| 4/23/2008 7:42:07 PM | He's too good to be true | |
brownibeauty32
Collegeville, PA
age: 32
| What happened to all the good men out there? Am I just meant to meet a**holes. Ladies, have u ever meant someone on one of these dating sites, went on a couple of dates with this persons, and they told u all the stuff that u wanted to hear, and things were actually going great. Then out of nowhere they stop returning ur calls like u never existed.  I mean what's going on,  I know I'm no beauty queen, but damn I think I have a little of something going on. BEWARE ladies, if he sounds too good to be true, then he probally is. Maybe I'll just start dating woman. Any volunteers 
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| 4/23/2008 7:43:50 PM | He's too good to be true | |
tlc4u46
Santa Barbara, CA
age: 47
| Thought about it but I love men, a leopard can't change their stripes.
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| 4/23/2008 7:47:11 PM | He's too good to be true | |
dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 45
| You probably should have kissed him more. He quite possibly turned back into a toad.
[Edited 4/23/2008 7:47:50 PM]
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| 4/23/2008 7:48:45 PM | He's too good to be true | |
curious70000
Wyandotte, MI
age: 46
| Why do people think online dating is going to bring a better batch of people than the ones off line?
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| 4/23/2008 7:55:04 PM | He's too good to be true | |
ladyinparis
Paris, TX
age: 41
| Curious...I don't know that "we" assume there is going to be a better batch online. When you meet someone online, you generally email back and forth, IM, and then talk on the phone for a while before you meet them in person.
Did you sign up for DH to get more of the same, or were you hoping to increase your chances of meeting Mr. Right?
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| 4/23/2008 7:57:08 PM | He's too good to be true | |
tedric
Anchor Point, AK
age: 67
| tlc ~
Leopards have SPOTS ~ tigers have stripes... Sooo, what're you sayin'; does Brownibeauty have a shot..?
(sorry, I couldn't resist)
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| 4/23/2008 7:57:58 PM | He's too good to be true | |
blueyedbobbie
Poultney, VT
age: 36
| sorry hun like men way to much; but have to agree with the other replies. you have the same shot online as offline.
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| 4/23/2008 7:58:49 PM | He's too good to be true | |
tlc4u46
Santa Barbara, CA
age: 47
| My bad you're right, I just meant I can't change the fact that I'm attracted to men and not women. No choice, it's how I was born. Regardless of how many people think it is a choice.
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| 4/23/2008 8:02:54 PM | He's too good to be true | |
tedric
Anchor Point, AK
age: 67
| tlc ~
You had me worried there for a minute ~ thought maybe it was some sort of "secret" code. That's what comes from living so far from the mainstream ~ I'm not up on the latest jargon.
Seriously, I'm glad you took it as a joke. Kinda knew you would. 
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| 4/23/2008 8:16:37 PM | He's too good to be true | |
usakindatheart
Overton, TX
age: 48 online now!
| brownibeauty32
before you believe all the lines they give you, you might think how you set your self up for them. on your chats and emails. do you give them all your likes and dislikes?
do you tell them all your fears?
ect.
men who are sneaky , crafty, or intelligent. don't just listen to us in the beginning, they do absorb what we say, they filter it, shuffle it up like cards, and lay what offensive plan they need to use to get in YOUR PANTS.....
well all but the very very dear nice ones. but they also are wondering how they should go about getting into your pants....
now if a girl likes/ dislikes, fears, wants. are too complicated, (meaning he doesn't want to take the time to deal with her issues, or it will cost him too much of his free time or money), then he will string you along. (and you will notice when this happens, because he will forget what you told him in the beginning, and even though in the beginning he remembered, in the sting along stage he forgets.
so he is stringing you along, now not taking as much care about how he communicates, in fact, you will probably find your self carrying most of the conversation, unfortunately for most woman at first you don't catch this, because you have "let your guard down", and feel comfortable talking and talking....
but he day dreams when you do this, wondering if its time to go... if he still has so and so's number. maybe stop at a club, or get back on line. ect....
he is not there anymore emotionally, and you are just not seeing it. because he was so good at communicating at first, (knowing what turns you on or off like a wind up toy, your fault you should of not let him know everything!) but now with you so relaxed and thinking everything is great, you are missing the clues, and physical signals that say he is out of there.
so advice... slow down on the bonding ... allow more time to get to this point. don't let your guard down so easily for smart men. or con, could be either. men like challenges, and if you, the present is already opened. and i don't mean sex either. then whats left to discover??
good luck, hope you take advice and see it coming next time. if it does, who knows though next one may be good as gold... but just in case...
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| 4/23/2008 8:17:53 PM | He's too good to be true | |
muffycakes
Chanhassen, MN
age: 26
| I went on a few dates with a guy from the internet last fall. Our last phone conversation ended in him telling me that he missed me and could not wait to see me again. I never heard from him again. At first I was pissed because I felt like he lied to me and wasted all my time in me getting to know him and then I realized that he may have just found someone that he thinks is more compatable than I. There are plenty of good guys available, you will surely find the one.
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| 4/23/2008 8:18:18 PM | He's too good to be true | |
tlc4u46
Santa Barbara, CA
age: 47
| tedric I have a secret code, and no one can break it!!
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| 4/23/2008 8:19:02 PM | He's too good to be true | |
tlc4u46
Santa Barbara, CA
age: 47
| but muffycakes, he should have been honest and just told you.
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| 4/23/2008 8:26:20 PM | He's too good to be true | |
joss70
Lexington, VA
age: 29
| If he's tooooo good to be true he IS LYING!!! I have been on Match, pof, and here I have only met about 4 men who seem to be any where near honest!!!!
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| 4/23/2008 8:28:00 PM | He's too good to be true | |
muffycakes
Chanhassen, MN
age: 26
| well I couldn't agree more tlc but he and I are both young and perhaps he just isn't as mature to realize how to handle a situation like that. He should have told me but he probably felt that it was much easier to not say anything.
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