beleive him or not?

4/26/2008 8:41:26 PM	beleive him or not?
dar3407 Glen Burnie, MD age: 50	I have been emailing with this guy on here for the past month and a half and we have been talking on the phone almost every nite, but last weekend he had something to do and we didn't meet and he appologized Monday morning and again Monday night on the phone. Have been talking on the phone every nite and suppose to meet tomorrow, but no phone call today I think that he may be married but, why does he call me every nite and how if he is married?
4/26/2008 8:44:55 PM	beleive him or not?
crashed4u Chippewa Falls, WI age: 33	Maybe his significant other works nights? Or, he could just be very shy in person... Thats a tough one.. I would let him call a few times and don't answer, yes that sounds like a game...but I would only make one more date with him...and if he is a no show, drop it, something else is going on....
4/26/2008 8:48:13 PM	beleive him or not?
ge0ge0 Tallahassee, FL age: 41 online now!	So the guy is supposed to suspend his life so a gal can keep tabs on him, by talking every night on the phone? Isn't that what's really going on?
4/26/2008 8:49:20 PM	beleive him or not?
katrina_sq Mena, AR age: 39	Well, something definitely ain't right. Maybe he just gets cold feet. I had something like that happen to me. We finally did meet, had a 4 hour date, went great, made plans for the next weekend, and I got an email the next day that he wasn't ready. He ended up getting back with his bipolar wife (who he had been separated from for several months and the divorce was in the works) because of the way I made him feel. Anyway, I can't say thatI think he's married, but I would not push him. I would back off a bit, let him chase you, and see what happens.
4/26/2008 8:51:46 PM	beleive him or not?
bry11ca Buellton, CA age: 43 online now!	No lies allowed. Truth or lies . . . . . and if he lies . . . he lies alone . . . . neste paste Angel? Bry Actions speak louder than words.
4/26/2008 8:57:57 PM	beleive him or not?
katrina_sq Mena, AR age: 39	Bry, how was the interview in Cali?
4/27/2008 5:10:05 AM	beleive him or not?
coppermare Grady, AL age: 48	Hmmm could be he chickened out on the meeting? Maybe his pics are not real. Maybe he's afraid you won't like his looks?
4/27/2008 5:26:24 AM	beleive him or not?
soulcrazy San Clemente, CA age: 39 online now!	Maybe he works nights? Maybe she works nights? Maybe they are separated and trying to work things out? Regardless, women have intuition for a reason and if you aren't comfortable maybe you should move on before you invest anymore time and feelings.
4/27/2008 7:19:56 PM	beleive him or not?
ddv1370 Chandler, AZ age: 29	You won't know until you see each other on a regular basis. For all you know he is a 17 year old nerd just playing games with you. That is one of the problems with internet dating.
4/27/2008 7:25:06 PM	beleive him or not?
belladreams Binghamton, NY age: 38	sounds like a normal guy to me.....no suspicions here....if he was married or had a significant other, he would not be calling you at all, thats for sure. He did call you to apologize which some men do NOT do....so go ahead and meet him and ask him the question, but just be pretty blunt about it, and tell him to be honest, but dont come off too strong because men dont like that. You could lose him if you really like him. [Edited 4/27/2008 7:25:21 PM]
4/27/2008 7:31:16 PM	beleive him or not?
cmjanew Sayre, PA age: 48	Dar, Let's meet for coffee. I'll call ya!
4/27/2008 7:37:34 PM	beleive him or not?
dottyparker Knoxville, TN age: 46	Oh, married men call. They have the time--spent hours on the phone on New Year's Eve with a "widow." His wife started calling me a month later--it was a miracle. Doubt is healthy.
4/27/2008 7:41:50 PM	beleive him or not?
cmjanew Sayre, PA age: 48	Good way to start a relationship_____doubt exposed on DHu forums.
4/27/2008 7:48:42 PM	beleive him or not?
cindy_smiley Casselberry, FL age: 46	He can be married and still talk nightly, email and IM. If he has an office in his house, it would be no problem - you could always be "an annoying client that calls at inconvenient times"... When a guy wants to talk with you or meet you, he will find a way - regardless.
4/27/2008 7:49:13 PM	beleive him or not?
darbie59 Whitby, ON age: 48	You never really know until you actually meet and start dating on a regular basis, and sometimes then is hard to tell. Do you know his first and last name, his address, phone number (land line to home)? With out that info you will never know. Do you call him or is he always calling you? When I am asked for my number I always get theirs first, then they can have mine once I have called them.