ann38
Ellijay, GA
age: 38
| Ok Here is the deal and my thinking. Over the weekend Ran into a online person and was going to see if they might at some point want to go out and get to know each other on a doubble date with me and another friend on here that me and the person have things in common with because we know her. What happend was he was all for the typical I would be proud to have anyone like you on my arm to go out with till he found out that I knew the girl then he wanted me to tryb and see if she was going with anyone well at the time I already knew hewr answer but wanted to be sure before I toild him she was talking to someone that was still the case. So I called her and gave her the message while she was on her date I might add whitch was kind of embarassing to say the least because I hate to bother her on date nights. When I go back and let him know what I knew he politly tells me I am not interested when I suggest we still try to doubble with them as friends. And he tells me that we cant go out as friends. My question is this who says you cant go out as friends? And also if i was good enough to go out as friends before and you would be proud to go out with me as a friend then what makes it so different when the other girl I doubble with will be with another man. I am still the same wheelchair bound girl you said youd be proud of before to go out with. Whats the frigging difference now that I get dumped before you even get to know the true me face to face?
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metu
Mansfield, TX
age: 46 online now!
| I think you can go out as "friends"......just don't stick your tongue down their throat at the end of the evening! That tends to change the relationship! 
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ann38
Ellijay, GA
age: 38
| True I agree but should we not be gave a chance at going out even as friend and seeing each other face to face to see if there is a attraction instead of only wantting to go out with someo ne because they want to make time with your friend who by the way do es not even know the bozo has the hots for him or her?
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brendaj
Savannah, GA
age: 44
|  Ann ~ I'm sorry you ran into yet another jerk. Hang in there 
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ann38
Ellijay, GA
age: 38
| Heck I have not quit yet. I still have others they are pleanty of other people out there to get aquanted with and see how it goes. I am just wondering what it is going to take for them to see the inside me and give me a chance as a friend first and not just see me as a way to get to other women friends I know. Not that I fault my friend because she is easy to get to know and any guys lucky to have her at their side. But you damn well better be good to her. But going through me to get to a friend to get to first base with her then just treat me as If I am good enough only for dirt I will not have. Like I said brendaj it is their loss. But it don't mean I have to stand by and take it in the mean time and not say something. I take my lumps like everyone but what gets me is what makes others t hink they are to Mr. G.Q to associate with me unless I am with something that want better? When was the last time GOD MADE HUMANS DOOR MATS.
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