| 4/22/2008 11:28:59 AM | Why dont women actually go for the good guy?? | | crisohio
Austinburg, OH
age: 24
| Why do women complain about good guys not existing when they always go for the a**holes? There are decent men out there if you women would quit picking up a**holes and leaving us good guys in the wind.
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| 4/22/2008 4:25:53 PM | Why dont women actually go for the good guy?? | |
sb1229
Cleveland, OH
age: 43
| Sometimes who we think is the "good guy" turns out to be an a**hole. But you are right, there truly are nice guys out there. Sure hope I find mine soon!! 
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| 4/23/2008 6:11:10 PM | Why dont women actually go for the good guy?? | |
thejusty
Marysville, OH
age: 24
| Much respect! I totally agree women complain all the time but when they find an honest man they leave him for an a**hole. No one really knows why but I hope shit changes real quick. I am tired of being jerked around.
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| 4/26/2008 1:23:25 PM | Why dont women actually go for the good guy?? | |
passionateforu
Cleveland, OH
age: 55
| One thing I have found out, is that the women that have been in an abusive relationship sometimes they dont know how to deal with a man that treats them with respect. They become scared and run. They only can relate to the abuse. Again though this does not relate for all women that have had some trouble. I have had to deal with this alot.
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| 4/26/2008 2:27:46 PM | Why dont women actually go for the good guy?? | |
sb1229
Cleveland, OH
age: 43
| You are exactly right passionate. At least in my case. I just broke up with a guy cuz he was "too nice." And yes, it did scare me. 
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| 4/27/2008 5:52:24 AM | Why dont women actually go for the good guy?? | |
aguy4agirl
Mentor, OH
age: 46
| too nice ? did u think he was weak ,soft because of that ?
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| 4/27/2008 7:31:11 AM | Why dont women actually go for the good guy?? | |
sb1229
Cleveland, OH
age: 43
| Being nice is not being weak. I just wasn't used to doors being opened, getting compliments, in general being cared about. Nice is good. I could eventually get used to it!!
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| 4/27/2008 7:45:38 AM | Why dont women actually go for the good guy?? | |
alsmom
Bethesda, OH
age: 43
| I think most women by nature are drawn to people who they think they can "fix" or "help". Maybe it's not so much as wanting a bad guy as much as thinking they can change them. Maybe its' the challenge??
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| 4/27/2008 12:34:17 PM | Why dont women actually go for the good guy?? | |
happylilbabygir
Alliance, OH
age: 29
| I want a nice guy. But as it's already been mentioned, it's scary. For me, when I meet a GREAT guy, I get very scared. If I meet a jerk, I'm not scared because well, he can't hurt me the way a good guy can. A nice guy could hurt my heart. A jerk can't. Sure, a jerk can hurt me physically but my heart won't hurt as bad.
I'm just now getting to the point where I am not even giving the bad guys a chance. I'm waiting for that nice guy to come along. But it has to go SLOW. If things go faster than I'm ready for, it won't work because my fear will take over. I don't want to be afraid but I am.
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| 4/27/2008 7:25:34 PM | Why dont women actually go for the good guy?? | |
aguy4agirl
Mentor, OH
age: 46
| so you want a nice decent guy , but are afraid you don't deserve one ?
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| 4/27/2008 8:29:17 PM | Why dont women actually go for the good guy?? | |
pawx3
Cadiz, OH
age: 55
| Ok! I've tried to stay away from replying to this ?, but.
Its not that a woman doesn't want a nice guy, but the way I see it, if they really wanted this person, they would stop and reeeeeealy think before they speak!!!!!
Us nice guys do! have feelings also. While we really want to do, and fix, and feel, and love, we also want understanding, and a little appreciation, on your part. Not where you have to repay any kindness, but just realize, we DO! have other interists! While we are striving to make your life easier, we are also looking for time to do other things that arent as important as your needs!
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| 4/29/2008 8:40:54 PM | Why dont women actually go for the good guy?? | |
angeliconearth
Greenville, OH
age: 32
| i agree w/passionate because i can kind of relate to it. But not all of us are complainers like one or some of you said because i totally disagree. Most of the bad guys are totally possessive and jealous types to where as the good ones well they are more understanding and compassionate. To all of the guys out there who are still good, keep doing what you are doing because most good women out there including me are looking for ones like u. 
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| 4/30/2008 10:49:20 AM | Why dont women actually go for the good guy?? | |
doll121
Middleport, OH
age: 51
| i learnt my lesson. go for the good guy. i had an x who mentally and verbally beated me to death. he was an alcholic.
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| 5/1/2008 10:37:46 AM | Why dont women actually go for the good guy?? | |
crisohio
Austinburg, OH
age: 24
| If women are scared to pursue a nice guy then they are surely not ready for any relationship. Love is a risk. If you don't risk your own heart, you may never be happy with anyone. All I have to say to that anymore.
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