| 4/24/2008 7:30:58 AM | Am I obligated to care? | |
susansheart839
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 60
| GSB, you got the negative e-mails because you put up new pictures, is my guess (btw, you look fabbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbulous)!
If you have read any of my threads, you know that I have received "hate" mail because of my profile and some of my posts. We are all allowed our opinions, but if you have a negative opinion, please don't e-mail anyone. It's a waste of our time to read your blah blah bah blah blah.
And...you are NOT obligated to care, GSB. We are all strangers here until we become friends. Those who do not first make a friend of you are strangers and they should not be commenting on your profile. If a woman did it to you, consider jealousy as a motive, too.
Susan
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| 4/24/2008 2:52:16 PM | Am I obligated to care? | |
cmjanew
Sayre, PA
age: 49
| GoneBabing,
You are only obligated to ME!!!!!!!
From ME...you MUST take IT!!!!!
Ah.....
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| 4/24/2008 3:08:52 PM | Am I obligated to care? | |
fryyyy
North Kingstown, RI
age: 49
| Nah.. I wouldn't care. Your profile space is your profile space.. to share things about you that you want others to see so maybe you'll meet someone with like mind. I dont think your profile info is up for debate. If something is illegal the site guys can take it down.
I'd just click delete. Not give it a second thought.. or better yet.. email something back first.. then ignore them if you can.. block them.. so you get the last word.. not that the last word is important.. but if it upsets them more than u got upset .. you win 
It's your profile.. If they dont like what they see there they can just move on to the next profile. If something is illegal there they can report it.
I wouldn't care what they thought.
Open forums tho i'd be ready for a debate .. if you say something controversial.
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| 4/25/2008 2:50:15 PM | Am I obligated to care? | |
gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 45
| ahhhhhhhh and don't you know that there's no obligation involved when it's my pleasure????
I care!
I care!
I care!
LOL!
Wanna cup of Joe?
 
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| 4/25/2008 3:19:06 PM | Am I obligated to care? | |
chazz_55
Windsor, ON
age: 53
| well I have no opinion about your profile,since you blocked it. Sailingbabe is there water in Iowa... ha ha
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| 4/25/2008 5:11:57 PM | Am I obligated to care? | |
lildifferent
Sacramento, CA
age: 47
| GSB, remember when i had my profile stating that i didn't wanna date any bikers? i actually got some hate mail behind that. those dumb asses really won me over with that. 
screw 'em. go for what and who you want. no need to waste time on what you don't want.
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| 4/25/2008 5:19:48 PM | Am I obligated to care? | |
bethlett
Spokane, WA
age: 89
| In my less than humble opinion, the only time a person's preferences can get obnoxious is when they start a forum thread about them and try to shove them down everyone's throats as being the ONLY choices that should be arbitrated.
Or when they come on here and start a forum thread HATING the people who possess the preferences that they so vocally can't stand.....
To those type of people I feel a boot in the middle of their lower coccyx would be truly fair...
But for those who clearly state on a profile what they want and don't want....well, as far as I am concerned I don't care if you want a one-eyed wallaby with a purple penis only at the stroke of midnight on the fourth leapyear of every eon.....you have the right to want whatcha want. And its no one's business but your own.
So to those
that write you the hate mail?
FU*CK EM IF THEY CAN'T TAKE A JOKE.
Send em back a link to utube GreenDay, FOD
P.S. I get tons of hate mail. lol. Nature of the beast for bein' opinionated and mouthy.
[Edited 4/25/2008 5:20:15 PM]
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| 4/25/2008 7:25:47 PM | Am I obligated to care? | |
gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 45
| I am who I am!
LOL!
Opinionated and mouthy and totally unwilling to settle for less than the best!
Is that so wrong?
I think....not!
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| 4/26/2008 5:31:43 AM | Am I obligated to care? | |
davewave1
Ann Arbor, MI
age: 61
| Your profile is one of the rare ones here on DH. It, your posts and threads, “speaks” of a woman of high intelligence, noble values, energetic, deeply caring Spirit and specific romantic needs and desires. It is not possible that any human could ever be wrong in succinctly expressing their hopes, dreams, desires, and personal romantic aspirations.
