| 4/28/2008 6:38:27 AM | Why are there no real men? | |
wendy001
Manchester, CT
age: 36
| Im 36 and all i find are 22 yr olds or older men that just wanna sleep with you. Where are the good ones that wanna settle down and just have a life and be happy? Ive never felt so used and alone in my life. Am i that bad that no one wants me for thier life partner? I thought i was like a great woman. Im old fashioned and love sex so then what the hell? 
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| 4/28/2008 6:45:47 AM | Why are there no real men? | |
drumrman
Belmont, MA
age: 43 online now!
|  we're out here. u just need time to weed through the morons and scumbags. good luck. 
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| 4/28/2008 6:51:55 AM | Why are there no real men? | |
wendy001
Manchester, CT
age: 36
| I hope so your so sweet thank you 
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| 4/28/2008 7:00:33 AM | Why are there no real men? | |
jimmyroma
Westfield, NJ
age: 37
| 1st off why does everything have to be "settled down" and "life partner" when I hear settled down I hear, sitting on the couch every night watching TV by 8 and going to bed by 11 sex the 1st and 15th every month in the approved fashon with the lights off I hear routine because quite frankly most women like things that way. I would love to find the one women who woould just relax, take it as it comes, don't assume everything is going to go poorly and just enjoy "us". Can you not have a commited relationship and still wear something sexy to bed actually care what you have on to go out to dinner? 
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| 4/28/2008 7:10:42 AM | Why are there no real men? | |
justmemaree
Queensland
Australia
age: 45
| jimmy i know where ya comin from............. i have gone through phases in my life where i didnt give a shit.......... and alot of women do that, its just the phases they go through.......... but when they hit their 40's dam watchout........they are reborn.........lol...all im saying is there is alot of contributing factors that women let themselves slide.......... sometimes its just them, sometimes its their lives.......... and getting back to the thread.there are real men out there ans we all know it.........hard part is finding one thats your flavour.........cheers 
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| 4/28/2008 7:13:47 AM | Why are there no real men? | |
freakingnasty
Council Bluffs, IA
age: 33
| I sure don't see anything wrong with you. you seem like like you're a smart and strong woman, and are obviously a looker. Don't beat yourself up.
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| 4/28/2008 7:36:12 AM | Why are there no real men? | |
sensuousmagic
Grand Prairie, TX
age: 56
| hhhhmmmmm just like out the the garden. You just have to pick out and get rid of all the unwanted weeds to find the real stuff you are looking for. 
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| 4/28/2008 8:01:02 AM | Why are there no real men? | |
wendy001
Manchester, CT
age: 36
| Well im definately not the type to be boring. I love sex everyday all day so it wont be comming 2x a month i guarantee u that. And whats wrong with being in bed by 11 at night? I work at 4am so i have to get my sleep. I am spontenous and love to do lots of things so life wont be boring with me. I am not your typical mommy type who wants the perfect little family. I have my kids and they are 17 and 14 so im not looking for a daddy they have one. Im looking to live life and laugh and just have a great time. Isnt everyone sick and tired of all the bullshit weve all been though? Its time for fun and if i find my love then hey thats great.
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| 4/28/2008 8:04:30 AM | Why are there no real men? | |
straight30
Midlothian, VA
age: 30
| We are out here maybe you are looking in the wrong place.All the good men are already taken its a few still out there one we will be you way try meeting one in public and not the internet good luck
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| 4/28/2008 8:46:08 AM | Why are there no real men? | |
clickrick524
North Scituate, RI
age: 58
| Hey Wendy,
You say, "i find are 22 yr olds or older men that just wanna sleep with you". Well, that's a pretty broad statement, pardon my Pun! 
It rather ticks me off when most Women on here dont even have the Common Decency to respond to an email. I must have written at least 10-12 and only one reply from a Gal who was from NJ. At least she was decent enough to reply and even sent a Pic of herself.
So it seems to be slim pickins here so far. I'm a complete Friendly Funny sort of Gentleman so we are here for sure. Maybe if some of those Women would have the Common Courtesy to reply....Many seem so judgemental, or maybe they are just Mental!!  
