| 5/6/2008 10:14:54 PM | Why are there no real men? | | lexingtonbob65
Spartanburg, SC
age: 43
| the last time i looked i was 100% real man, honest, caring and very open
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| 5/6/2008 10:19:46 PM | Why are there no real men? | |
homesteder
Red Deer, AB
age: 43
| Last time i looked i was 100% real man to...rough and tough,distant and closed,and dont take crap from anyone
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| 5/10/2008 3:12:15 AM | Why are there no real men? | |
easytobeme03
Springfield, OH
age: 40
|   hey wendy long time no talk so to speak . Doll dont give up i know it sucks when you try and try and all you get is people wanting to play head games and love the drama. Its hard to find poeple who are ready to SETTLE down . And just to let everyone know settling down doesnt mean DEAD !!!! It means NO MORE games and drama and bull shit and just ENJOYING life with someone you care about and doing it as stress free as possible, get a grip people !!! We are here to find companionship and HOPEFULLY love if it exists in this drama filled world any more,
So hang in there doll keep your chin up XOXOX 
[Edited 5/10/2008 3:12:57 AM]
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| 5/10/2008 3:52:48 AM | Why are there no real men? | |
nevyn
Prattville, AL
age: 65
| From Jimmy Roma
1st off why does everything have to be "settled down" and "life partner" when I hear settled down I hear, sitting on the couch every night watching TV by 8 and going to bed by 11 sex the 1st and 15th every month in the approved fashon with the lights off I hear routine because quite frankly most women like things that way. I would love to find the one women who woould just relax, take it as it comes, don't assume everything is going to go poorly and just enjoy "us". Can you not have a commited relationship and still wear something sexy to bed actually care what you have on to go out to dinner?
What he said....
[Edited 5/10/2008 3:56:09 AM]
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| 5/11/2008 8:06:39 PM | Why are there no real men? | |
tswad
Wayne, NJ
age: 28
| Im 36 and all i find are 22 yr olds or older men that just wanna sleep with you. Where are the good ones that wanna settle down and just have a life and be happy? Ive never felt so used and alone in my life. Am i that bad that no one wants me for thier life partner? I thought i was like a great woman. Im old fashioned and love sex so then what the hell? 
Yeah, this is a good one. Here you go....why do you keep going after the same type of guy? You know the one that walks up to you and sweet talks and blah blah blah....see the guy sitting alone? You notice him looking at you every so often...that guy is me, a shy guy wanting to meet someone new, but doesnt know what to say. He will open up, just go over and talk to him first.
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| 5/12/2008 12:37:25 AM | Why are there no real men? | |
monkey4u2
Surrey, BC
age: 59
| Well hon, no matter how you cut it human nature is what it is. You love sex, I love sex, but it all depends what investment we need before we jump into it. No one is wrong, but not everyone is suited for everyone.
All you can do is meet people and hope for the best. The fu-k me right now nature isn't only in men believe me.
I want to know a woman, and have some emotional connection with her before we jump in bed. That's fine for me, but not fine for others so I have to leave them to enjoy each other and look for what gives my life value and substance.
No big deal, I've been looking now since 1985 and I'll continue to be patient. In the end I'll have what brightens up my life, or I'll die alone.
Either way I'll make it through each day, and I'm still me.....a pretty dam good guy. I'm not delineated by whether I have a relationship or not, there are always a lot of missfortunate who need love in this life. 
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| 5/12/2008 1:37:48 AM | Why are there no real men? | |
cortneyjoy
Chickasha, OK
age: 23
| I found one grl keep ur head up!!
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| 5/12/2008 1:57:19 AM | Why are there no real men? | |
onlyone4me
Peoria, IL
age: 57
| No real men, I'm confused as to what a real man is? Could someone tell me what a real man is?
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| 5/12/2008 2:12:16 AM | Why are there no real men? | |
onlyone4me
Peoria, IL
age: 57
| True feelings? Don't you think everyone is a little too serious about everything today. Look at what our country has become. How many times are we lied to everyday by people, business's, and our government. Come on get real. We live in the land of satan. Why be honest to people who are dishonest with you. It only gives them the upper hand. I am honest/ or was honest to everyone all my life and was only used because of it. Now I am only honest with myself and to those I know are honest with me. This is an internet dating site and if you think you will find an honest person here that will love you for love and not to get something they want from you for themselves, you are NUTS. We all want something.
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| 5/12/2008 2:28:44 AM | Why are there no real men? | |
onlyone4me
Peoria, IL
age: 57
| People are too serious today. I kid around alot. If a person is so stupid they can't tell when a person is serious or just kidding and are too afraid to ask them, "are you serious?" And then they spread rumors about something someone was kidding about without asking them, "are you serious" then that person has problems, and by spreading rumors they create problems for those who aren't serious about everything. Come on people learn to laugh and have fun.
Goodnight
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| 5/12/2008 4:13:30 AM | Why are there no real men? | |
service_fan
Eugene, OR
age: 57
| Ok;who defines what a real man;whts the criteria and what doe sit realy matter anyway;its up to the person themselves.you will get as many defintions as there are dumb stupid people who voted for bush
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| 5/12/2008 4:31:00 AM | Why are there no real men? | |
onlyone4me
Peoria, IL
age: 57
| Well, I don't need to explain what a REAL MAN is dammit, I'm a woman your a man, you should know what a REAL MAN is because your a MAN. When I say jump, you jump, ya here me. dammit give me what I want.
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| 5/12/2008 4:48:49 AM | Why are there no real men? | |
lust4love
Atco, NJ
age: 38
| some women don't want the gentle part.they want a hard nosed man with no emotion but anger.
meat and potatoes on the table, dont bother me while i read the news kind of guy.
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| 5/12/2008 5:12:07 AM | Why are there no real men? | |
egglebert
Steinbach, MB
age: 46
| You have to look in the right places.
to have an effective relationship, the man you find needs to be unencumbered by unresolved personal issues. That is what is tough in the age range you have just described. You have young men >22 who generally do not have the experience and maturity to handle what you are loooking for. The older men, I can't really answer for as I have not got there yet.
The men in the age range you describe have been either single all of their life (for one explainable reason or another) or if they are separated or divorced, they have been through alot of $#%^ and may not have worked through their issues to find their "happy/ healthy place"
Unfortunately, the same holds from your perspective. If one has gone through a number of disappointments, it's often hard to trust and be open in a relationship. This attitude can easily seep out and impact relationsips you are currently trying to build.
If I meet a woman ful or resentment, criticism of the male gender,etc, etc. That is the signal to me to back off - especially if they do not even recognize the behavior/ feelings and make no attenpt to address them.
Just my two cents
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| 5/12/2008 12:14:49 PM | Why are there no real men? | |
nergel
Nederland, CO
age: 41
| Because you live in America, land of lies and falshoods. When the core beliefs and actions of a people are based on lies and hypocracy it is a little tough to find a "real" person of any gender. As long as humans think the world belongs to them to do with what they please you will never meet a "real" person. As long as we say we are rightous and are champions of freedom while we kill and remove freedoms you will never find a "real" person.
Be real yourself.
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