 winesong Bend, OR age: 88
| For your Sunday pleasure...some thoughts on too MUCH giving...
good or bad???
This man author says these tactics do NOT WORK WITH A MAN....
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It's possible to have too much of a good thing, says Bob Grant,
author of http://www.TheWomanMenAdore.com
And too much giving is too much of a good thing.
Bob says that these thoughts can go through a woman's mind:
"I must call him."
"I must write to him."
"If only I could give something to him."
"If I could just tell him how I feel."
"If I could just get him to talk about how he feels."
"If only he could understand me."
"If only I could understand him."
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 chopperbabe Overland Park, KS age: 47
| Good advice winesong 
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 oliverbrancher Calgary, AB age: 46
| there are very few psychologists/psychiatrists out of the usual training/instruction systems which make good psychological assessments based on human facilities.
no offense to bob grant. i have not read anything of him nor have i heard of him and not that any of that diminish his ability or choice of vocation.
but i think that based on the scant information you introduce him to us as...
there is nothing valueable in any of these informations you provide.
no human truths. though certainly there are men that dislike too much attention/giving.
also women that dislike it.
thank you anyway
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 daddyduck Splendora, TX age: 54
| yes, What he said
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 akjust4fun Anchorage, AK age: 42
|    yup, he's right!
[Edited 4/20/2008 7:50:40 PM]
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 chopperbabe Overland Park, KS age: 47
| A few women expect a lot from a man in a relationship and sometimes push them right out the door by constantly checking up on him, showering him with gifts, etc. This has pushed a man away from a good woman because she is too much into him and is smoothering him ... to death.
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 akjust4fun Anchorage, AK age: 42
|    yup, she's right!
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