| 4/24/2008 4:47:00 PM | is there really someone for everone | |
pichick712
Brookhaven, PA
age: 50
| YES, there really is someone for everyone. It's just that that person might be 10,000 miles away or even married to someone else, not on DH or any other dating site, or possibly dead allready but he or she is/was out there.
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| 4/24/2008 5:09:34 PM | is there really someone for everone | |
michalina
Big Rapids, MI
age: 23
| I think that there is a right person for everyone. I also believe that there can be more then one right person for someone. The reason I say this is because everyone comes into your life for a reason and unfortuantly that might mean they are the right person for right now. Is there a such thing as that fairytale love. NO.... If you think there is stop dreaming.Relationships are hard work no matter how great they are. If you cant work together and comprimise then it wont work.
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| 4/24/2008 5:51:51 PM | is there really someone for everone | |
singlemomxo
Calgary, AB
age: 46
| If there is nothing else to believe in, we should believe that ther is someone for everyone. And I guess keep lookin till you find them.
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| 4/24/2008 5:56:06 PM | is there really someone for everone | |
snowbird1961
Los Lunas, NM
age: 47
| I believe there is someone for everyone, I certainly hope so anyway.
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| 4/24/2008 5:56:56 PM | is there really someone for everone | |
maniacmassager
Lawrence, MA
age: 42
| theres hundreds if not thousands for everyone.
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| 4/24/2008 6:40:41 PM | is there really someone for everone | |
heelandtoe2008
Cromwell, CT
age: 44
| Is there someone for everyone? Unfortunately, I'd say no. Here's why:
yedjh wrote, "if . . . you both are willing to compromise and spend every day working out your problems . . . you have found your Mr. Right."
yedjh has learned her lessons well. More of us should attempt the same.
michalina wrote, "Relationships are hard work no matter how great they are. If you cant work together and comprimise then it wont work."
michalina is wise for her years.
The common theme is the willingness and ability to work together and compromise. Anyone who can't has no chance of a successful long-term relationship, IMHO. Thus, there is no potential partner that can work with such a person (that is, there can be no Mr or Ms Right for the person).
Obviously, there is the initial attraction, the inevitable re-valuation, the acceptance and adaptation of one's plan for the future, and then the actual implementation. Unfortunately, even if you can get through the first phases in one piece, the actual implementation necessarily requires working together and compromise. Therefore, these abilities are absolutely critical for any long-term relationship candidate(s).
As an aside, beware of anyone who is "too" eager to compromise early on, as it may be an indication that they will be unreasonble later. I think there must always be a consistent balance of give and take.
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| 4/24/2008 9:28:58 PM | is there really someone for everone | |
daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54
| yes the problem lies in what youre looking for: what you want, or what you need. You overlook a lot of orchids, if all you look for is roses
[Edited 4/24/2008 9:29:54 PM]
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| 4/25/2008 3:36:44 PM | is there really someone for everone | |
meggie1970
Snohomish, WA
age: 38
|  I think so, but I haven't found him yet....just hope he is the one that is standing on the corner and walking towards me as we speak.....
Guess not....damn!!!
There's always next time....
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| 4/25/2008 3:40:00 PM | is there really someone for everone | |
cheygirl
Cheyenne, WY
age: 43
| No - thank you for asking though 
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| 4/25/2008 3:40:45 PM | is there really someone for everone | |
oliverbrancher
Calgary, AB
age: 46
| you would have to ask yourself what is your purpose in relationship...
what is it you desire from relationship....?....? ...? ....?
any clues....? is it that you seek to be a.) employed ... b.) stay at home... c.) stay at home mom ..? d.) do nothing at all...and therefore kept by a man...?...what would you return to the relationship...?
ask yourself these questions...
what do you come up with...?
you will get what you need in the moment to show you who you are in respect to that relationship...who you are yourself...
comprendez...?
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| 4/25/2008 3:50:21 PM | is there really someone for everone | |
reenie4
Milwaukee, WI
age: 51
| I thought I would put the OP's question to the test, so here I am, on a dating site, several actually!!! I'll get back to you!
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| 4/25/2008 4:04:41 PM | is there really someone for everone | |
justlooking630
West New York, NJ
age: 48
| Well they say there a lid for every pot why not someone for everyone .....just trying to be optimistic but Pichick last line said it best they a probably dead lololol JMO
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| 4/25/2008 4:40:02 PM | is there really someone for everone | |
heyppl
Saint Louis, MO
age: 27
| I GIVE UP ON FINDING HIM MAYBE I ALREADY HAVE FOUND HIM AND LET HIM SLIP THROUGH MY HANDS. WAS I THINKING?
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