| 4/25/2008 2:26:49 PM | Apparently I have offended someone here. | |
corbinsgaga
Wooster, OH
age: 47
| I received an Email today that totally blew me away and literally sat me on my ass. Very few people here at DH know this about me and I was honestly quite shocked by this persons email and I will not name names because he's quite well known in the forums and I won't call him out that way. I am a very recent widow. I buried the love of my life on the 22nd of October of 2007. I was just starting to recover a little to the point I could talk about him with totally breaking down. This person has taken it upon themselves to tell me that I have not mourned long enough and I should'nt even be on this sight. This sight had gotten me through some very dark days and equally dark nights and I have enjoyed it until today. Therefore, I will be deleting my profile and I'd like to give a holler to a few certain people here. Wonderturtle, Chopper and Chop Jr, Much love and respect to you. Big Joel, Tulsatoby, Drum, Scruff, Stormy, Missy,Twohawks, Sitka,Kfab,and the rest of you know who you are, much love and respect. Thanks for making me laugh and smile. For the few who have my personal email. I hope to still hear from you. I feel at this time I can't honestly stay. I am really hurt and upset by this so it's better for me to go.
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| 4/25/2008 2:29:11 PM | Apparently I have offended someone here. | |
me4aminute_1
Rutland, IA
age: 35
| Don't let that make you leave.........this site helped me get through some of the darkest days and nights of my life. I don't see anything wrong with you being here. No one has the right to tell you how long you need to grieve.
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| 4/25/2008 2:29:35 PM | Apparently I have offended someone here. | |
metu
Mansfield, TX
age: 46 online now!
| Do NOT let this maniac run you off! Of all the insensitive, selfish, idiotic statements to make! If you do decide to leave anyway, then at least out this cold-hearted, judgemental bastard so we can steer clear of him ! There is NO excuse for this bullshit!!!
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| 4/25/2008 2:29:59 PM | Apparently I have offended someone here. | |
rlynn_1
Hedgesville, WV
age: 39
| so what if you offended someone your here to be yourself>
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| 4/25/2008 2:31:00 PM | Apparently I have offended someone here. | |
blondechick37
Industry, PA
age: 37
| corbin dont let him run you of here
your a sweet lady and it is different for everyone... dont let what he said cause you to leave here you have alot of people who would miss ya
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| 4/25/2008 2:33:43 PM | Apparently I have offended someone here. | |
waytogo51
Prairie Grove, AR
age: 51
| If you delete your profile, I will be very mad at you. No one has the right to tell you how long you should mourn. I am still mourning the death of my sister who died over 3 years ago.
I repeat, DO NOT DELETE YOUR PROFILE!!! I don't know who the party was who said that to you but they are very wrong. You need your friends here to help you get over your loss. And in time you will know when it is time to start dating again.
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| 4/25/2008 2:34:33 PM | Apparently I have offended someone here. | |
maniacmassager
Lawrence, MA
age: 42 online now!
| my vote is for you to stay. 
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| 4/25/2008 2:35:59 PM | Apparently I have offended someone here. | |
lostinwyoming
Evanston, WY
age: 50
| who's he to judge you? everyones differnt and mourns in differnt ways. some take longer than others. jmo. stick around.
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| 4/25/2008 2:39:35 PM | Apparently I have offended someone here. | |
yellowroom
Grand Island, NE
age: 47
| gaga...if you enjoy it here..stay here. Don't let what someone else thinks make you do something you don't want.  yellow
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| 4/25/2008 2:42:08 PM | Apparently I have offended someone here. | |
ru2timid
Rockford, IL
age: 46
| Don't go, although you don't know me... I have enjoyed the laughter and joy you have brought by your presence here... So don't let a funsucker rob you or anybody else. Don't do it... no matter what a persons "status" is on here - you are the one that matters. He should just FO. Hugs to you.
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| 4/25/2008 2:44:53 PM | Apparently I have offended someone here. | |
tamirae
Woodland, CA
age: 32
| we each morn in our own way, and you should leave your friends here because one guy was a prick
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| 4/25/2008 2:49:05 PM | Apparently I have offended someone here. | |
nashoba_miko
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 39
| You dont need anyones PERMISSION to be here except Dustin's . The NERVE of some people thinking they can dictate their thoughts on others . I DARE someone to tell me to do that . Stay here girl ....guess you learned more about some people than you wanted . And I agree with Metu, I wanna know who to avoid
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| 4/25/2008 2:50:25 PM | Apparently I have offended someone here. | |
silkpanties53
Baytown, TX
age: 53
|  it not good to let someone else control you life or your thoughts
you stayed with your love "till death do us part" and its your turn to live.
live life as you want to and don't let others influence you.
some people on here are out to see who they can hurt no matter
what the issues are, stand tall and keep your head up your a
wonderful lady and i enjoy reading your post
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| 4/25/2008 2:50:39 PM | Apparently I have offended someone here. | |
waytogo51
Prairie Grove, AR
age: 51
| "He who has not sin cast the first stone" I am not saying you have sinned. For no you have not. You have nothing to feel ashamed of.
I put that quote from the Bible in there for that person to answer not you. What gives that person the right to be judge and jury? They do not have that right. PERIOD. No one has that right. You need us as we need you. We are all going through some kind of loss and pain. We need each other to helps us through that. I know at times that I need a shoulder to lean on. Or to listen to me.
You have too many friends here to leave now. There is no different in us here as your friends where you live. We need to support each other.
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| 4/25/2008 2:53:22 PM | Apparently I have offended someone here. | |
nicksterdemus
Little Rock, AR
age: 50
| Lawd have mercy what hawgwash he's tryin' to hose you with.
I'd cuss a blue streak on his ass from @ least now through the weekend.
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