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4/28/2008 4:49:51 AMreading the profiles are they always true 

michelle380
Grayslake, IL
age: 38

Ladies be carful reading the profiles. These men say thing they think there are but they are not. Like im honest i only date one at a time come on why dont men tell the truth and have to be with more then one girl. I know women do this to. Men a relationship would work out better if there were no lies. Tell the truth and see if your relationship gets better.

4/28/2008 4:54:03 AMreading the profiles are they always true 

bonsaijoe
Vero Beach, FL
age: 41

mines not a lie

4/28/2008 5:10:58 AMreading the profiles are they always true 

goodforfun51
Virginia Beach, VA
age: 53

michelle, unfortunately sometimes things don't work out and it has nothing to do with what the profile says either way, true or false. For I think whether a profile is totally and completely true and if the "situation build-up or relationship" doesn't work out there can always be hindsight made as to failures of fact within any one profile, by the one who is the loser within that "building-up period or relationship."

I've come to realize that immaterial of the "due diligence" one does when reading profiles or getting to know someone, you have occurances which arise which can change the "desires for" stated within a profile and when you think you have found that special someone pay as close attention as you can when communicating with them. For their perceptions of things might not be as clear cut as you might feel they are.

Ask Questions
Listen
Answer Questions
Listen harder
Ask questions about the questions
Listen even harder
and ask questions about how hard you listened.

You can only do what you can do to understand the person and their desires and wants and hope that you can satisfy as many of those as possible, without changing who you are yourself.

4/28/2008 5:33:29 AMreading the profiles are they always true 

oliveoil2
Cuba, MO
age: 47

google member name,
if lie, find them on date sites,
telling different stories
I did,
10 yrs younger then he was,
beware of self employed ppl...
one I met was thief and poacher

4/28/2008 8:52:41 AMreading the profiles are they always true 

luvwild
Brooklyn, NY
age: 41

At least you had something to read.
I was looking at someone's profile and right down the line everything was "didn't say"

4/28/2008 9:09:33 AMreading the profiles are they always true 

thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34

Majority of the time you can say a profile is like a resume - especially the long ones. Who will state negatives on their profile?

You don't find out about the quirks and imperfections until after you get to know the person. And you might find some inconsistencies with regards to the positives on their profile

Too, you will find out that some are really crazy
But I bet their profile doesn't state that

4/28/2008 9:20:01 AMreading the profiles are they always true 

yedjh
Syracuse, NY
age: 37

Who people think they are and how people actually perceive them are not always one in the same.
Also note that one perception may very quiet a bit from another.

4/28/2008 9:22:32 AMreading the profiles are they always true 

zeusg
Dickinson, TX
age: 24

Tha people hafta know self to honestly portray self,otherwise they play self.