| 4/25/2008 3:31:50 PM | why arn't men straight up with women | |
angeldelights
Peterborough, ON
age: 49
| Maybee I'm to honest...but its just the person that I am ...i believe in being straight up too...if not interested i tell them in a nice way...i have never mislead any man ...just wonders why he told me different then ignored me...but tks for all the input ppl good luck to all 
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| 4/25/2008 3:58:36 PM | why arn't men straight up with women | |
gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 45
| I think if you're the type of individual that's trusting and honest, it never occurs to you to be otherwise.
The point is definitely true however, that women are just as guilty of being deceitful and misleading.
Although I don't really think that's what you're asking about.
For me it's hard to disappoint someone, or to just say - "I don't find you attractive". I rarely will do so. I try to be more kind, say "I don't think we suit", etc.,
I only become very "un-polite" when barraged by resentment or hostility by the receiver of my message.
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| 4/25/2008 4:16:42 PM | why arn't men straight up with women | |
alvin_
Keene, NH
age: 44
| I like to be gentle when letting someone down, would really rather not do it at all. I've learned though, that putting it off, or hoping your feelings will change is waayy worse.
XOXO
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| 4/25/2008 4:19:19 PM | why arn't men straight up with women | |
rlynn_1
Hedgesville, WV
age: 39
| maybe its an ontario thing
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| 4/25/2008 4:44:26 PM | why arn't men straight up with women | |
sunshine196047
London, ON
age: 48
| Hey girlfriend dont take that to heart,not all men are deceiving and players.Sometimes you have to weed the bad ones out and go through the good and bad times to get there.Its not just men either ,women tend to do the same thing,so it works both ways.Dont let this get you down as they say there is someone for everyone and one day you will find your prince.It's better you find out now before he took your heart and crushed it.Its a lesson learned and you will go through many more too,so dont let this turn you off,there is alot of nice men out there.
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| 4/25/2008 4:53:09 PM | why arn't men straight up with women | |
angeldelights
Peterborough, ON
age: 49
| tks sunshine...its all in the past ....on to the next as they do...smiles did i say that out loud
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| 4/25/2008 8:04:40 PM | why arn't men straight up with women | |
kamakazi20012
Harrison, AR
age: 34
| I find honesty & loyalty to be the first building stones in any relationship. If those click..the rest just seems to fall into play. And if it's GOD's will, good things will come of it.
However, my problem seems to be that most of today's females (not all of you) seem to prefer looks over what is on the inside. And this, in itself, can hurt worse that being dishonest. Sometimes I wonder just how "ugly" I appear to the opposite sex.
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| 4/25/2008 8:19:03 PM | why arn't men straight up with women | |
carolinaguy71
Boca Raton, FL
age: 37
| Its the same reason women arent honest either, I mean its not about gender. Its about having some morals and being honest. If you have no moral backbone why would you care about cheating on someone or lying to someone?
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| 4/25/2008 8:23:23 PM | why arn't men straight up with women | |
kamakazi20012
Harrison, AR
age: 34
| You want straight up? D**n hotsweetcherie! Take me home with you!  
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