| 4/29/2008 6:25:58 PM | mate cheating or not | |
leatheltounge1
Saint Louis, MO
age: 50
| if your mate dosent have sex with you do that means she is cheating.
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| 4/29/2008 6:27:50 PM | mate cheating or not | |
italianlady05
Omaha, NE
age: 53 online now!
| oh oh...troubles in the home??? 
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| 4/29/2008 6:28:17 PM | mate cheating or not | |
missyroo375
Suffern, NY
age: 21
| write more about the question so we can understand.
Answer no
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| 4/29/2008 6:31:55 PM | mate cheating or not | |
belladreams
Binghamton, NY
age: 38
| I'm italian, so it varies..... kiddinggggggggggggggg, i dont know, really i cant answer your question....i actually think it does. i really do....my sons father used to do it all the time....he would sleep near the end of the bed and would not allow me to touch him....i knew something was wrong....so when he would get up at night and leave to go to the clubs....good ole bella would hunt for phone numbers, men are dumb when it comes to hiding girls phone numbers just so you know.... so i called these girls....and of course they are in denial, well i would have been too, if i had to sleep with someone like that.... thank god that relationship is over...but yes just ask the mate if he or she is cheating, come right out with it....I had to actually physically beat up my sons father to get the answer.....that is how of a no good man he was....but remember he was an abusive man....and he was my sons father....i had every right to.
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| 4/29/2008 6:40:01 PM | mate cheating or not | |
leatheltounge1
Saint Louis, MO
age: 50
| well we sllep toghter well atleast up to a couple of weeks ago and now she goes to bed with no intrest what so ever.i think sombody tapping the too too....lol
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| 4/29/2008 7:09:04 PM | mate cheating or not | |
daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54 online now!
| Well it may not be someone else tapping, she may be trying to tell you something and she ain't saying why yet
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| 4/29/2008 7:22:27 PM | mate cheating or not | |
nowurtalking
Amarillo, TX
age: 42 online now!
| Have you tried asking her? Don't jump to conclusions just yet
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| 4/29/2008 7:48:25 PM | mate cheating or not | |
katrina_sq
Mena, AR
age: 39
| No one ever mentions hormones here, but since I don't have any (don't really miss them either, but the hot flashes SUCK!), I'll chime in. I'm assuming she's close to your age, so it could very well be pre-menopause and her hormones are just zilch. Some women have no problem talking about it, but for many, it's a reminder that they are getting older, losing the ability to have kids, and just getting wacky with the hormones just petering out. Petering, I Kill Me!
Talk to her. If you ask her with an open mind, she will so appreciate it. Plus, Dude, it's only been 2 weeks!.. I went without longer than that several times when I was married, and I bet many on here can echo that. Maybe she's just not sure about the relationship and doesn't know how to bring it up. This could be an opportunity for you two to get closer. If she is cheating, maybe she will just tell you, and at least you'll know for sure and have the option to decide how to proceed. Good luck, and I wish you the best.
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| 4/30/2008 2:18:36 AM | mate cheating or not | |
fryyyy
North Kingstown, RI
age: 49
| I dont think it means they are cheating on you...
but if sex has been a part of your relationship and it "just stops" it might be cus something is wrong with your relationship. a "symptom" of something wrong. And if you dont fix your relationship.. it's just a matter of time before they WILL be with someone else. (might not be cheating cus the relationship with you might be over)
soooo.. i'd talk to my other.. find out why they are unhappy. or i'd shower them with love and affection and see if that helps. See if they wanted to talk to me?
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| 4/30/2008 3:32:49 AM | mate cheating or not | |
flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 46
| It sounds like she might be. I would ask straight out but then that's me. I need to know where I stand with people.
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| 4/30/2008 3:43:30 AM | mate cheating or not | |
hugsnlaughter
McKeesport, PA
age: 48
| I don't think it necessarily means that, could be a number of things from her not feeling well to maybe some inner conflict within the relationship or maybe she thinks you are cheating. Talk to her.
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| 4/30/2008 6:06:16 AM | mate cheating or not | |
iamhere1970
Trenton, NJ
age: 38
| Most likely....people have need and need to get it somewhere
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| 4/30/2008 6:08:34 AM | mate cheating or not | |
57rickie
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 57
| Not always. Try asking why she stopped sleeping with you. You might be  at her answer
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| 4/30/2008 6:10:46 AM | mate cheating or not | |
lonesomeloser
Louisville, KY
age: 49
| She's ridin the horse somewhere....
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| 4/30/2008 6:22:36 AM | mate cheating or not | |
blueyedbobbie
Poultney, VT
age: 36
| just come right out and ask her about why she stopped having sex with you
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