| 4/24/2008 7:01:26 PM | do you really like ppl that blunt and honest? | |
tazzper23
Texarkana, TX
age: 45 online now!
| i know my grammer isn't good but i try to type with honesty and the most reason why me grammer isn't good cause i try to say thing bluntly and honestly but try to say it in a nice way and that is hard for me .
but i've notice that in away that turn many off
my question is why some of you lie and say you want honesty but in fact you don't ?
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| 4/24/2008 7:05:08 PM | do you really like ppl that blunt and honest? | |
nowurtalking
Amarillo, TX
age: 42
| "You can't handle the truth" - (Jack Nicholson) 
I am always honest. Some people just don't want to hear it.
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| 4/24/2008 7:10:03 PM | do you really like ppl that blunt and honest? | |
lady_bug_honey
Rural Retreat, VA
age: 56
| My grammer isn't that good either, but I can assure you that there is honest people. I'm one of them, but I loose friends because of being totally honest. But that's ok with me. If i had to lie to get a date then it's not worth it to me. I want to keep myself honest so that if i ever get into a relationship, that person will be able to trust me in every way.
You see like a great person.
God bless
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| 4/24/2008 7:16:55 PM | do you really like ppl that blunt and honest? | |
mowry
Ashland, PA
age: 39 online now!
| i am honest to a fault.i will not lie just to tell someone what they want to hear. my freinds know me and what to expect thats why they are my friends. they know i wont lie
or give them any B.S.
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| 4/24/2008 7:17:10 PM | do you really like ppl that blunt and honest? | |
katrina_sq
Mena, AR
age: 39
| I am honest, too, usually to a fault and my own detriment, but there is a way to be tactful and honest at the same time.
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| 4/24/2008 7:17:47 PM | do you really like ppl that blunt and honest? | |
headstart68
Evansville, IN
age: 40
| Interesting question.
Some people get their feelings hurt very easily, especially if they've been treated badly by a loved one.
Honest words are easier to swallow when they're sweet and tender.
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| 4/24/2008 7:24:38 PM | do you really like ppl that blunt and honest? | |
tazzper23
Texarkana, TX
age: 45 online now!
| cool where i work the guy tell me iam to honest but hey i will be the one that has to answer to god when it all said and done
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| 4/24/2008 7:25:47 PM | do you really like ppl that blunt and honest? | |
luvwild
Brooklyn, NY
age: 41
| It isn't a lie. I really do want someone that is straight-forward and honest.
That doesn't mean I don't want someone who can be sarcastic and/or witty and/or silly.
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| 4/24/2008 7:26:00 PM | do you really like ppl that blunt and honest? | |
tazzper23
Texarkana, TX
age: 45 online now!
| i think its better to be hated for tell the truth then to be love for lieing
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| 4/24/2008 7:28:11 PM | do you really like ppl that blunt and honest? | |
tazzper23
Texarkana, TX
age: 45 online now!
| i agree i like a littie sillyness to but it bother me that i hear so much about being honest and then when you do be honest you get hated for it crazy huh
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| 4/24/2008 7:38:46 PM | do you really like ppl that blunt and honest? | |
mowry
Ashland, PA
age: 39 online now!
| im honest but i try to be ncie to unless im pushed then i will be blunt but i am also silly,witty and can be sarcastic  
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| 4/24/2008 7:44:15 PM | do you really like ppl that blunt and honest? | |
alittle_country
Gilmer, TX
age: 48
| I'm honest I will not lie cause if you do you got to
remember that lie so you can tell another to back
that up.....
NOPE not me truth even tho sometimes it hurts!!!!!
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| 4/24/2008 8:59:23 PM | do you really like ppl that blunt and honest? | |
goldngyrl
Glendale, AZ
age: 50
| i believe that people respect honesty in general BUT the truth is more effective when tempered with compassion. Timing is very important also. Raw bluntness only serves personal pride and just may be a hidden motive to wound and hurt (to me), especially if there is a rocky and or deceitful history between the parties. when you care you want the truth to come out but generally you do not want to hurt someone unless you have a motive to i.e. you have anger issues, or they hurt you in the past and that hurt hasnt been resolved. You know? Just my take.
Having said that my personal experience has been to speak up and out. Indiscriminately. Mostly on behalf of others and ideals that are theoretically given lip service as being put into action but in reality are not. Even then, at times when discrimination and wisdom and timing are not used the truth can be real weapon against another....and requires damage control. Seems all souls have not the same experiences and framework to process blunt truth. maybe they were not meant to. Seem also at times that those who unreservedly dish it experience a disconnect when it is aimed at them. Been there done that have the tshirt LOL
So ive learned and am still learning to speak truth in love, with love, as I would want someone to speak a hard thing to me
sometimes though frankly if a body knows the buttons and pushes them anyway because of their own issues.... well u know what im sayin! i get them off of me. Just being honest, TRUTH (alignment of actions and intent and undistorted realities) is a big issue with me but give it to me the way you want it given to you
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| 4/24/2008 9:08:38 PM | do you really like ppl that blunt and honest? | |
daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54
| Blunt and honest I can handle, Loud, self righteous, egotistical, I can't
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| 4/24/2008 9:27:52 PM | do you really like ppl that blunt and honest? | |
jessie7856
Jupiter, FL
age: 35
| I try not to be so blunt but sometimes its just so hard not to be that way.
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