| 4/22/2008 4:09:47 AM | can i ask the wemon and men somthin | |
babygoth
Washington, MO
age: 18
| what is the most improtent thing to u when it comes to a realationship???? i think it is trust and to be able to tlak but i would love to hear waht u all have to say
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| 4/22/2008 4:11:11 AM | can i ask the wemon and men somthin | |
cece123
Madison Heights, MI
age: 48
| To be comfortable with someone... to get along....
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| 4/22/2008 4:12:43 AM | can i ask the wemon and men somthin | |
babygoth
Washington, MO
age: 18
| u dont think trust is a big thing i mean if u cant trust them then y be with them right
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| 4/22/2008 4:28:35 AM | can i ask the wemon and men somthin | |
burnkitty
Fayetteville, AR
age: 33
| As long as you specify that trust for you is not optional, then most people understand what is expected. But like most things in a relationship, it is usually better on paper than in practical application. There's still the human factor to consider.
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| 4/22/2008 4:52:35 AM | can i ask the wemon and men somthin | |
geron
Paris, IL
age: 52
| Trust involves a persons personal space or free time. If you can't trust someone than your personal space can become a time zone, and your free time is spent trying to catch the other at something they shouldn't be doing.
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| 4/22/2008 5:29:17 AM | can i ask the wemon and men somthin | |
headstart68
Evansville, IN
age: 40
| I like the way Geron put it. But I'm taking it a step further.
If I don't trust you, something's already wrong. Either you need to stop doing what you're doing (or admit it), or I need to be stronger emotionally, but we have a problem.
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| 4/22/2008 5:34:51 AM | can i ask the wemon and men somthin | |
ejs08
Cincinnati, OH
age: 34
| I agree that trust and communication are important but there also has to be an equality- One person can't do all the work and the other sit on their a%#!
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| 4/22/2008 5:38:31 AM | can i ask the wemon and men somthin | |
sunbeachflower
Suffolk, VA
age: 38
| I think it's understanding first and formost because we are two different people intering in each others life. no two people are a like not even twins.You have to be willing to except the other persons lively hood. Then comes trust, honesty,and things will fall in place.
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| 4/22/2008 5:50:11 AM | can i ask the wemon and men somthin | |
geron
Paris, IL
age: 52
| Young maturing adults may be struggling with a problem and decision usually involves upheaval and hormonal changes. Considerable inner growth as teens are testing limits and learning about relationships of all kinds. They are developing systems for evaluating and judging various situations and people. They can leave the safety of the family home, teenagers are open to experience, only to return to the nest as need be. They are trying to develop the emotional maturity to perceive or recognize the differance about others. Trust is all about trusting yourself.
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| 4/22/2008 5:54:48 AM | can i ask the wemon and men somthin | |
ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 41 online now!
| I use this as a rule of thumb;
The Seven Deadly Sins
Truth, if it becomes a weapon against persons.
Beauty, if it becomes vanity.
Love, if it becomes possessive.
Loyalty, if it becomes blind, careless trust.
Tolerance, if it becomes indifference.
Self-confidence, if it becomes arrogance.
Faith, if it becomes self-righteous.
Pierre Corneille
If you can understand the message behind this passage, which is, what can be considered good can be misused in the name of righteousness then you will know what is important in a relationship.
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| 4/22/2008 6:02:46 AM | can i ask the wemon and men somthin | |
friendshiponly
Higginsville, MO
age: 47
| My humble opinion... Get to know them! I mean really get to know them... before you get too deeply involved! See and interact with them around their friends, around their family, around whomever is important in their lives. Spend a lot of time getting to know them! You really need to know who the person is that you're getting involved with! Even then, you won't really know them completely, but at least you should get a really good idea. If you do this, you should find out if there are any things that you need to worry about. Don't close your eyes to them, but carefully decide wether they are things you can live with.
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| 4/22/2008 6:05:29 AM | can i ask the wemon and men somthin | |
teddybearforu
Oshkosh, WI
age: 36
| geOgeO, i like that post,... very insightful.
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| 4/22/2008 6:49:39 AM | can i ask the wemon and men somthin | |
brendaj
Savannah, GA
age: 44
| Honesty, Chemistry, Gentleness, Open Communication, Respectfulness, & an upbeat personality.
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| 4/22/2008 8:48:18 AM | can i ask the wemon and men somthin | |
lova_girl
Albany, GA
age: 30
| You have to have trust to have love, they go hand and hand in this life and its a hard thing to find to. I do agree with you and also being comfortable with a person is always inportant as well. There is alot of things that have to be worked on cause trust is something that is earned and not giving.
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| 4/22/2008 9:03:54 AM | can i ask the wemon and men somthin | |
kerrilee
Antioch, TN
age: 54
| Hey George....
Have you ever heard of Cicero's Six Mistakes of Man? It's aprox 2,000 years old....A WISE MAN
* The delusion that personal gain is made at the expense of others
* The tendency to worry about things that can not be changed or corrected
* Insisting that a thing is impossible because it hasn't been accomplished (or that we can not do it)
* Refusing to set aside trivial preferences
*Neglecting development and refinement of the mind, and not acquiring the habit of reading and studying
* Attempting to compel others to believe and live as we do.
I think about these things all the time. What a wise man!
Your seven deadly sins seem like they should be common sense to me as do these 6 mistakes of men
I have learned that ALL DO NOT HAVE COMMON SENSE
Even Einstein said some remarkable things like....
Imagination is more important than knowledge.....VERY GOOD FOR RELATIONSHIP ISSUES
andmy favorite....Great spirits have always encountered opposition from mediocre minds
ALSO GOOD TO THINK ON IN RELATIONSHIP ISSUES......IF YOU AVE FAITH IN YOURSELF AND BELIEFS
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