| 4/20/2008 6:51:54 AM | Advise for a Cheater | |
starshadow
Carthage, TN
age: 34
| My moral is not to cheat and I don't participate with someone who does........If you are not happy where you are in that relationship, you really should evaluate your situation, and decide on what you want.....cheating is not a happy place to be on either end.
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| 4/20/2008 6:56:35 AM | Advise for a Cheater | |
whosyour51
Plymouth, IN
age: 57
| Well that sounds like good morals to have.Like you wrote, why be in one if its not where you really want to be. No cheating for me. I have the time, i hope to find the good one.
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| 4/20/2008 6:57:13 AM | Advise for a Cheater | |
susansheart839
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 60
| I agree. I did not even think about dating until the ink on the final decree was dry. Can't say the same about the ex, but I am not frantically looking for someone to take care of me the way he is.
Question for the viewing audience: Is chatting online with the opposite sex while your spouse is waiting for you to do something together considered cheating?
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| 4/20/2008 7:02:07 AM | Advise for a Cheater | |
ariesera
Roswell, NM
age: 58
| Cheating is a sign of not trusting yourself or others. Avoid situations that could lead to it. Remind yourself constantly of what you have at the present time. Once you have lost it, you may never find it again.
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| 4/20/2008 8:33:00 AM | Advise for a Cheater | |
susansheart839
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 60
| Here's a good one for morality class 101: the ex's current g/f is "separated" from her husband, but still living with him, "fell in love" with my ex within 24 hours but had not met him yet, and their first date was a hotel room! Both of them are classless in my eyes.
And Airies, I agree with you 100%!
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| 4/20/2008 8:39:38 AM | Advise for a Cheater | |
davewave1
Ann Arbor, MI
age: 61
| Read the Biography of John and Lorena Bobbitt. It will not take very long. It was cut "short"..........
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| 4/20/2008 8:51:47 AM | Advise for a Cheater | |
cdw51
Old Hickory, TN
age: 51
| I've never been a cheater, but have been cheated on .
It changes every aspect of a relationship, and makes you question everything that has ever happened.
Why disrespect a relationship like that? 
If it's not what you want, free yourself & the other person first, then go about your merry little way!! 
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| 4/20/2008 9:40:02 AM | Advise for a Cheater | |
geron
Paris, IL
age: 52
| You don't race a cheetah!
You don't box a kangeroo!
You don't cheat on a person you love!
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| 4/20/2008 11:24:14 AM | Advise for a Cheater | |
redneckhippy
Pottsboro, TX
age: 40
| The only advice that I can think of to give to a cheater is,
The highway is that way -------------------------------------->
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| 4/20/2008 5:53:54 PM | Advise for a Cheater | |
sdlove23
San Diego, CA
age: 26
| on what arisa or what ever his name is, cheating has nothing to do with trusting yourself or the other, cheating is all in the hormones and the fact that it's a stimulating thing to do, the thought of bieng with someone else and not bieng caught leads to get like a natural "high". cheating is the worst thing that one person can do to the other. if we thought more with our brains and less with our hormones, there wouldn't be any cheating.
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| 4/20/2008 6:03:26 PM | Advise for a Cheater | |
alittle_country
Gilmer, TX
age: 48
| I totaly agree with redneckhippy
Hit the road jack and don't let the
doorknob hit you where the good lord split ya
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| 4/20/2008 7:01:01 PM | Advise for a Cheater | |
daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54
| MY ADVICE TO A CHEATER Please shoot your stupid self and save some decent person with a broken heart from doing it for you. Since we all know if you cheat on the last one you'll cheat on the next one, making you totally useless to yourself or anyone else. PS take your damn ego with you..........is that considered impolite? And I'm trying to be so PC
[Edited 4/20/2008 7:01:49 PM]
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| 4/20/2008 7:03:12 PM | Advise for a Cheater | |
ptriley
Staten Island, NY
age: 47 online now!
| Show them the door.
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| 4/20/2008 7:24:39 PM | Advise for a Cheater | |
ariesera
Roswell, NM
age: 58
| SDLove, the name is ARIES' ERA. Maybe you should check out my radio station at live365.com/stations/dv4012 and see where I get all of my thoughts from. You seem to be in need of some good soothing sounds in your life. LOL
Hormones are just the physical aspect of what motivates us to do the things we do. It is the heart and soul that you cheat on when those hormones kick in; both yours and the one you cheat on. Feeling the need to have more in one's life is perhaps as old as time. It's called greed. No matter what form it may take in our lives, we always want more, better, and the need to fulfill our own desires.
Where does the need to cheat arise from? Did we lack something in our childhood or adult lives? Or is it just the need to achieve self gratification at the expense of other's feelings?
aries-era
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| 4/20/2008 7:32:28 PM | Advise for a Cheater | |
bfstx
Hunker, PA
age: 32
| at some level we all have cheated on some one its not right its just shows how inperfect we all are but how you handel the step after decideing to move on to the next relationship is what sets people apart there is a right way and a wrong way to move forward but i say that talking to some one that you find attractive is the first step in cheating you can end it there or you can take it to the next level the choice of how you tell the other person is yours and sets you apart from others ps lieing only hurts you in the end just be up front and honest there is always some one who knows some one who knows you and your new boy toy or vise versa 
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