clegs
New York, NY
age: 62
| I met a really special guy on this site. i like him a lot and he returns the feelings.. we have gone out on several occasions and had a faboulous time. we have never been intimate because we decided that it is too soon , we have both lost spouses, mine nine years ago and his six or seven months ago. His marriage was not a happy one, but he stayed for his children, he now has to keep this farce going, (the grieving husband) because he has done it for over thirty years. I think he should end this bogus pretense and enjoy the happiness with someone who can make him happy, I want it to be me, but if not, i want him to find happiness with someone, he is a terrific person. please help!
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libra75
Garfield, AR
age: 32
| Have you tried telling him exactly what you just told all of us?
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teewood4u
Pahrump, NV
age: 42
| also tell him what you feel give him space as well. Be a friend a comfort some wounds just take time and understanding
 good luck say your prayers
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