A Flower of your significant inner and outward beauty will attract every species of pollinating insect in the realm, from the most ugly to the handsomest. The decision to choose which one you sense shares your values is yours alone to make.
As a Free Spirit, you have no obligation to respond to those who do not meet your criteria for potential fulfillment of your personal happiness. There is no greater reward known to any being other than to be traveling on their own chosen, unique path which they know leads to attainment of the ultimate human happiness: True Love.
[Edited 4/26/2008 5:35:14 AM]
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| 4/26/2008 6:49:42 AM | Am I obligated to care? | |
sweetiebabe
Louisville, KY
age: 72
| I read your profile and it is obvious you are a free spirit and know what you want. Good for you girl. Usually when people react negatively to a profile it is because some statement in the profile triggers a memory from their past which makes them angry. Maybe the fact they can't have you and (lol) they "wuuuuuuuunt you." Ignore and delete. Just block them.
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| 4/26/2008 7:30:41 AM | Am I obligated to care? | |
nevyn
Prattville, AL
age: 65
| No you are not obligated to care...I looked at your profile and actually it seemed very positive and upbeat. There are a few nut-cases on DH, just ignore them. And if everyone had a smile like yours this old planet would be in a lot less trouble.
I do have a question? What stimulated the interest in Irish History?
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| 4/26/2008 7:33:49 AM | Am I obligated to care? | |
nevyn
Prattville, AL
age: 65
| WOW! I really missed one of the posters....I must be getting old...right now I really wished that I lived in Louisville, Kentucky
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| 4/26/2008 8:12:25 AM | Am I obligated to care? | |
nicksterdemus
Little Rock, AR
age: 51
| I'm obligated to none save myself.
Why should you be any different?
Interesting that I've noticed more than one lady discuss evil e-mails received.
Instead of worrying about the ill intentions behind such communications, taking the time to write a well thought out reply, try Nikz way.
Wait till there's plenty of folks in the forum and post the entire e-mail.
Oh yeah, dawg the hell outa 'em but, be fair in your critical yet factual interpretation in the annihilation of their thoughtless text.
Public floggings can be a good tool.
On the other side of the coin, I have neva seen the like of arrogance in some profiles.
Little wonder some folks are branded in unfavorable terms, right outa the gate.
Say what ya mean, mean what ya say but for the luv o' Gawd try to incorporate a little tact, civility and poise when presenting yourself to the public, should you discover yourself so delicate a flower.
Cream will always rise to the top.
Class needs not direct attention to itself.
The luster of such brilliance will shine as blinding rays that cannot be ignored.
The tarnished will be torn asunder, bobbing in the wake, brushed aside, all the while contemplating, what blue bayou?...
So saith the Sheppard,
So saith the flock.
So it is written,
So shall it be done.
The prophet has spoken,
Long live the prophet.
Postscriptum. Your profile is public so it can be construed as fair game to critique.
Post-postscriptum. Ya know the easiest thing to do, though fanfare deficient is to delete, ignore n go on about ya rat killin'.::drinking
[Edited 4/26/2008 8:46:42 AM]
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| 4/26/2008 2:29:40 PM | Am I obligated to care? | |
dramaiswack
Lansdale, PA
age: 22
| I always feel bad when I want to put "I'm not really into black guys", for example. I mostly have to clarify that because I'm a bigger white woman and for some reason they're a good percentage of what I get. It's not that I won't be their friend, because I will be. I just can't find myself to be sexually attracted to them. Anyway, I always want to put it there and I don't because I don't want to come off as racist. I am also not really into bigger guys. Chubby is one thing, but I mean like BIG dudes. I always just feel bad clarifying that. You shouldn't feel bad for that though, I'm just too worried about how OTHER people feel off the bat. I mean, I can be a total b*tch, but I don't want to come off as a racist fat hypocrite. *shrugs*. I should probably clarify that stuff though.
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| 4/26/2008 2:39:01 PM | Am I obligated to care? | |
castertroy
Belmar, NJ
age: 38
| This is simply absurd.
You have every right to NOT want to waste your time with people you consider to be outside your dating circle.
Regardless of what some may say, ultimately it is your choice to date whatever type of people you want.
Just remember that you will never make EVERY ONE happy so might as well make YOURSEF happy.
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