jccarbonn
Sabattus, ME
age: 38
| i just got out of a coda relationship and still having a hard time dealing with it. if you have any ideas i would love 2 hear them
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uprooted
Fairport, NY
age: 43
| jccarbonn, the first thing to do is detach the best you can. if you can't detach with love,
do so in anger. either way it still hurts to have to do it but it is the only way to regain yourself. remember that you are who you are and they are who they are, if the other person is the cd they will have to deal with the detachment as best they can. it will take time to
heal from this for both sides. sometimes we think that we can save or help the other and in the process we lose ourselves. if this is the case give it time, be good to yourself, and pray for them everyday. practice gratitude for the life you have. been through it myself and is does get better.
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daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54
| which one of you is dependent on the other you or him? need a little more info here
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theironmandan1
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 38
| yellow pages, many free groups ,over the years i have seen many lives ruined from CD , its far worse for a woman because they many times end up in bad relationships and are far to afraid to change , now afecting children , family members and many times the law, never be afraid to take help , and never think you are alone, once you can stand alone, you can stand anywhere, and its never to late to start this change .
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