| 4/22/2008 6:34:34 AM | Do men and women think the same way about love? | |
sapphire_eyes
Tulsa, OK
age: 49
| Cece great topic! As for my "two cents" I believe some men are and some men aren't. There are many factors that are weighed here, and each person is an individual and IS individual in their thoughts and actions...therefore you will get different reactions and feelings based upon their own history in relationships and where they are at that point in their lives. Same goes with women as well.
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| 4/22/2008 6:40:58 AM | Do men and women think the same way about love? | |
lust4love
Atco, NJ
age: 38
| You know I really don't know? but I would say Yes.They can't seem to agree on anything except sex feels good for both.Ive actually met women who didnt like sex that much but craved love more than anything. I don't know them anymore end of story.
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| 4/22/2008 7:07:44 AM | Do men and women think the same way about love? | |
ladyinparis
Paris, TX
age: 41
| I don't even think all women feel exactly the same about love, nor do all men. I agree that it is individuals. However, I do agree that men tend to express themselves differently, and show their love in different ways than women do.
A woman is an emotional creature. We like to show love through our emotions. That is why it is so important for us to "feel" loved, and then we are far more interested in the sexual part. If we do not feel loved, or we are not getting the love and attention we need, we are far less likely to want to be sexual. Sex is not the only expression of love we require. The love a man gives us throughout the day is the foreplay that will lead up to the sex later in the evening.
Men tend show love through their actions. When they have sex with you, they feel they are showing you love..and they are, but we need it far before we get to the bedroom. A man who takes out the trash without his wife asking--feels like he has just showed her his love. Well, he did, but we still want that hug from behind when we are at the kitchen sink. We do not consider it as an act of love being shown to our mate every time we wash a dish or do the laundry. It is a chore!
Men also are fixers. If a woman is upset and needs to discuss a problem...men, you do not have to fix the problem. We do not want you to fix our problem. We just want to be able to express our feelings. Men feel that they have to provide a solution to make us feel better and get us over this upset quickly. I don't want to get over it..I want to whine about it and I don't want you interject anything. Just nod and give me a hug at the end. Then, all is well. If, and only if, I ask for his advice should he try and offer it up. Because, without the invite..he will only be wrong. lol
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| 4/22/2008 6:46:36 PM | Do men and women think the same way about love? | |
easytouch3
Mount Clemens, MI
age: 47
| NO
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| 4/25/2008 5:12:02 AM | Do men and women think the same way about love? | |
cece123
Warren, MI
age: 48
| Wishing
No need to look around
There's no one here but you.
So I scream without a sound
And hope that it gets through.
Time is clamping down.
It's getting hard to breath.
I can't imagine how
To live my life without belief.
Cuz I've been wishing so Hard
Tell me if you think that it's true.
Cuz everything I've been wishing for
I had in me and you
There's nothing left to say
There's nothing left to do
Just turn and walk away
And I'll do the same too
And when you're all alone
Waiting for a call
There will be nobody home.
Nobody there for you at all.
Cuz I've been waiting for this life long enough.
To survive three lives but I won't give up.
This blood, sweat and tears
I've given through the years
I've overcome the fears
Too much is never enough I think I'am wasting my time {but it's not enough}.
I think I'am losing my mind.
I think I'm wasiting my time {but it's not enough}
I know I'm losing my mind.
Tell me can you relate.
Anytime is too long to wait.
Love Song
So here you are, you're knocking at my door... With stabbing eyes... The color is the same but there's a change. The difference is between the little lies I told. To keep the peace. The love was still the same... It's better in life to lose a minute.. Then have to go through life. And really never get to live it.. Your primrose path is just an illusion. I'am sick of all your dirty lies... That caused this confusion.
I never want to hear another love song.
It's all a bunch of lies and I've been put on.
I know it's like I'am bitter.
I don't give a shit
I hope your really happy and you choke on it.
I never want to hear another love poem.
Proclaiming all your love
In truth there was none
I know it's like I'm being bitter I don't give a shit
I hope your really happy and you choke on it.
God forgive me for these random things. The little things I do... It's really not my truth... Everything is overwhelming me. Constantly disturbing me. Until I get away from you. It's better in life to lose a minute.
And I smile... As you listen and your thinking to yourself. You're the reason why. You're living in this hell.
Tantric - the end begins.............
