| 4/24/2008 5:48:11 AM | why do guys discriminate against big women?? | | blueyedbobbie
Poultney, VT
age: 37
| wildpugsy i have no problem having their own taste; as do i, but do not be obnoxious about it. it is far less flattering than those girls who are big.
[Edited 4/24/2008 5:48:37 AM]
| | 4/24/2008 5:52:12 AM | why do guys discriminate against big women?? | | eroticartist
White Plains, NY
age: 49
| I look at people who let themselves get this big and used to judge them or look down at them but have learned that there must be something in their heart, soul of life to make them get like this. So now when I see someone like this I think there must be alot of pain in this person's life...jmo
| | 4/24/2008 7:42:42 AM | why do guys discriminate against big women?? | | 
susansheart839
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 60 online now!
| My God, some of the men who have posted here are absolutely cruel. Since someone asked the question, however, it needs to be addressed to the OP. I pray you will be nicer in person, all of you men who are looking for a woman who is skinny. I am going on my first post divorce date in 15 minutes and my smile will dazzle him instead of my "overweight." If it doesn't, he will have missed the greatest love of his life.
Susan
| | 4/24/2008 7:58:29 AM | why do guys discriminate against big women?? | | 
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
| Women are crueler as far as running people down based on physical appearance..imho.
| | 4/24/2008 7:59:04 AM | why do guys discriminate against big women?? | | wildgypsy
Bellevue, WA
age: 89
| blueyedbulgy "wildpugsy i have no problem having their own taste;"
LOL Obviously you do LOL
" as do i, but do not be obnoxious about it."
Oooops, forgot again, only fat asses are allowed to take shots at thin people. Yeah, their double standards are as out of line as they way they overflow into your personal space and expect you to just suck it up and be smothered.
" it is far less flattering than those girls who are big."
LOL and I suppose you would teach by example LOL Deary, fairly obvious that you are incredibly defensive about being such a hog, but that is your issue, and won't ever allow any fat a** to make it mine.
So, how did I do? As obnoxious as you yet? LOL If not I will try again.
You may also want to look up the definitions of "discrimination" and "repulsion", as I think you may be confusing the two.
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| | 4/24/2008 8:26:15 AM | why do guys discriminate against big women?? | | 
xjustloveme21x
Clinton Township, MI
age: 21
| blueyedbulgy "wildpugsy i have no problem having their own taste;"
LOL Obviously you do LOL
" as do i, but do not be obnoxious about it."
Oooops, forgot again, only fat asses are allowed to take shots at thin people. Yeah, their double standards are as out of line as they way they overflow into your personal space and expect you to just suck it up and be smothered.
" it is far less flattering than those girls who are big."
LOL and I suppose you would teach by example LOL Deary, fairly obvious that you are incredibly defensive about being such a hog, but that is your issue, and won't ever allow any fat a** to make it mine.
So, how did I do? As obnoxious as you yet? LOL If not I will try again.
You may also want to look up the definitions of "discrimination" and "repulsion", as I think you may be confusing the two.
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let me just clarify something 'wildpugsy'
fat asses, as you put it, are NOT the only ones taking shots at thin people. thin people bash at other thin people especially if that person is thinner than them or have the slightest bit more of meat on there. its not a f**kin double standard, it is all based on a matter of opinion. the only obnoxious person in here is you. no one else. sorry if big people "repulse" you. but id rather be a bigger person then a 'cast iron heartless b*tch' anyday 
| | 4/24/2008 9:58:22 AM | why do guys discriminate against big women?? | | 
oldeschoolcharm
Monroe, WA
age: 47
| honestly if a guy is going to discriminate against you for being bigger they arent' worth having. you should not let that discourage you because if its only a body appearance that they are attracted to they really dont have much to offer
No, one has to look at the "whole package". There is more to attract someone than looks.
But, what is one to do, when one's partner is naked, and eager, and one is, er, unresponsive to what one sees? Then what?
Yes, kindness, and an emotional bond are more important than physical attraction -- no doubt. But, some level of physical attraction has to be present in order to respond to one's partner's sexual desires. This is particularly true for a male.
Looks fade over time, true, but so does sex drive, at least it becomes far less important than companionship.
It is also true, that with a strong emotional bond, and an otherwise affectionate relationship, one sees more of what the heart wants to see than what the eyes register. Once off-putting features are not as noticible. So, it is worthwhile "giving someone a chance", but there are limits to how blind the heart can be, when one's partner is heavy, or fat rolls get in the way, etc.
I work hard to stay in shape, and have quite a way to go to get into the shape I want to be. I'd like a partner with similar goals. Somewhat overfat and slimming is fine. But, "I'm big, I like myself big, and I don't care if I get bigger" will not attract me. Others have noted that it will attract them.
Stop striving for what you can't have.
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