| 4/23/2008 12:04:39 PM | why do women do this? | |
big_daddy_dann
Belleville, NY
age: 23
| my last three girl friends have cheated on me with their abusive ex-boyfriend and then they left me to go back to them. i treated them like queens. last i knew women didnt want to be beaten. is there anyone out there, a woman maybe, who can shed some light on this issue? thanks
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| 4/23/2008 12:05:30 PM | why do women do this? | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
| Treat them like crap.
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| 4/23/2008 12:09:40 PM | why do women do this? | |
sapphire_eyes
Tulsa, OK
age: 49
| No you don't treat them like crap, geeze!
First, don't give so much of yourself in the beginning. You need to make sure that the "girls" (I use that term lightly) are completely over the prior fella before you invest your time and your heart into a relationship. If they are not over their ex's then there is nothing you can do or say, and no matter how you treat them, they will go back.
A healthy relationship starts with "two healthy" individuals...and by that I mean "mentally". Everyone has baggage they have to deal with and somehow manage into their everyday lives, but a "healthy" individual becoming involved with an "unhealthy" one just leads to heartache.
JMO/and experience too! lol
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| 4/23/2008 12:11:36 PM | why do women do this? | |
big_daddy_dann
Belleville, NY
age: 23
| that makes sense but my last one was seperated from him for 6 months and i made sure to make sure she was over him. she swore to me she was. so how can i be sure she is a "healthy" individual worth puttin my time and effort into?
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| 4/23/2008 12:14:59 PM | why do women do this? | |
lonesomeloser
Louisville, KY
age: 50
| I have no baggage...It was lost at the airport...
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| 4/23/2008 12:16:47 PM | why do women do this? | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
| Forget all that female blah blah.
Treat them like crap.
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| 4/23/2008 12:20:30 PM | why do women do this? | |
wino631
Huntington, NY
age: 53
| Dude, you're only 23 years old. Keep digging, you'll find a good one soon enough. And stop dating abused women. Thats a red flag right there!
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| 4/23/2008 12:20:48 PM | why do women do this? | |
sapphire_eyes
Tulsa, OK
age: 49
| The length of time is not really a factor in determining who is healthy and over a relationship and who isn't. The "break up" itself, how bad it was, who dumped who, the problems that caused the break up in the first place, are things that people have to work through when relationships end.
I've also found that men and women who have ended a relationship on friendship are more likely to be better mates. Anger, jealousy, revenge tends to make us do things that not only end up hurting others, but hurt ourselves in the long run.
My advise would be to leave it alone. Leave her alone. Be yourself and take things really slow. Like I said in the beginning, take it slow and watch the relationship progress. If it seems to be back sliding then you haven't invested too much of yourself and it will be easier for you to move on.
Good luck to you!
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| 4/23/2008 12:22:12 PM | why do women do this? | |
lonesomeloser
Louisville, KY
age: 50
| Hey I though Sally Jessie retired....
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| 4/23/2008 12:26:52 PM | why do women do this? | |
couger2543
Riverview, FL
age: 56
| my freind i was with mine for 8 years, she cheated on me 4 times this last time she told me she was going back to her frist true love after 8 years, so she could picked up where they were before she cheated on him, so you never know hwen thier over them.
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| 4/23/2008 12:27:52 PM | why do women do this? | |
noredneckhere
Sevierville, TN
age: 48
| lonesome, that's good!
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| 4/23/2008 2:59:16 PM | why do women do this? | |
bethlett
Spokane, WA
age: 89
| So.
I never go back to anyone. When I am done, you no longer exist. I never cheat on anyone. If you are not good in bed or not putting out, you no longer exist. I never lie to anyone. If you can't handle the truth, you no longer exist. If you act like an abusive a** to me, you no longer exist.
Wonder why this post says "Why do WOMEN do this?"
Maybe it should say "Why do MORONIC, IGNORANT, INSECURE, ATTENTION DEPRIVED women do this?"
[Edited 4/23/2008 3:00:08 PM]
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| 4/23/2008 3:35:28 PM | why do women do this? | |
soulcrazy
San Clemente, CA
age: 39
| They just haven't figured it out yet... those are not the women you want in your life anyway. Find someone who appreciates you!
~Cajun~
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| 4/23/2008 3:37:39 PM | why do women do this? | |
worhtlesswisdom
Dade City, FL
age: 41
| So, let them leave. I look at relationships this way. If some woman and I are dating and she leaves me for someone else, who cares. She will be back when she finds out what she his missing. If not, she is missing out.
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| 4/23/2008 4:00:46 PM | why do women do this? | |
isabellvenegas
Wyoming, MI
age: 45
| SWEETIE I FEEL ITS THE BAD ATTENTION THEY GET YOU KNOW ITS THE I BEAT YOU SO BAD BUT IAM SO SORRY AND I LOVE YOU SYNDROM AND ILL NEVER DO IT TO YOU AGAIN, BUT THE DOWN SIDE IS SINCE WE AS WOMEN NEVER PRESS CHARGES AGAINST THESE GUYS THEY GET AWAY WITH IT EVERY TIME AND NOW THEY KNOW WE WONT CALL THE COPS OR CALL THE LAWYERS WE THINK ITS LOVE? I CANT FIGURE IT OUT EITHER MAYBE THATS ALL THEY KNOW OR THEY CANT MAKE IT ON THERE OWN AND THEY NEED THAT SO CALLED SUPPORT, LADIES YOU ALL BETTER GET STRONG AND TELL THAT SORRY A** MOTHER F**KER HE BETTER HIT THE BRICKS OR HIT THE STREETS BEFORE HE EVER THINKS ABOUT LAYING A HAND ON YOU, AND STICK TO IT! LOVE ISNT SUPPOSD TO HURT.
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