color, or any other stupid reason. I know who you are talking about and he and that other jerk should be banned from the site if they can't grow up and be nice. It's okay to joke but it is not okay to be so cruel.
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| 4/18/2008 8:50:51 PM | Hey big women do you agree? | |
angel1963
Portage, WI
age: 45
| hay mcb i agree with ya but i just don't let them get to me i am very secure in who iam and if people don't like the way i look they dont have to look at me.. and besides there opinion means nothing to me so no harm
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| 4/18/2008 8:51:05 PM | Hey big women do you agree? | |
yournextangel
Johnston, IA
age: 43
| YEAH you go girl... give em heck...lol... I feel that I am not the biggest but that there is just more of me to LOVE... everyone just needs to learn to not look at the outside but see the inner person... don't get me wrong having someone nice looking on your arm is good... but I would rather have a HEART of gold with a personality instead of a DUD of a stud....
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| 4/18/2008 8:51:10 PM | Hey big women do you agree? | |
striker29527
London, KY
age: 46
| can't blame you at all for getting bent at the "immature teenagers" who just got the shitstorm stirring. just ignore them and they will get tired and go away
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| 4/18/2008 8:52:07 PM | Hey big women do you agree? | |
lildevil19
Dothan, AL
age: 20
| i agree because some people have medical conditions that make it hard for them to lose weight i gained 40 pds in one month because of a thyroid disorder and still havent been able to get it off
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| 4/18/2008 8:52:50 PM | Hey big women do you agree? | |
dej88
Harrisburg, PA
age: 59
| There should be more people like striker on the site.
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| 4/18/2008 8:53:14 PM | Hey big women do you agree? | |
tracey12
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 33
| i agree some of the posts are rotten and uncalled for with the only purpose to hurt someone .  
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| 4/18/2008 8:54:20 PM | Hey big women do you agree? | |
classyguy333
West Fargo, ND
age: 57
| My mother had a good line for a**holes like that. She would say, "Some people have the tact of a bulldozer!"  Hats off Mom. 
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| 4/18/2008 8:55:45 PM | Hey big women do you agree? | |
dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 45
| Sorry, not a big woman but I do agree. These people are out to get theirs kicks out of you. They have no life or self esteem of their own so they bash on people to get their kicks. They thrive on your responses.
Then, the offended go into those threads and attack the attacker. 
Just stay out and ignore the trolls. Trolls post in order to inflame others. It's their only purpose in life. If you take away the purpose, they die. The moral of the story...Ignore offensive trolls and they will go away.
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| 4/18/2008 8:55:53 PM | Hey big women do you agree? | |
markzander2
Madison Heights, MI
age: 36
| I agree 100% if you need comfort food, you need comfort food, lots of people dont realize that most obese people have a problem with a gland or chemical imbalance that causes morbid obesity, so screw people who are shallow and want to be with someone that has little self control, those people are crazy!!!
so you tell them!!!
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| 4/18/2008 8:58:39 PM | Hey big women do you agree? | |
littlebumblebee
Hamilton, OH
age: 48
| I agree just ignore it.Put a post who want to date ugly faced men and see how they like it.
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| 4/18/2008 8:59:51 PM | Hey big women do you agree? | |
oldeschoolcharm
Monroe, WA
age: 47 online now!
| i gained 40 pds in one month because of a thyroid disorder and still havent been able to get it off
You gained 40 lbs. in a month because you consumed 40x3500=140000 kcal more than you burned, ignoring water retention (which is probably at most 10 lbs.) So, call it 30x3500/30 or 3500 kcal a day more than you burned.
Geez, your disorder must have had you eating like a horse, or your metabolism must have slowed to a crawl!
If I were eating that much, I'd see a doctor right away (within days) to get something to control the appetite. At that rate, you'd be dead within 6-9 months.
I understand how illness can affect appetite and metabolism, but if you don't like the effect, do something about it.
I don't mind obese people who are comfortable with themselves. I mind when they complain that few find them physically attractive. I'm short and many women find that unattractive. You don't hear me complaining about it.
Yes, for another obese person to make a disparaging comment about weight is hypocricy and smacks of a societal double standard, but still.
I was skinny-fat. Still am a bit. I didn't like it and started doing something about it. It's called "diet and exercise". It's a lot of work, a lot of pain (DOMS), and very slow gains. I have a lot of respect for people who get into great shape and are trying to.
I accept people who are obese and comfortable with themselves. But, I will not find them attractive, and I can't imagine having sex with someone when there is a big belly in the way. While I do find the missionary position rather old fashioned, a great deal of emotional closeness comes from being face to face "during the deed".
I could even get attached to someone overweight and working to lose it, with the prospect of sex when they are closer to my size, but that's about my limit.
I can wish that such people find partners who are comfortable with them. But, I can't be -- mostly because I am a small guy.
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