5/1/2008 1:33:34 PMDoes it make him less of a man? 
57rickie
Over 2,000 Posts (3,240)
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 57


I say it makes him Human, or at the worst, a really good actor. If he truly is sorry, its GOOD

5/1/2008 1:38:37 PMDoes it make him less of a man? 
harley68
Over 1,000 Posts (1,077)
San Antonio, TX
age: 40


An update on my friends...

He has been begging ever since and is trying to make up for his mistake. She is trying to get past it and trying to find it in her heart to give him another chance. There is more to the story than what I've posted. So it's not easy for her.

The reason I started this was because HE felt like he was less of a man for crying and didn't want for her to tell me. He ended up telling me about it. I think it's ok what happened. I don't think the lie was ok. A lie is a lie. No exceptions!

He is a good guy and I believe they will work it out. If he loves her the way he says he does, it will.

5/1/2008 1:39:57 PMDoes it make him less of a man? 
57rickie
Over 2,000 Posts (3,240)
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 57


I hope they can work things out, and he NEVER lies to her again.

5/1/2008 1:42:53 PMDoes it make him less of a man? 

looknforu419
Over 1,000 Posts (1,051)
Toledo, OH
age: 32


stop being a big baby he should'nt of did it in the first place and how many times has he done this Grow some balls buddy,no don't leave him he needs someone to change his pampers

5/1/2008 1:44:15 PMDoes it make him less of a man? 

looknforu419
Over 1,000 Posts (1,051)
Toledo, OH
age: 32


They gave "BUSH" another chance and look what happened

5/1/2008 1:46:21 PMDoes it make him less of a man? 

eightinchbend
Over 2,000 Posts (2,841)
Gadsden, AL
age: 44


Well, that sounds like a wrap. Anyone hungry? Let's go to Chili's.

5/1/2008 3:17:38 PMDoes it make him less of a man? 
alex4u
West Monroe, LA
age: 36


I'm hungry!!!

and I need a drink!!



[Edited 5/1/2008 3:19:41 PM]

5/1/2008 4:45:00 PMDoes it make him less of a man? 

singlesweetnes
New Bedford, MA
age: 39


maybe he needs to go gamblers anonimous. hope i spelled that right. anyway she should c how he handles the situation when she tells take a break from the relationship. just needs to get his priorities straight and lay off the gambling. just like any other addiction, needs to get help cuz he will only do it again. only he can stop , so needs to get into a program. sorry im blunt but i had a friend that did the samething , stopped 4 a little while then started all over again. lost his wife and job cuz he owed money and had to sell alot of his things. bad people if u know what i mean? he had to hide out 4 awhile thats why he lost his job.