Writen by men with the same passions of as some women.... when we love someone... we all hate to be lied too.. hate to be lead astray... hate to be dumped. And with each and every rejection we grow bitter and cold.
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| 4/25/2008 6:59:34 AM | Do men and women think the same way about love? | |
darkbrowneyesfo
Ardmore, OK
age: 51
| As a man, I feel I do. I am very passionate and enjoy showing that passion. I enjoy pleasing and I think I feel alot of the same things a women does, just different....yet the same. I believe in slow, soft and passionate kisses. To me...that is the beginning!!!
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| 4/25/2008 7:52:47 AM | Do men and women think the same way about love? | |
icedsnow63
Broken Arrow, OK
age: 45
| but why is it that most men talk about being passionate and romantic...yet when it comes down to it...they have no idea what either mean.....passion and romance isn't SEX...but it is part of it....passion and romance start way before the SEX enters the picture
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| 4/25/2008 7:55:22 AM | Do men and women think the same way about love? | |
rockstar_xxx
Biddeford, ME
age: 19
| I'm not sure if I even believe in love anymore. I think its a myth in a way. Something thats not real. I think people that "love" each other, are just obsessed with each other. Thats probably the best way I could possibly put it, I dont know. Its hard for me to explain.
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| 4/25/2008 8:19:22 AM | Do men and women think the same way about love? | |
darkbrowneyesfo
Ardmore, OK
age: 51
| Oh I know there are alot of guys out there, mostly the younger ones, that have no idea what it is about and even why they get excited!
I know that romance starts with a kind word or act of kindness, showing you really care for that person by doing the little things, calling just to see if she is having a good day. Not smothering either. Maybe notes, a kiss on the back of the neck..sometimes love making can build for a couple of days of just romance. Sometimes, you dont even want to do anything sexualy except show how you feel.......
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| 4/25/2008 8:42:45 AM | Do men and women think the same way about love? | |
cece123
Warren, MI
age: 48
| Rockstar..., your young.... pretty... and I'am sure you have a lot going for you.
I have a 30 year old daughter named Starr... who gave me two wonderful grandson's, but say she'll never get married. When I asked her why, she says: "It never worked for you mom." She don't believe in love either.
As for my 13 year old son... he has had a few crushes.... and I tell him... you can take someone to prom.... but wait till your 26 with some college behind ya before you get serious about any girl. Good girls... don't want mere words... they want an intelligent man.. a strong provider... someone who will {LOVE}.. and care for them.
Yeah... I may have been married a few times... but I did love something about almost everyone of them. Mostly my first and last... they were educated...., good providers, came from good families... and knew how to treat a woman...
I may sound old fashioned.... but there are many good men out there... but your young yet.. give yourself time... time for yourself.. have some fun... your only young once... Thats my only problem my only regret.. loosing my childhood.... I was just to young and stupid to know any better... If I knew then what I know now.... I would still be with my first husband.... all three of my children would be his, my first child would be younger, and my last two would have been younger... Id be living in New Mexico.. in a brand new home, and I'd prabably been able to retire. But no... stupid me had to walk out on love the only real home I ever had. It does take two to make it in this world... I hope you young lady and my daughter finds true love someday. Just remember it does take time.
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| 4/25/2008 8:56:26 AM | Do men and women think the same way about love? | |
cajunmister
Kinder, LA
age: 58
| 2 more cents..Men fall in love with the image of the person, women fall in love with love (fantasy)
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| 4/25/2008 9:14:28 AM | Do men and women think the same way about love? | |
icedsnow63
Broken Arrow, OK
age: 45
|   sounds like you know what you are doing.....and damn you life in oklahoma too
meant for darkbrowneyes
[Edited 4/25/2008 9:14:53 AM]
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| 4/25/2008 9:15:30 AM | Do men and women think the same way about love? | |
57rickie
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 57
| No
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| 4/25/2008 9:15:59 AM | Do men and women think the same way about love? | |
aka_neo
Marathon, FL
age: 51
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| 4/25/2008 9:24:42 AM | Do men and women think the same way about love? | |
cece123
Warren, MI
age: 48
| Fool's Gold.... for the love of money... yep... thats what lead to most of my break ups.. For that mean.... mean... mean... mean green... People will do things.., bad things.
Yes money helps but its not love. Like that comic....
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