I will make one suggestion to you; first, I commend you on All of your pics; you may want to vary the type of Shots...like a few Full Body Shots instead of All Headshots. Just MHO! It's the visual Photographer in me, that's all! I try to vary my own.
Good luck as I peruse all the Profiles rather discouragingly.
Oh, by the way, YANA = You Are Not Alone!
~~~Rick~~~
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| 4/28/2008 9:11:39 AM | Why are there no real men? | |
baltimorebob
Gwynn Oak, MD
age: 58
| If you're 36 look for a guy 40+
they already make good money
and they're looking for a comittment.
Just ask them upfront.
"Are you looking for a comittment"
Then they'll tell you the Truth
or they'll lie
Your problem figuring which one.
Bob
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| 4/28/2008 9:14:33 AM | Why are there no real men? | |
baltimorebob
Gwynn Oak, MD
age: 58
| Quote: It rather ticks me off when most Women on here dont even have the
Common Decency to respond to an email.
I must have written at least 10-12 and only one reply from a Gal who was from NJ.
At least she was decent enough to reply and even sent a Pic of herself.
Your pic:
Come on and join me on my Bed.
Pic should be other then in your bedroom.
I'm a year older
and most times I send way more emails then I get back.
Probably get only 10% responses.
That's 1 out of 10.
Bob
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| 4/28/2008 9:21:16 AM | Why are there no real men? | |
baltimorebob
Gwynn Oak, MD
age: 58
| Why is it that some Women have NO body shots ?
All facial.
Just curious.
Bob
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| 4/28/2008 9:21:52 AM | Why are there no real men? | |
bethlett
Spokane, WA
age: 88
| Wendy:
You will have a lot more success if YOU do the hunting. That helps to weed out a lot of the men who are just "spray and pray", or outright predators. Seriously.
One thing you WILL find when you do the hunting is you will get JUST as few "responses" from the men you contact as men claim to get from women. If you are doing the hunting and you are contacting men who are truly looking for someone...they are VERY picky about who they correspond with. They will not just correspond with EVERY woman who writes to them. Get used to rejection.
Another thing you will find is that without a body picture, you won't get much in the way of response.
Lastly....logically if you think about it...when you are brand new to a site, all the men who have been here for a long time with no success or all the men who are just predators are immediately going to be writing to you. Your mailbox will be full. It might be best to be very wary of the first "wave" of mail you get.
In summary...
Do your OWN HUNTING.....
EDIT: Answer to Bob...
Because women by nature are more interested in what YOUR face looks like, so we take tons of our face! We have not yet learned that it is our BODY that is more important to men than anything else. Then you have the women who have understood that men are only interested in the body....and if they have an ugly one they will not post a picture.
But mostly, especially with the "new to internet dating" women....they don't post a body shot because a webcam does a poor job of taking one....a digital is a pain to manuever by yourself....no one has a whole bunch of full body pics lying around.....the old cell phone in the mirror thing is pretty unattractive....AND...like I said. We care a whole lot more about a closeup of your face, and it takes us awhile to realize that MEN are DIFFERENT from us.
Which is why we are all single.
There. I just summed up life mysteries for you. HAHAHAH
 
P.S. Why do SOME men post a bunch of pictures where we can't see THEIR FACE????? Like YOU, Bob? Or worse, post pics of themselves that are 30 years old? We could care less what you looked like 30 years ago or as a baby. "1978 and I haven't changed much?" You CANNOT be serious! You don't REALLY believe that do you? Jeesh.
[Edited 4/28/2008 9:28:21 AM]
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| 4/28/2008 9:36:22 AM | Why are there no real men? | |
baltimorebob
Gwynn Oak, MD
age: 58
| I'm way more interested in a Gal's Body then what her face looks like.
Also my pics include a pic of my son who'll be 12 next month.
I have not changed much since 1978.
If a gal showed me a pic of herself 30 years ago
and she weighed say 125
and she actually weighed 225
that would be deceiving
If she put on 25 or so pounds then no problem.
Bob
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