| 4/29/2008 9:42:13 PM | Question Girls and Guys? | | 
craftygirl002
Tacoma, WA
age: 40
| Ask yourself this.....If he were doing anything wrong, why would he tell you she was there instead of making up a less volatile reason for not calling on time?
On the other hand, if he is doing something wrong and trying to make you jealous....it's working.
Why not just ask him to please text message you if he knows he's going to be late calling in the future. (Don't forget to say it nicely...like the reason he didn't call on time isn't a problem.) One of three things will happen:
1) He'll think you're the coolest girlfriend ever & you'll score major points.
2) If he's trying to make you jealous, he'll lose interest if you're not. In which case, you're better off without him.
3) If he's actually cheating, he'll let his guard down and you'll end up with something more definite to base your accusation on. Again....you'll end up better off without him.
Just guard your heart in the meantime.
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| 4/29/2008 9:43:57 PM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
classyguy333
West Fargo, ND
age: 57
| Oh Crafty ...... you are crafty. 
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| 4/29/2008 9:45:09 PM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
craftygirl002
Tacoma, WA
age: 40
| 'tis true
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| 4/29/2008 9:45:25 PM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
blushingiegiddy
Charlotte, NC
age: 42
| crafy girl could he jsut be trying to make me jealous and michelle might nothave been there?
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| 4/29/2008 9:46:47 PM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
craftygirl002
Tacoma, WA
age: 40
| yeppers
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| 4/29/2008 9:49:35 PM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
craftygirl002
Tacoma, WA
age: 40
| Could be that... or he's a real dumbass and thought telling you Michelle was there would go over better than telling you the truth 
Really, just tell him you overreacted and would appreciate a text in the future. The next time he mentions her, comment on how much you'd like to meet her.
[Edited 4/29/2008 9:51:25 PM]
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| 4/29/2008 9:53:44 PM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
blushingiegiddy
Charlotte, NC
age: 42
| crafty he does not know i over acted i did not show concern i just cut him short during out confersation in which i do not usally do and told him i had to go shower id talk to him tomm
he said what wrong is nay thing wrong i aid no gota go talk to u later
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| 4/29/2008 9:58:52 PM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
craftygirl002
Tacoma, WA
age: 40
| It sounds like you handled it ok. To be honest, I wouldn't get too worked up over it. I also wouldn't let myself get too emotionally invested at this point. It's probably to your advantage to give it time and see where this goes if you're really interested in him. If you're only marginally interested, I'd start pulling away. Either he'll do something to bring the two of you closer, or you'll move on gracefully.
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| 4/29/2008 10:02:11 PM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
blushingiegiddy
Charlotte, NC
age: 42
| Hey Crafty,
I fell in love with him and its been three months he said i was furter along in the relationship than him
he said you dont fall in love he said you fall in a ditch he believes love is a choice
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| 4/29/2008 11:09:05 PM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
theironmandan1
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 39
| I dont buy into this at all. I think you are a long distance relationship, thats it, nothing else but that, he is with michelle trying to pick up where they left off, shes local, you must really take this in concideration, he has already had her, and says. you are far ahead in your relationship talking love. trust, but verify ,before this really hurts you
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| 4/30/2008 12:27:13 AM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
fryyyy
North Kingstown, RI
age: 49
| let him do what he wants to do.. let him be free.. let him be where he wants to be..
observe all that..
is he choosing to be with you?
if he can be anywhere is it with you?
figure out what you mean to him.. but don't try to control him.. you might succeed and that would be a disaster.
you can always tell him how you feel, but don't coerce him or manipulate him.. or give him ultimatums. Just let him be himself and see if your compatible.
should he be with single female friends when your not around? .. well to me that goes from
1. None of your business (when you first meet him)
2. Totally your business (when your married)
I'd assume your somewhere in between those two points.. But i also assume your relationship is new.. so your "right" in this matter is minimal.
I think what you should strive for here.. is to let him be himself.. while you observe.. and decide is this a guy i can spend the rest of my life with? Do you even want to?
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| 4/30/2008 4:27:51 AM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
baby_gurl26
Brooklyn, NY
age: 26
| U are not wrong. I think he needs to really tell u the true about his friend ship with michelle. He hinding it from u. He don't want to hurt u. He still having sex with michelle. Read in between the lines he cheating on u with michelle.
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| 4/30/2008 4:34:38 AM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 46
| I don't think he's your boyfriend if you know what I mean...............
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| 4/30/2008 4:36:41 AM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
tomfreebird
Brownsboro, AL
age: 55
| He could be playing you both, but who am I to say
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| 4/30/2008 4:49:23 AM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
baby_gurl26
Brooklyn, NY
age: 26
| U are not wrong. I think he needs to really tell u the true about his friend ship with michelle. He hinding it from u. He don't want to hurt u. He still having sex with michelle. Read in between the lines he cheating on u with michelle.
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