| 4/26/2008 6:05:29 AM | Do men find it hard to communicate | |
rendezvous04
Tinley Park, IL
age: 57
| I've been out of the loop so to speak for a while, but is it me or are men now a days not willing to give it there all in getting to know someone. Wondering!!!!
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| 4/26/2008 6:13:12 AM | Do men find it hard to communicate | |
texaggie71
American Canyon, CA
age: 58
| It seems that communication is not the problem, but understanding and committment may well be.
At this age, it is a great deal easier and less dramatic and much less emotionally draining to be alone and have lots of friends than to put forth all the work and stress of a relationship with just one female.
Of coarse, one female is almost an oxymoron considering so many women are so multifaceted it is like trying to get to know six to ten people, all in one body. For men, this is a most confusing and singularly the most difficult thing that we face in life.
Just my opinion, but then you did ask for our opinions, didn't you ?
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| 4/26/2008 6:15:35 AM | Do men find it hard to communicate | |
thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
| It can be you OR it could be the men you are running into. Some men communicate better than others, just like vice versa. It all depends who you run into. It's the luck of the dice.
Good luck.
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| 4/26/2008 6:17:42 AM | Do men find it hard to communicate | |
trustme086again
Radcliff, KY
age: 37
| I have no issues in communication, but I do think men and women have different definitions of communication. I guess what I mean is that the two genders go about it differently....say the same thing but in different ways. So men seem to be a little more "harsh" in what they say, and women "Sugar Coat" it.
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| 4/26/2008 6:47:23 AM | Do men find it hard to communicate | |
easy111
Prior Lake, MN
age: 55
| It's a fact that women speak 3 times as many words a day than men do.
Sometimes I sit in front of this computer in a daze wondering what I'm going to write.
DUH 
Sometimes I'm on date and I just don't have anything to say "DUH". Right now I don't have anything more to say "DUH"
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| 4/26/2008 7:44:26 AM | Do men find it hard to communicate | |
rendezvous04
Tinley Park, IL
age: 57
| Thanks for the input. Mr. easy you put it so.....like a man lol!! I do appreciate all the help you all have valid points. Thanks
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| 4/26/2008 9:29:44 AM | Do men find it hard to communicate | |
dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 45
| Just pull their trigger and you'll get the communication you desire. Sometimes some guys just need a little nudge to get them to open up.
Then there are those you could smack with a 2 X 4 and never get them going. Just leave those lying in your wake.
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| 4/26/2008 9:50:57 AM | Do men find it hard to communicate | |
mforditude
Lake Dallas, TX
age: 47
| Depends on topic/interest, but often over-analyze (may just mean I'm slow) which can be interpreted differently
Caution may also play a role especially if some red flags are going up
Approach also means allot – soft approach may work best 
PS - Sometimes I take the time to know what I'm doing
[Edited 4/26/2008 10:27:33 AM]
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| 4/26/2008 10:03:23 AM | Do men find it hard to communicate | |
bella2020
Lebanon, OH
age: 47
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| 4/26/2008 10:11:31 AM | Do men find it hard to communicate | |
gar67
Omaha, NE
age: 40
| Brings to mind a date I had last month. The question where is bbq charcoal mined.. The reply  ..
Sometimes a man is silent for a reason 
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| 4/26/2008 10:54:35 AM | Do men find it hard to communicate | |
mforditude
Lake Dallas, TX
age: 47
| Who asked the question? Just seems unusual
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| 4/26/2008 10:55:16 AM | Do men find it hard to communicate | |
luvwild
Brooklyn, NY
age: 41
| If you ask a man about himself, he may communicate more. Ask a man anything about sports(favorite teams or has he been watching the basketball games), what he does at his work, general family questions (does he come from a large family,etc.), or how he ended up on a dating site, what he does when he is not working. That is how you get a man to communicate.
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| 4/26/2008 11:53:33 AM | Do men find it hard to communicate | |
easy111
Prior Lake, MN
age: 55
| Hey Luvwild, Ask him anything about sex that'll warm him up 
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| 4/26/2008 1:42:52 PM | Do men find it hard to communicate | |
chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47
| This isn't a gender thing. Women has issues with communication. I work with a bunch of ladies and quite a few of them run to the manager rather than talking with the person they have the issue with. Like, do these people do this when they are in a relationship???
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| 4/26/2008 1:45:25 PM | Do men find it hard to communicate | |
alexd66
Selinsgrove, PA
age: 41
| I'm actually much more comfortable talking about things to a woman.
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