| 4/22/2008 11:06:47 AM | Should you eat the forbidden fruit? | |
wino631
Huntington, NY
age: 53
| You're at the bar, family gathering, friends BBQ, what ever. You're mingling with people, and you share a glance with someone that stops you in mid sentence. You catch yourself , before anyone notices. That is except the person you shared the glance with.
It was one of those moments. For that brief instance it was a strong attraction. Later, you find yourself alongside her/him. You chat, it's strong.
Problem, shes with someone. Steady, possibly married. You dance, close. It's Hot! She leaves, quickly.
This has happened twice now.
Question: Where do you go with this?
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| 4/22/2008 11:10:09 AM | Should you eat the forbidden fruit? | |
missyroo375
Suffern, NY
age: 21
| Stay away Don't eat any of it...no matter how strong or how hard it is..... stay away.
You'll be better off both of you will in the end.JMO
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| 4/22/2008 11:15:51 AM | Should you eat the forbidden fruit? | |
ladyinparis
Paris, TX
age: 41
| If she is married---please do not pursue it. Even if she is willing, you should not be. How would you feel to be in the place of her husband. And always remember...there are two sides to every story. No matter how bad she says he is to her. If he was that damn bad, she would be gone, not just sleeping with another man. When you think about it...who looks more like the liar in that scenario?
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| 4/22/2008 11:28:17 AM | Should you eat the forbidden fruit? | |
wino631
Huntington, NY
age: 53
| We have never talked about each others relationship. How should I bring the subject up, if we meet again? Or should I ask around about her?
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| 4/22/2008 11:36:33 AM | Should you eat the forbidden fruit? | |
missyroo375
Suffern, NY
age: 21
| If you meet again you both should go your own seperate ways...is she's single when you meet again then....... but at the moment if she is with someone..be smart and leave her alone even if she does seem to be into you.....she is still with someone else...JMO like it has already been said how would you like it if someone did this to you.JMO good luck
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| 4/22/2008 11:38:39 AM | Should you eat the forbidden fruit? | |
curious70000
Wyandotte, MI
age: 46
| Ask around if she's single make sure you meet up again, most definitly, when it's one of those " things" which it sounds like to me,,,, go for it. Those are usually something strange, different, and mind blowing, that's that weird chemistry that whatever comes of it, it will have been worth it. Had that kind of thing turn into one hell of one night stand, and also the last time that happened a long passionate love affair for 15 years, Go for it.
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| 4/22/2008 1:51:57 PM | Should you eat the forbidden fruit? | |
muffycakes
Chanhassen, MN
age: 26
| um yeah...same type of thing happened to me at a bar...(we had two seperate encounters) we stared at each other all evening on the second encounter, we danced for a while and looked into each others eyes...in walks his girlfriend... she pushes me and slaps him in the face...quit, just walk away!
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| 4/22/2008 1:57:15 PM | Should you eat the forbidden fruit? | |
angelips
Villas, NJ
age: 32
| there are plenty of single fruit out there pick one of them 
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| 4/22/2008 2:04:20 PM | Should you eat the forbidden fruit? | |
artie77
Tea, SD
age: 49
| First thing you have to do, find out if she is involved with someone, whether it is marraige or just dating. If it is a marraige, no matter how bad she says the relationship is, leave her alone, I've been on the other side of a cheating spouse. If it is a dating thing, she must be looking, but be ready for the consequences. These days you do not know what a jealous person will do.
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| 4/22/2008 2:08:45 PM | Should you eat the forbidden fruit? | |
fryyyy
North Kingstown, RI
age: 49
| Don't ever .. put yourself in a situation where shyte can happen. If you do, and if you do it often enough.. shyte will happen. Stop a moment and put yourself in the persons shoes your actions will hurt.. Hows that thought feel? How would you like it if you were the one being betrayed? Don't do it. stay away from married people. Grass is always greener till you hop the fence.. then you can appreciate what you had.. and lost. Stay away from her/him, cus she's/he's obviously a danger.
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| 4/22/2008 2:16:49 PM | Should you eat the forbidden fruit? | |
honestinlov4u
Abington, PA
age: 60
| WOW, Great question...glad it did not happen to me...Did she say if she was with her husband???Did she say anything about who she was with? I actually have gone to weddings as a single, so there I ask the ladies...here, in the bar, you have no clue...The only thing I know is to ask her right up ffront, saying something like...You are a very nice lady, I guess your husband is laid back not complaining about our dancing together...it's corney, I admit...But it works most of the time...other people will have a less corney comment, I am sure.
Good lucki!!
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| 4/22/2008 2:31:04 PM | Should you eat the forbidden fruit? | |
wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 37 online now!
| if you know they are with someone then it's wrong.be the stronger person.
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| 4/22/2008 2:59:38 PM | Should you eat the forbidden fruit? | |
eroticartist
White Plains, NY
age: 49
| run away as fast as possible...don't give in to temptation
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| 4/22/2008 3:01:20 PM | Should you eat the forbidden fruit? | |
pichick712
Brookhaven, PA
age: 50
| run, do not walk away from that situation!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Nothing good cam come of it and in the end you will just get hurt.
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| 4/22/2008 3:06:09 PM | Should you eat the forbidden fruit? | |
trustme086again
Radcliff, KY
age: 37
| Key word in that question...FORBIDDEN LOL. So that is as contradictory as Military Intelligence.
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