| 4/27/2008 10:50:52 AM | Another newbie on board | |
wdstklady
Canton, GA
age: 44
| Hi,
I've tried other dating sites, got all kinds of weird PM's, put my profile on [blocked site], received all kinds of weird PM's, my g / f belongs here, spoke very highly of it so I eventually gave in and here I am.
Please read my profile. I'm not here for an intimate encounter. I'm not here for a serious relationship either. I'm not here to be someone's mom.
I often laugh at myself, I see my glass as half full, not half empty. I prefer to see the good things not the bad. I enjoy listening to it rain, I enjoy quiet. I enjoy loving and spoiling my mate to the fullest but am in no hurry to find another mate.
Life is what you make of it and I'm completely okay with being alone in this big world. It would be nice to have someone to dine with, hang with, walk with, chat with but I like myself therefore, I'm in no hurry.
I cannot stand clingy. I cannot stand someone who needs to talk with me 100 times a day. I cannot stand someone who needs constant reassurance.
I will like you as you. Hopefully you'll like me as me and we'll take things naturally.
Signed,
wdstklady
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| 4/27/2008 3:48:26 PM | Another newbie on board | |
tfortexas
Big Sandy, TX
age: 56 online now!
| Welcome Lady  I hope you find what you are looking for
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| 4/27/2008 4:19:30 PM | Another newbie on board | |
lady_bug_honey
Rural Retreat, VA
age: 56
| Welcome wdstklady There are some very wonderful people on here. I'm sure you will enjoy your stay here.
God bless
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| 4/27/2008 4:52:13 PM | Another newbie on board | |
towfrogg
Lawrenceville, GA
age: 51 online now!
| Wellcome fellow georgian.Let me know if you need anything,Im in the neighborhood
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| 4/27/2008 6:19:15 PM | Another newbie on board | |
davids07
Princeton, LA
age: 50
| Hi Lady from Shreveport LA and welcome to DH
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| 4/28/2008 5:42:53 PM | Another newbie on board | |
wdstklady
Canton, GA
age: 44
| Thank you! I'm not sure what I'm looking for. After re-reading that post just a moment ago, I was surprised any one said hello!
Didn't mean to sound so harsh. I'm really nice in person. I just was fed up with the last site I was on and i guess I sorta took it out here. I'm sorry.
Big hugs!!! Let's start over (I've also softened my profile some):
Hi!
A new adventure into dating. This seems to be the rage and the norm. My friend is a member here and speaks very highly of everyone so I figured I'd check it out. Hope to make some friends along the way 
Thanks!
Wdstklady
Much better huh?!
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| 4/28/2008 6:03:19 PM | Another newbie on board | |
whitefeathers1
Pleasureville, KY
age: 46
| Welcome to DH hope you really enjoy it on here. 
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| 4/28/2008 6:05:52 PM | Another newbie on board | |
aka_neo
Marathon, FL
age: 51 online now!
| This is my new greeting .
I'm not a girl and I'm not yet in Hawaii .
But I like the picture and what it means .
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| 4/28/2008 8:11:43 PM | Another newbie on board | |
wdstklady
Canton, GA
age: 44
| Nice greeting! and you said you aren't in Hawaii yet? It's so beautiful there! Whenever you go, have a great trip
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| 4/28/2008 8:13:43 PM | Another newbie on board | |
drumrman
Belmont, MA
age: 43 online now!
| good evening, and welcome. enjoy.
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| 4/28/2008 9:35:48 PM | Another newbie on board | |
teberd
Thompsons Station, TN
age: 52
| We3lcome to DH and enjoy ... Look around have fun
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| 4/28/2008 9:49:44 PM | Another newbie on board | |
smilelaugh
Fremont, NE
age: 37
| Welcome to DH.
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| 4/29/2008 6:29:38 PM | Another newbie on board | |
wdstklady
Canton, GA
age: 44
| Well, I have to admit, this has been very challenging. Being honest about yourself yet at the same time "selling" yourself. It's not like in person where you hear someone's voice and see their smile and look into their eyes. This is a board without sounds or expressions.
it's been extremely difficult for me to post my profile the way I want it without sounding like ... you know what.
Basically, I've been divorced for 3 years. It was a very horrible and traumatic divorce but through a lot of healing via friends and church, I am back to normal again and ready to embrace what life has to offer.
Do I want another mate? I honestly don't know. Sometimes I do and other times I'm so happy to be alone. I haven't "dated" since my divorce and have absolutely no idea how it is going to go.
I've kept all men at a distance and only became buddies / friends with them so to be romantically involved again - I just don't have a clue. I know it's very hard for me to trust and believe a guy is sincere.
I know I want to try - that's why I'm here. We'll see how it goes.
In person, I love to hug. I smile easily. I'm very positive and have been told I have very good karma. I work very hard. I'm happy with myself and my life but it would be nice to try "dating" again. I miss snuggling and having a shoulder to cry on when I have a most stressful day or likewise calling my "guy" at the end of the day and saying hey, let's meet at xyz! But, at this point, I'm not ready for a 24/7/365.
I just want to be treated like a lady and with respect. I can still have fun but there is a time and place for everything  I'm pretty open-minded and willing to gamble / take a risk. So, here goes nothing .... 
So, happy trails to you and me
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