| 4/22/2008 3:13:14 PM | How do you feel about dating women with kids and you don't have kids? | |
shylywilling
Medford, OR
age: 47 online now!
| I love kids and provided she has a civil, mature, yet otherwise finished, relationship with the children's father, I would welcome this chance to have the additional friends.
While this scenario does make a relationship slightly more complicated it is never less rewarding.
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| 4/22/2008 9:30:26 PM | How do you feel about dating women with kids and you don't have kids? | |
joyschoice
North York, ON
age: 54
| I don't mind kids, in moderation.
Most of the women in my age group on this site have had over 18 children, as their profile states. This is too many. I don't want to be buying as many as 478 birthday presents for her children and grandchildren every year. I think the population explosion is suffocating the Earth. For Earth day I think we should just stay away from sex if only for one day. That'd be the best we could do for poor ole' Earth.
Another thing about women with kids that I don't like when I date them, is when they bring some along to the first date. The kids scream, pour hot coffee on my knee, or try to sell me life insurance (if they are over 28.)
Tasteful kids I don't mind. But I don't like tough kids, or too salty ones, or if they're too fatty. I have enough problems with my cholesterol already, thank you very much.
[Edited 4/22/2008 11:25:27 PM]
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| 4/22/2008 9:54:50 PM | How do you feel about dating women with kids and you don't have kids? | |
coopertheone
Hyrum, UT
age: 33
| kids are great they have unconditional love
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| 4/26/2008 1:49:43 PM | How do you feel about dating women with kids and you don't have kids? | |
mommaloma
Searcy, AR
age: 34
| Joyschoice, that's funny! "over 18" children "tasteful children"
You Nut!
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| 4/26/2008 1:59:16 PM | How do you feel about dating women with kids and you don't have kids? | |
peaseblossom
North Las Vegas, NV
age: 42
| What a woman with no children dating a man with children-same issues I think. I don't have children and I'm not going to have any. I like children and it wouldn't be a problem to date someone with children, however, those children have a mother and it ain't me!
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| 4/26/2008 2:03:14 PM | How do you feel about dating women with kids and you don't have kids? | |
meggie1970
Snohomish, WA
age: 38
| If a man cannot accept me, and my children (even though I will have them for the summers), then he is not a man I would want to be with.
I want a man that knows how to be a fatherly-figure and friend to my children.
My children have been good judges of character, and I would trust their judgement. When the ex brought home other women for the sole purpose of trying to save them from themselves (drug addictions), the kids would let me know who they trusted and who they thought would steal from me. I listened, and they were right 90% of the time.
So, I know I can trust my kids to let me know if I am dating Mr. Right or Mr. Wrong. 
Now, if only there was a man that was man enough for me and for the kids, and not a kid himself.
Besides, I do not mind if a man has kids living with him or not...I love kids and would not mind having a relationship with them.
My ex has had 2 daughters and a son by a previous relationship, and I had no problem accepting them as if they were my own. I have a big heart with lots of love to give to the right man and his kids (if he has any).
[Edited 4/26/2008 2:05:48 PM]
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| 4/26/2008 2:13:58 PM | How do you feel about dating women with kids and you don't have kids? | |
blueyedbobbie
Poultney, VT
age: 37
| Personally the man that comes my way will have to like kids as i have them. If they do not I do not disrespect them for not liking children but they won't be hooking up with me.
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| 4/26/2008 2:15:35 PM | How do you feel about dating women with kids and you don't have kids? | |
duby115
Converse, TX
age: 41
| If the kids dislike and disrespect the man, not much he can do
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| 4/26/2008 2:17:10 PM | How do you feel about dating women with kids and you don't have kids? | |
chriswv1
Ripley, WV
age: 33
| well, i know a thing or to about this. i love kids and would love to meet a woman that already has kids, and wants more. i just think women should do a better job controlling there exes. nothing says this wont work like an intrucive ex!!!!
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| 4/26/2008 2:19:08 PM | How do you feel about dating women with kids and you don't have kids? | |
chriswv1
Ripley, WV
age: 33
| any takers.
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| 4/26/2008 2:19:57 PM | How do you feel about dating women with kids and you don't have kids? | |
duby115
Converse, TX
age: 41
| i agree
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| 4/26/2008 2:23:32 PM | How do you feel about dating women with kids and you don't have kids? | |
firewoodcutter
Hardin, TX
age: 48
| I dont see a problem with a woman having kids, I see it as a package deal.
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| 4/26/2008 2:28:23 PM | How do you feel about dating women with kids and you don't have kids? | |
blueyedbobbie
Poultney, VT
age: 37
| no offense chris and duby but control the exes? that could be why they are exes.
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| 4/26/2008 2:28:29 PM | How do you feel about dating women with kids and you don't have kids? | |
meggie1970
Snohomish, WA
age: 38
| Package deals, I think are the best. Children, especially the young ones, need to have as much love and nuturing as possible, even if it is from another woman or man.
As for the teens, they could use another man or woman to talk to when they do not feel comfortable talking to mom or dad. 
As I have heard it said "It takes a village to raise a child."
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| 4/26/2008 2:29:34 PM | How do you feel about dating women with kids and you don't have kids? | |
bonsaijoe
Vero Beach, FL
age: 41
| this actually works both ways there are women out there that dont want to date a guy with youngins also
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