Forums: Groups: Gay, Lesbian & Bisexuals: I want to say hi but can't
4/21/2008 9:42:16 AMI want to say hi but can't 

kelanie4202369
Cleveland, OH
age: 24

Hey there. I'm still VERY new when it comes to talking to girls. I can hardly look at a girl b/4 I turn red and run away. I have no clue what to say, how to act, or how to breath when I'm around a girl I like. Guess this is part of the excitement of it all. I could use some pointers. Its 1 thing to type to them its a whole new game when you're face to face.

4/21/2008 9:03:33 PMI want to say hi but can't 

tgirljaime
Norman, OK
age: 44

Sweetie, just try the "friends first" approach. If there's anything there, it will just fall into place.

4/21/2008 10:14:05 PMI want to say hi but can't 

kelanie4202369
Cleveland, OH
age: 24

Thats what I've been doing. Its kinda working. We shall see tho.

4/23/2008 9:10:34 AMI want to say hi but can't 
amandajojojagow
Niagara Falls, NY
age: 27

My advice is that if you like a girl, try to be friends face to face first, see how well you get along with her, and over time you find out more about them and what they like. I think overall, as long as you're being yourself, then girls are bound to start expressing themselves towards you as well. Good serious relationships seem to happen when they're meant to happen. Good luck

4/23/2008 10:35:40 AMI want to say hi but can't 

foofoofemme
Alpine, TX
age: 37

something to remember is she's probablly as nervous as u are so if nothing else try to take a few deep breaths and calm down if nothing else for her peace of mind!! things will go alot smoother and it wont seem like the end of the world if things dont work out romantically!!! good luck hunny!!!

4/27/2008 2:10:59 PMI want to say hi but can't 

scarbabyfac3
Brooklyn, NY
age: 21

i want to Hi any girls but i cant bec i am very ShY when i see pretty sexy girl get me easy to girls hehehehehe

5/1/2008 11:12:16 PMI want to say hi but can't 

butterfly_blue2
Paris, TX
age: 21

lol, I can be the same way...sometime when I think a girl is cute I'm transparent and anyone who knows me can see it...I turn clutzy, red, mumble or babble...but in the end I just hold my head up and smile. Whatever your reaction is to that girl, just be yourself...so what if she can tell your into her, or if you giggle, run, or blush more that you can control...if she's interested she'll either persue or wait. Just remember you're beautiful and if anything I'm sure your redness is very en-dear-ing