toad55
Superior, WI
age: 25
| I have lived up in Superior my whole life... Does anyone else feel like they need to skip town? I do love being up here(in the summer/fall,) but the rest of the time can be a pain in the "A". How do other people deal with this? Where does one go to meet women OUTSIDE of the bars up here?
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midnight2007
Neenah, WI
age: 38
| I have lived in Wisconsin my whole life. I would not change it for the world, yes I hate winters too, but I just deal with it and I always know I am home where I belong. Women can be found in the oddest places, and no the bars are not the place to be for that. I tend to believe that when you stop looking your mate will fall into your lap.
Just be patient you are young and you have a whole life ahead of you. There are times when I think the same way you are and I sit back and say this is where I belong and only the strong will survive....even the freezing cold....
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amberine
Plover, WI
age: 28
| Well,I think that we all feel like leaving where we are at one time or another...Superior though I could see where you sorta feel secluded and not much there...i visit that area enuff with my family living there...Go where your heart is at....Sounds odd but I know with all the traveling I have done there is a couple places that feel comfortable so to speak you feel at home....Travel a bit see where it leads ya!
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meridian
New London, WI
age: 55
| I don't know about Superior, but the bar culture in Wisconsin is pervasive. I've been single for 15 years and find I don't belong in bars...I fall getting up on the stools because they're too high - what would happen if I actually drank something alcoholic??
Really, though, I've found I'd rather fly a kite alone than sit in a bar where the music is too loud and the people laugh at things that truly aren't funny - not to mention the cigarette smoke. I'm not against drinking, I enjoy wine or a mixed drink, but that good ol' boys bar down the road isn't my idea of a great night out, and the men there don't appear to be after a long term and loving relationship.
Our beer society looks down on good people who want to live thoughtful, honorable lives.
TV makes us think that party people are in the norm...that's because they do and say stupid things that make us laugh.
Leaving is not easy and neither is staying. Try to ignore that only couples go to things you find interesting and I hope the single girls you're looking for does the same - be it birdwatching, kayaking, hiking or reading - just get out of the house.
Best of luck to you.
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nuttycrakr
Fond du Lac, WI
age: 33
| I've lived here my whole life. I understand. I hate winter. If I had the money I'd leave. I think people go to the bars in the winter only to get warm.
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