| 4/30/2008 1:40:08 PM | Does it make him less of a man? | |
jessie7856
Jupiter, FL
age: 35
| My past loves cried because they know I'm a sucker.(and it works every time.)
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| 4/30/2008 2:04:40 PM | Does it make him less of a man? | |
harley68
San Antonio, TX
age: 39
| Ok I got the dirt!! She said the sex still happened because he's so good she couldn't stop.  she's a horny b*tch though. jk, i love her to death. 
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| 4/30/2008 3:01:37 PM | Does it make him less of a man? | |
alex4u
West Monroe, LA
age: 36
| Daaaayyyuuummm, your friend is the one who sounds like she don't have any feelings!!! 
The man starts crying and all she is worried about is how good it is!!
Either that, or he is really that good???
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| 4/30/2008 3:06:38 PM | Does it make him less of a man? | |
daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54
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| 4/30/2008 3:09:00 PM | Does it make him less of a man? | |
cece123
Warren, MI
age: 48
| I cried during sex.... about eight months ago.... I was having somekind of emotional break down..... wishing I never left my husband.... and what the f**k am I doing here.... I don't belong here..... Of course I didn't say that... but he became irate..
I moved out of his house and he started crying... every time I left.... I told him.... no crying man..... don't start crying now.....
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| 4/30/2008 3:11:05 PM | Does it make him less of a man? | |
onelife2live
Janesville, WI
age: 44
| You heartbreaker CeCe...
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| 4/30/2008 3:44:44 PM | Does it make him less of a man? | |
gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 45
| I'm trying to weigh this situation now inside my female head....He f'd up....so he's apologizing and crying and they're having wild, hot, monkey sex - which she's digging so they don't stop
but he's crying?
Hope he was on the bottom!? (sorry kids it's all I got?! )
I mean if he's on top and crying then where's the snot going?
Cuz you know guys when they cry - lots of snot....and they never have a tissue...!
and if she's under him...well then ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww 
Now the REAL question - are they still together?
Or did she hump him and dump him?
And if she did...where's he at now?
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| 4/30/2008 4:34:45 PM | Does it make him less of a man? | |
harley68
San Antonio, TX
age: 39
| Yea she dumped him! He's still begging for forgiveness. But she's a firm believer in "I trust until given a reason NOT to trust" once you lose that trust, you can not get it back. I told him he can beg all he wants, chances are she'll stick to her guns and not trust him again. The last time someone broke her trust, she divorced him. To this day she still doesn't trust the ex.
Oh yea, he's back at home with mama.
I don't know about the whole snot thing though??
[Edited 4/30/2008 4:35:14 PM]
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| 4/30/2008 7:20:56 PM | Does it make him less of a man? | |
singlesweetnes
New Bedford, MA
age: 39
| well u have to ask yourself this ? what did he do so bad that he was sorry . did he cheat? if so then once a cheat always a cheat. he is just buying time 4 the next time he can do it again. now as far as the crying , well could be a act or was he drinking at the time? emotions run high when u have been drinking and then add the sex. ive been in that situation b-4 . so tell your friend to be very careful. also i think u had brought this up b 4 unless this is a different friend?   thats just some of the things i would be saying if i was her. so if he did cheat tell her to dump that zero and getself a hero.
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| 5/1/2008 11:48:11 AM | Does it make him less of a man? | |
harley68
San Antonio, TX
age: 39
| Actually this is about a different friend. He didn't cheat. This guy lied about gambling. She's against gambling and he said he gave it up. She found out different.
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| 5/1/2008 12:03:54 PM | Does it make him less of a man? | |
darbie59
Whitby, ON
age: 48
| I have only read a little of this thread, WHY ARE PEOPLE SO AFRAID OF EMOTIONS.
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| 5/1/2008 12:26:44 PM | Does it make him less of a man? | |
bry11ca
Canton, MI
age: 43
| It makes him much less of a man if he lies again . . .
Actions speak louder than words . . .
Bry 
[Edited 5/1/2008 12:26:54 PM]
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| 5/1/2008 12:29:55 PM | Does it make him less of a man? | |
trailrider08
Jackson, CA
age: 44
| there is no crying in baseball
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| 5/1/2008 12:32:03 PM | Does it make him less of a man? | |
wino631
Huntington, NY
age: 53
| If he was sincere about it, and truly loves her, I guess not.
If he just cries all the time, hmmm.
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| 5/1/2008 1:31:21 PM | Does it make him less of a man? | |
eightinchbend
Gadsden, AL
age: 44
| The responses sound heavily slighted against the guy. Why? The majority makes it sound like there is something "wrong" with him. "Oh no!!! A man is crying during sex!!! Stay away from him. He's wierd"
You can't have it both ways: Want a guy who can open himself emotionally, then chalk him up as a wimp when he actually does.
Is there not a conflict of interest within the woman who has sex with someone she wants to break-up with? What kind of sex was that? An emotional connection, or just plain self-serving sex. At the same time, she says she "can't get over it" (what ever the mistake was).
I was under the impression that "make-up" sex meant you got past a particular issue, got intimate, and waited for next week's tear-jerking episode.
In this case, I see no mutual intimacy. Why hurt the guy like that; want to break up with him, busted him on a lie, laid down with him, can't get over the lie, still want to break up with him, and rat him out because he cried.
The question perhaps should ask: Do her actions make her any more or less of a woman?
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