| 4/29/2008 4:11:00 PM | What is your take on dating someone who has been married twice already | | 
deniceo4392
Springdale, AR
age: 41
| Ok,Be nice and be honest. 
Doesn't it scare  you to date someone who has been married more than once? I mean what happened to being married  and taking the vows seriously, I know that there are circumstances for being divorced I'm living one.  But the thought of dating someone who has done it 2 or more times is a turn off. Thoughts of why they couldn't hold a relationship goes through my mind or maybe they have commitment issues?
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| 4/29/2008 4:19:26 PM | What is your take on dating someone who has been married twice already | |
ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 42 online now!
| Shit happens. Shit happened to me twice also. You know what? Shit is gonna happen no matter how well intentioned you are. Some will have a problem with it but hold your head up high and move forward with your life.
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| 4/29/2008 4:20:12 PM | What is your take on dating someone who has been married twice already | |
hotmomma39
Grant, MI
age: 40
| You need to find out what happened.....I was married three times, all of them cheated on me....my first ex, the day after I moved out, his g/f moved in, the second one, i moved out on a saturday, that sunday i went to get my things and that night he went home with a woman we worked with, my third, he was just a plain jerk from the day we got married, he left me for a woman who is 23 yrs old with an 8 yr old son and she works in a bar where he met here, go figure. She had the nerve to call me and ask me to take him back!!! He's her problem now!!! So, I am just plain cautious now, look for ALL the signs, everything. It sucks but if you want a relationship, you have to take your chances and go with the flow, and WATCH the signs (if any), of all the negative things you see....... Good Luck to you 
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| 4/29/2008 4:23:46 PM | What is your take on dating someone who has been married twice already | |
honestinlov4u
Abington, PA
age: 60
| or maybe they keep marring the same type of person...I have been married three times
1) to young and stupid - my fault for the most part
2) alcoholic - she never showed it till our honeymoon cruise over new years - asked for a drink and was drunk from then on....
3) a needy person with major issues - was sexually abused by adopted dad and physically my adopted mother - thought I could help.
Last two I do not consider my fault. First one I consider myself mainly responsible...
So what is the reason and YOUR take on it OP??
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| 4/29/2008 4:24:45 PM | What is your take on dating someone who has been married twice already | |
onelife2live
Janesville, WI
age: 44
| Twice for me...sorry for the turn off...
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| 4/29/2008 4:30:47 PM | What is your take on dating someone who has been married twice already | |
tfortexas
Big Sandy, TX
age: 56
| You know what they say...The third times charm
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| 4/29/2008 4:32:52 PM | What is your take on dating someone who has been married twice already | |
tara7c
Westerville, OH
age: 50
| I feel that it's more important to discuss with the person what happened in the relationships and what they learned from each marriage...rather than merely focusing on the number of times married. You can learn alot about a person by discussing this topic...and often, you can see attitudes emerge that are not desirable OR perhaps they can express mistakes they made...that they acknowledge and regret and do not want to repeat.
I would be more interested in someone who had been married two or three times if the reasons for divorce were understandable (they were abused or cheated on for example)...more than someone who had been married once...but the reason they divorced was because THEY cheated or abused. 
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| 4/29/2008 4:34:07 PM | What is your take on dating someone who has been married twice already | |
collegekidunot
Winnsboro, LA
age: 49
| never been down that road. dated a guy who was 8 yrs. younger than me. his first two wives left him due to the fact he would not hold down a job and was a free loader. love is blind, deaf and dumb! i'll never trust anyone as long as i live!
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| 4/29/2008 4:42:23 PM | What is your take on dating someone who has been married twice already | |
l2kids44
Lanesville, IN
age: 45
| It really does depend on the circumstance. I suppose I'd be leary, but as someone stated earlier, third times a charm
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| 4/29/2008 4:44:26 PM | What is your take on dating someone who has been married twice already | |
onelife2live
Janesville, WI
age: 44
| Who says that person you might date is divorced twice because of their choice...non-judgemental here...jmo
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| 4/29/2008 4:52:38 PM | What is your take on dating someone who has been married twice already | |
grobs
New Braunfels, TX
age: 38
| I'd would hope that they learned something from the past marital experience. Take your time to get to know the person.
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| 4/29/2008 5:02:20 PM | What is your take on dating someone who has been married twice already | |
thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
| I prefer to date someone who's been married twice than a pretty woman
who's never been married in her late thirties without any kids RUNNNNNN.
If she has never been married without kids and looks pretty, there are some skeletons. Who wouldn't marry a good woman that looks pretty. Again, she has to be a good woman.
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| 4/29/2008 5:08:09 PM | What is your take on dating someone who has been married twice already | |
italianlady05
Omaha, NE
age: 53
| well why not??? gees..things happen in life that we aren't always in contol of ..could be misplaced trust, poor choice in mate, health or drug issues...never judge someone till you've walked in their shoes..JMO
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| 4/29/2008 5:09:13 PM | What is your take on dating someone who has been married twice already | |
thumper1264
Mount Vernon, IA
age: 43
| Been there done that....... Would hope that it wouldn't be held against me, it takes two to make it and two to break it!
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| 4/29/2008 5:19:44 PM | What is your take on dating someone who has been married twice already | |
a_keeper
Elizabethtown, KY
age: 46
| I have been married twice and its like this everybody makes mistakes. My first marriage I was to young and wanting to get away from my mom and dad!! Thats why I have been taking it slower this time. I might have some issues with wondering why some people have never married and being in their 30's and 40's etc. jmo
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