| 4/27/2008 1:22:47 PM | for the guys | |
 blackiris026 Fayetteville, NC age: 26
| i am just wondering why some of you say i'd love to get to know you lets talk and then you talk for a few days and then completely stop. to me that is rude and incosiderate. shed some light on this subject if you will
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| 4/27/2008 1:27:35 PM | for the guys | |
 cntrygirl268 Danville, PA age: 28
| id like to know too
whats wrong with letting us know that u just dont feel it ???
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| 4/27/2008 1:30:16 PM | for the guys | |
 thebestman Alpharetta, GA age: 34
| because with some guys, if they told the truth about it, some women would get angry or debate the issue and wouldn't be able to handle the truth. some people simply can't handle the truth. so rather than get into a debate or argument, some men just let it pass away, that's why some do it. or 2. some may just be players just like some women are have others on their plate.
do you think all women would be ok with and say ok and move on nicely when a guy would be honest and tell them specifics as to why he doesn't want to talk to her again??? let's be real here lol...
and also, the same thing can be said for women. a guy takes her out for a pleasant date, the guy calls, leaves messages, and she never talks to him again. this happens to a lot with men
believe it or not, men go through the same thing with respect to what you are saying also.
[Edited 4/27/2008 1:32:57 PM]
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| 4/27/2008 1:32:54 PM | for the guys | |
 blackiris026 Fayetteville, NC age: 26
| very true i'm being disrespectful i would just like to know
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| 4/27/2008 1:44:35 PM | for the guys | |
 cntrygirl268 Danville, PA age: 28
| well for me, all theyd have to say is that they are not interested and id move on.
maybe its just me, but its not cool being ignored !!
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| 4/27/2008 1:54:55 PM | for the guys | |
 l2kids44 Lanesville, IN age: 45
| I at least am honest enough to say I don't feel a match here. I never leave people hanging cause I know how it hurts when someone does that to me.
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| 4/27/2008 2:10:56 PM | for the guys | |
 babebrook Liberty, NY age: 47
| Here it is what I think from my experience:no one like to be rejected,daesn't matter if it's a gal or a man.That's why you have the case of some that jast back off and never call or speak again.It is matter of mutual cortesy and respect to late know the person what's the reason,no need to hide behind you PC,jast becouse it's the privilege to be on the net.
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| 4/27/2008 2:29:40 PM | for the guys | |
 blackiris026 Fayetteville, NC age: 26
| yep i agree oh sorry for the typo i meant i'm not being disrespectful
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| 4/27/2008 2:34:13 PM | for the guys | |
 jessie7856 Jupiter, FL age: 35
| I've had that happen a few times I personally think they just want instant gratification and I'm not saying all of you are like that just a few.
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| 4/27/2008 2:50:26 PM | for the guys | |
 brent28504 Kinston, NC age: 25
| probably loss of interest, u kno you do something for awhile then it gets old to you. its probably the same on here. you talk to someone for awhile then you just start getting tired of talkin to that person and stop. YES, i think u should tell that person that u dunt want to talk to him or her anymore but some ppl just dunt giv crap.
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| 4/27/2008 3:05:36 PM | for the guys | |
 jimmyroma Westfield, NJ age: 37
| Sometimes it doesn't take long to know you don't click so why waste time, you move on. Most guys are a bit too imature to just say "you're not my type" and just ignore you
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| 4/27/2008 3:22:54 PM | for the guys | |
 mrgqq32 Lansdale, PA age: 32
| hey when i say talk that means 2 may be 3 times a week not for a girl to texting me 20 times a day.
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| 4/27/2008 6:32:01 PM | for the guys | |
 grovelbear12 Kingston, ON age: 50
| this is so easy to answer for me! im very straight forward if i see we don't matcg i believe you should be up and straight and tell that person she or he not your type its that simple. don't play a game with a persons feelings.
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| 4/27/2008 6:34:54 PM | for the guys | |
 strick_business Decatur, AL age: 21 online now!
| Well my problem is that the women only want me to come up with things to talk about and when i do they just give a lame conversation back.EXAMPLE 2 words
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| 4/27/2008 6:39:17 PM | for the guys | |
 heyppl Saint Louis, MO age: 27
| How about owning up to the game you are playing and be a man. Tell us the TRUTH yes it hurts but we would rather hear that then get led on. This applies to both male and female. I would rather be shut down then led on. So just keep it real. If you cant do that then you are lying to urself too.
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