| 4/23/2008 8:50:28 AM | what to do?? | |
repochick
Hastings, MN
age: 30
| I have been faced with a choice, as it seems lately, and I just thought I would get some feedback from everyone else!
Since I joined last August I have been harrassed by my ex. He found my profile on here and continues to send me emails. I have blocked him, flagged him and even tried to ignore him! When I block him he just ends up creating a new profile. He has created 2 just this week.
Anyway, I have been thinking about deleting my profile since Dustin claims he cant do anything about it, like blocking his IP address, so I just dont see where there is any choice. It seems like its either leave or continue to put up with this shit!! 
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| 4/23/2008 8:52:41 AM | what to do?? | |
tamirae
Woodland, CA
age: 32
| why do ex's have to be such jerks? i am sorry... really dont know what to tell you. i dont know how much you can handle of how much you feel the others on this sight are worth
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| 4/23/2008 8:54:59 AM | what to do?? | |
mitchell1221
Chattanooga, TN
age: 45
| Document it, and get a restraining order.
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| 4/23/2008 8:58:04 AM | what to do?? | |
repochick
Hastings, MN
age: 30
| I have been hear for almost a year now and have made some really great friends. It just pisses me off that Dustin says nothing can be done and I can either deal with the harrassment or leave.
I already have enough to get a restraining order against him but but he's 3 states away and I highly doubt he'll ever come here. He just has no life and likes to make threats to me.
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| 4/23/2008 9:03:14 AM | what to do?? | |
goodintention54
Plymouth, MI
age: 55
| Repo, I'm sure you have a lot of great friends on this site and you shouldn't give them up for this idiot....maybe come back as a shadow with a new name then email all your friends and let them know the new you. Maybe after a while he'll think you are gone and stop looking here. Then you can come back and post your beautiful face again. JMO
Who knows it might just work
Good luck
[Edited 4/23/2008 9:04:10 AM]
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| 4/23/2008 9:04:55 AM | what to do?? | |
traveller64
Cambridge, ON
age: 44
| That is a tough call...I mean you could always ignore his e-mails, and that maybe is the only thing you can do. I suppose he'd get bored with it eventually.
Mind you there are ways to get even as well
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| 4/23/2008 9:06:03 AM | what to do?? | |
stormygrl
Casa Grande, AZ
age: 42
| That really sucks Repo.....I wish people would just move on and get over it when the relationship ends......you have to do what works best for you girl..good luck!
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| 4/23/2008 9:06:39 AM | what to do?? | |
repochick
Hastings, MN
age: 30
| I have been trying to ignore the emails and if I do respond its to remind him once again that I want nothing furthur to do with him. If this gives ya any indication, I left him 3 1/2 years ago and he is still trying to bother me. You think he would have gotten bored by now!
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| 4/23/2008 9:06:46 AM | what to do?? | |
tomfreebird
Brownsboro, AL
age: 55
| Why can't people realize when its over. Get on with a new life, and forgive and forget
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| 4/23/2008 9:09:19 AM | what to do?? | |
texassweetness
Baytown, TX
age: 47
| Sigh....that is a shame, dear one. I suggest you make a profile with no photo, and when you meet someone you cotton to, send him a photo via the DH mail.
Extreme problems require extreme measures. What are your state's stalking laws? I would check into that, really.
Callephina
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| 4/23/2008 9:09:38 AM | what to do?? | |
kegleaves
Mount Juliet, TN
age: 30
| make your profile invisible
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| 4/23/2008 9:11:27 AM | what to do?? | |
kellyleed
Sumter, SC
age: 36
| If he is making threats and I'm assuming this is through emails why not take it to the authorities.
Isn't there some type of law against using the internet for stalking purposes?
Can't really be to hard on Dustin he has enough to deal with on this site with supposbly grown people starting or not having enough sense to stay away from drama then running to him complaining that they don't like the site because of drama JMO
Another thought didn't photo aka slinky get banned from starting a profile on this site by using his IP address? 
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| 4/23/2008 9:11:35 AM | what to do?? | |
repochick
Hastings, MN
age: 30
| I have thought of setting my profile as invisible but he knows my user name so he can still send me emails. Since he continues to create new profiles I cant block them until I get the next email!
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| 4/23/2008 9:12:38 AM | what to do?? | |
kegleaves
Mount Juliet, TN
age: 30
| Loser what a loser
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| 4/23/2008 9:14:46 AM | what to do?? | |
repochick
Hastings, MN
age: 30
| Yeah Keg, he sure is. His latest profile he has a pic of a girl on there that he claims is his g/f! So why the hell is he bothering me??
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