4/27/2008 9:17:51 PMmen omg please tell me 

michelle380
Grayslake, IL
age: 38


Can someone tell me how a women can fall in love with a man. When the man show big interest in the women see him everyday for 3 months then he says he dont want a relationship someone explain this to me please.

4/27/2008 9:19:43 PMmen omg please tell me 
bethlett
Spokane, WA
age: 89


Michelle, I am sorry but I cannot discern what precisely it is you are trying to ask. Your sentence number one does not coincide with your sentence number two.

Clarification, please.

4/27/2008 9:24:06 PMmen omg please tell me 

dunitall
Over 1,000 Posts (1,541)
Buckley, WA
age: 44


Sounds like someone hiding something(thoughts,feeling or other interest), I'm no expert

4/27/2008 9:31:58 PMmen omg please tell me 
sdlove23
San Diego, CA
age: 27


well maybe he found someone else or doesn't want a relationship, maybe just something casual???

4/27/2008 9:34:00 PMmen omg please tell me 
flowergirl62
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,166)
South Australia
Australia
age: 46


Sounds like a typical male...........he wants out.

4/27/2008 9:53:33 PMmen omg please tell me 

midnight08
Clarksburg, WV
age: 38


that's not right flower, not right at all

4/27/2008 9:59:52 PMmen omg please tell me 

pwin_here_n_now
Annapolis, MD
age: 39


Sounds to me, that it just isn't working for him .... for whatever reason. Sometimes that happens in a relationship....

Be thankful it only took 3 mo. Otherwise you could be in another divorce situation just now finding out after "how long?"

It's never easy to let go... but do it.

In the end you will open yourself up to the person who is right for you, and you them!

Peace!
P.Win


4/27/2008 11:03:46 PMmen omg please tell me 

daddyduck
Over 2,000 Posts (3,506)
Splendora, TX
age: 55


What she said

4/27/2008 11:07:18 PMmen omg please tell me 

lillibet
Over 2,000 Posts (3,159)
New South Wales
Australia
age: 51


Sounds like its not working out....Be thankful and move on...

4/27/2008 11:42:50 PMmen omg please tell me 
classyguy333
Over 1,000 Posts (1,156)
West Fargo, ND
age: 57


I know several guys that jump from gal to gal. Unfortuantely, when they bring up some sort of a relationship, he bails. He basically leads them on. This again makes it hard for the rest of us.

4/28/2008 12:12:05 AMmen omg please tell me 
sweetctownguy24
Vinemont, AL
age: 24


im not typical....boys get scared...real men dont

4/28/2008 12:38:44 AMmen omg please tell me 

scorpion1975
Leitchfield, KY
age: 33


some guys think with one head instead of the other too often and when it gets bored they want something new or maybe they are hiding something as someone else said...either way he's not the one for you right now, not til he deals with his problems

4/28/2008 3:33:26 AMmen omg please tell me 

ge0ge0
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,474)
Tallahassee, FL
age: 42 online now!


Can someone tell me how a women can fall in love with a man. When the man show big interest in the women see him everyday for 3 months then he says he dont want a relationship someone explain this to me please.


It's natural for a woman to fall in love with a man. And vice versa. Getting the other person to feel the same way you do is the tricky part.

The rest is too vague to give you help with. If you two have been intimate together and he tells you this, it means he's decided that you're not really relationship material for him (or he's a selfish playboy and not relationship material himself) and he's moving on. But he doesn't mind having sex with you. Best to cut your losses and move on. Give it up for someone who appreciates you and wants to be in a relationship with you.

4/28/2008 3:49:12 AMmen omg please tell me 

maniacmassager
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,190)
Lawrence, MA
age: 42


Sounds like your typical man. doesnt want to be tied down. just wanted to have some short term fun, then move on.

4/28/2008 6:49:53 AMmen omg please tell me 
slappywag
Bac Kan
Viet Nam
age: 88


I guess maybe I am naive, but I believe that the majority of men who come on DH want the same as the majority of women; to find that special person and avoid ever having to come to a dating site in the future, and avoid being lonely any longer.
That said- your guy may be in the minority. My guess is either it turned out he wasn't as serious as he led you to believe, something changed (he met someone else), or that you read something into a relationship that he didn't consider as serious as you did.



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