| 4/27/2008 1:03:53 PM | Im thinkin about jumpin the fence... | |
cickle83
Columbus, GA
age: 24
| Ive been seriously thinkin bout jumpin the fence on men. Just about every man i meet is an assholes. Theyre rude, self-centered, and just plain mean. Now not all men are like this, i know. But why do i u seem to attract the ones that are. Ive meet one man on here that was great. Now technically hes still married, but not for long. (and he knows who he is) Hes sweet, funny and perverted. Just the way i like them. But of course i messed things up with him. So heres my question.. is it really worth it to give up on all men just because the one i want wont talk to me anymore? And the ones that want me are just assholes. Please Help!!
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| 4/27/2008 1:13:07 PM | Im thinkin about jumpin the fence... | |
uh_huh
West Palm Beach, FL
age: 35
| Oh jeez...
Don't mess with married people, and consider yourself lucky that he does'nt talk to you... JMO
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| 4/27/2008 1:13:48 PM | Im thinkin about jumpin the fence... | |
classicsfan
Charlottetown, PE
age: 51
| I'll make a radical suggestion. Why don't you give up on dating and just try to be content being with yourself. That way, you won't feel that you need a man and you'll be easier on yourself if things don't go right.
Besides, as most of the guys here can attest, some women aren't any better. But hey, if you wanna try, go for it.
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| 4/27/2008 1:15:16 PM | Im thinkin about jumpin the fence... | |
brendaj
Savannah, GA
age: 44
| Don't give up! I contemplate that all the time myself. For now, I'm just on here for the forums, because I too, am going through one of those spells. But at least on here, you make really good friends, which we all know, is the best place to start anyway. You never know, when one of your friends may turn into more.
Here's to wishes, May all ours someday come true. 
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| 4/27/2008 1:18:42 PM | Im thinkin about jumpin the fence... | |
fryyyy
North Kingstown, RI
age: 49
| wow .. you really like this guy.. unmess things up?
I'm not sure i'd jump the fence on men.. just when you start to get us figured out.. you wanna start over with women?
Its rare i think to see a "failed" relationship on here.. and nothing but compliments.
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| 4/27/2008 1:19:46 PM | Im thinkin about jumpin the fence... | |
thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
| lol at cickle... if everyone were to use your theory, we all would be jumpin the fence.  remember, all the men out there are not like that. it's the luck of the dice same holds true for men seeking women.
we all have, will, and continue to meet flaky, dishonest, and negative people. simply move on. don't get bent out of shape about it and consider jumping the fence moreover, do you not think you will have issues dealing with women
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| 4/27/2008 1:28:36 PM | Im thinkin about jumpin the fence... | |
freebirdvt
Milton, VT
age: 51
| well jumping the fence becareful cause you might not make it and get it stuck you no where i use to work with a guy who like fooling with eveyone elses wife or x wifes one day he was sitting in a couch and the x came in and she told him not to worry he was harmless..well the he pull a 357 and shot him right in the chest and put the gun to his head and did hs self....the sad part about this he did this in front of his wife and his children...im never mess around someone else love.....only true to 1 when she comes into my like...dan
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| 4/27/2008 1:29:50 PM | Im thinkin about jumpin the fence... | |
cickle83
Columbus, GA
age: 24
| I am by myself.. Im doin me. but aint nothin wrong with wanting a man in my bed every now and then. Now i've never slept with the man that i met from here. we actually haven't even met yet. we just talked for a while and seem to hit it off.
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| 4/27/2008 1:35:51 PM | Im thinkin about jumpin the fence... | |
daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54
| It happens to men and women, but if you give up you'll never find the right one, so it's back to the dating pool, Beware of the sharks and swim on, or sit on the beach till you get a sunburn
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| 4/27/2008 1:40:52 PM | Im thinkin about jumpin the fence... | |
thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
| give it time cickle - my advice is to take it day to day and see what happens 
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| 4/27/2008 5:05:30 PM | Im thinkin about jumpin the fence... | |
moozie
Southfield, MI
age: 48
| youre an attractive young lady----your time will come--trust me
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| 4/27/2008 5:21:58 PM | Im thinkin about jumpin the fence... | |
sdlove23
San Diego, CA
age: 26
| Girl you got issues, wh in the name of holy toledo would you ry to get involve with a married guy. A married guy only wants to f*@k around, he's probbably bored with his wife and wants some on the side. Consider yourself lucky for not getting in deep with this guy. if you jump the fence, just watch out, women tend to be more jealous when it's girl on girl, i know, i seen it..just concentrate on yourself and your future..
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| 4/27/2008 5:22:22 PM | Im thinkin about jumpin the fence... | |
dixiethelovebug
Auburn, GA
age: 43
| Your 24, I hate to tell you but you are in for more than one heartache and at 24 your talking of giving up. Alot of men will tell you that they are "getting a divorce" but ask the wife and she has not been informed of it.
At 24 I was going out having fun not on a dating site. When you get to my age going out all the time is not an option because most of your freinds are in a long term relationship or married so this is where I meet people.
Get out there and enjoy your life, you deserve so much more than a married man.
Until he is divorced he is still married plain and simple.
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| 4/27/2008 5:28:46 PM | Im thinkin about jumpin the fence... | |
blueyedbobbie
Poultney, VT
age: 36
| sounds to me like she is thinking about going to woman; therefore jumpin the fence. (to go to the other side) JMO
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| 4/27/2008 5:36:28 PM | Im thinkin about jumpin the fence... | |
uprooted
Fairport, NY
age: 43
| cickle, look before you leap. listen to these guys they do make a lot of sense.
messin' with married folk is nothing but trouble. youre young,pretty and if there's
one thing i know for sure, there isn't anything worse than a pissed off wife!
hang in there cickle the one you want is out there.
freebird, i wish more people knew that story. might have less cheating going on.
then again some people just can't get their own and have no moral standing with themselves.
guess your friend got his upandcomins the hard way.
[Edited 4/27/2008 5:43:15 PM]
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