| 4/29/2008 8:15:06 PM | Normal thinking from the Normal side..... | | gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 45
| Let bygones be bygones - I mean what's a few skeletons (dead or alive, right guys, it really only matters to the dead guy who isn't)
A few knives in the back by a sister?
A few lies - do they really mean to harm or intentionally hurt any one?
(Oh hell yeah, they DO but let's just pretend they don't REALLY!)
Higher ground! 
Morally sound choice! 
Highly ethical! 
Integrity and Virtue hold their face to the light, while wickedness turns to the shadows, and retreats rather than state the truth so eloquently as those "Normal" folk have done here...
(No offense intended to the Shadow folk, and none were injured during the composition of this posting)
If we all become abnormal who will Abbie be? 
I prefer the idea of having a "men"o'pause mom"men"t,
with perhaps some real men uhm 
who haven't become "men"tally
unable to perform due to being
Constantly Under Nefarious woman's Thumb ?
Here's to resolving conflicts amicably!
[Edited 4/29/2008 8:16:08 PM]
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| 4/29/2008 8:46:11 PM | Normal thinking from the Normal side..... | |
abeenorml
New Underwood, SD
age: 43
| You know GONE.....I kinda like you and all that sense you keep makin' LOL
Luvin's good now..she was just hurt and feeling the pain from covert and overt attacks. We all will survive..........we always do. AND this place is fun!
Susie, you are sweet. Kim
[Edited 4/29/2008 8:47:28 PM]
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| 4/29/2008 8:49:57 PM | Normal thinking from the Normal side..... | |
kegleaves
Mount Juliet, TN
age: 30
| I still want to know what the hell is normal?
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| 4/29/2008 8:58:44 PM | Normal thinking from the Normal side..... | |
repochick
Hastings, MN
age: 30
| Luvin,
Thougt I know how hard it is to take this advice just ignore the pests and they will eventually go away. If they have nothing to feed off of then they will have no choice but to get bored and find something new. Either that or maybe if someone has targeted you, maybe they have some secret infatuation with you and dont know any other way to express it. Just a thought, a sick one but a thought!! 
One lesson I have learned all over again in my current job (all females) is not to worry about pleasing others. Do what makes you happy!! You know the truth so let the terriers bark and snap. You have nothing to prove to anyone!!!
Love ya,
Repo!!
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| 4/29/2008 9:00:00 PM | Normal thinking from the Normal side..... | |
kegleaves
Mount Juliet, TN
age: 30
| hey repo... hows it going with the stalker ex?
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| 4/30/2008 6:30:45 AM | Normal thinking from the Normal side..... | |
kenb5b01
Northport, WA
age: 44
| ~ Gone ~ This thread is not about you or your fantasies and manipulation. Many who read your posts may not be privy to the veiled insults hidden within, however some of us are.
I know every tiny detail of what you are referring because I was there through the entire ordeal. I am asking you to back away before you do something unconscionable that cannot be repaired or forgiven.
Your post on this thread is exactly what the OP is combating. Have faith in the knowledge that what you are doing is gaining you no credibility and is certainly winning no friends or dates.
I will say this just once. You are playing game that has no rules and few possibilities of you winning. The choices you make now, based on the limited knowledge you have gotten from the brother of a dead man, will reflect dramatically on what happens next.
~ Luvin ~ keep smilin dear and I am sorry for the attempted hijacking of your thread.
[Edited 4/30/2008 6:33:24 AM]
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| 4/30/2008 8:09:55 AM | Normal thinking from the Normal side..... | |
abeenorml
New Underwood, SD
age: 43
| hmmmmmmmmmm.....guess I'm just not a deep enough thinker to catch all of the innuendo, etc.
side note: GO LUVIN! Kim
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| 4/30/2008 4:35:08 PM | Normal thinking from the Normal side..... | |
luvinlifetou
Biddeford, ME
age: 42
| Thanks Repo...Kim...KenB...
Im staying off and out of the drama.
I refuse to participate any longer in the nastiness.
The reason for the original post was,
A. A reaction to the all the nastiness.
B. Bringing things out in the open.
Unfortunately...Reason B. is behind the scenes...since names cannot be names. The players in the drama all know who they are.
And the white flag is still lying on the ground.
Thats okay...I expected no less.....but hoped for more.
KenB...hijacking attempt forgiven...but please hold on to your hat for a little bit.
I think misunderstandings between friends can be resolved...give me a chance to work on that?
Pretty please? Again...Sorry guys...this is behind the scenes stuff that im referencing....
Again..thanks for the support from my friends...
LOVE YA ALL.....
   
Luvin
[Edited 4/30/2008 10:17:44 PM]
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| 4/30/2008 7:55:35 PM | Normal thinking from the Normal side..... | |
chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47
| Everyone is judgemental, no one is excluded. A few judge by hear say without knowing the other side. They are misguided. They allow others to control their thinking by the threat of losing a friendship.
Not everyone is judgmental. There are those who are excluded. Those who insist on the high road and look around for the white hat when friends go to battle. Because if one allows oneself to be drawn into situations of conflict in which there are three sides of, one will almost always be required to chose a side and I despise ultimatums. As in any conflict or disagreement there are 3 positions to address: Your needs/side, their needs/side and one in which the needs of the previous 2 sides can be met without conflict. Obviously neither party has considered the needs of the opposite, let alone attempted to identify a non aggressive/ non confrontational means of resolving whatever issues exist.
So no one judges a cheater??? If not, then I stand corrected.
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| 4/30/2008 7:56:43 PM | Normal thinking from the Normal side..... | |
dunitall
Buckley, WA
age: 44
| Normal is when my computer works correctly.......hahaha
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| 4/30/2008 7:59:34 PM | Normal thinking from the Normal side..... | |
kegleaves
Mount Juliet, TN
age: 30
| I keep waiting... What the Frock is normal?
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| 4/30/2008 10:29:02 PM | Normal thinking from the Normal side..... | |
luvinlifetou
Biddeford, ME
age: 42
| Okay Keg....
Lets go with the online definition....
nor·mal Audio Help /'n?rm?l/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[nawr-muhl] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation
–adjective 1. conforming to the standard or the common type; usual; not abnormal; regular; natural.
2. serving to establish a standard.
3. Psychology. a. approximately average in any psychological trait, as intelligence, personality, or emotional adjustment.
b. free from any mental disorder; sane.
4. Biology, Medicine/Medical. a. free from any infection or other form of disease or malformation, or from experimental therapy or manipulation.
b. of natural occurrence
Okay...
Can you say....BORING!!!!!!!!!!!!
But...
I think that we are all pretty much average in the psychological traits. We want someone fun, funny, smart...someone to love us back as much as we love them...
sheesh.
Normal is not the norm.
We are.
Luvin
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| 4/30/2008 10:51:56 PM | Normal thinking from the Normal side..... | |
klassykitten
Toccoa, GA
age: 51
| You are right...normal=boring
I want to know who the putz was that got to make the call and define normal. In my experiences I found that what I thought was normal turned out to be dysfunctional or actually abnormal. So what's to say he really got it wrong and we strive for something that isn't even possible???? LOL...JMO
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