| 4/29/2008 8:15:54 PM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
blushingiegiddy
Charlotte, NC
age: 42
| my boyfriend has a girl that he says is just a friend and that they have been friends for 6 yrs, and that she talks to him about her problems and he can talk to her. He did not call me tonight on time becasue he said he has had compnay that michelle has been there. I have guy friends too but he ahs slept with michelle in the past and i feel uncomfortable with that. Am i being wrong? please honest opinion
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| 4/29/2008 8:17:41 PM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
tlc4u46
Santa Barbara, CA
age: 47
| You have to trust him. Calling on time? Who puts a time on calling? I still talk to my ex and there is nothing there. If there is a reason not to trust, then don't.
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| 4/29/2008 8:19:24 PM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
blushingiegiddy
Charlotte, NC
age: 42
| Its not that he did not call on time its jsut that they have been intmate before and they are close friends and she is at his home alone
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| 4/29/2008 8:23:44 PM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
tlc4u46
Santa Barbara, CA
age: 47
| Have you met her? Sometimes when you don't trust someone its a relationship killer. But if he'd rather spend time with her instead of you I may rethink my relationship.
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| 4/29/2008 8:30:16 PM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
blushingiegiddy
Charlotte, NC
age: 42
| we have a long distnace relatioship he is 2 and half hrs away
no i have not met her
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| 4/29/2008 8:56:11 PM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
rodlynn
New Britain, CT
age: 45
| I have to be his priority, he has to tell her that u r expecting his call and talk to her later. Otherwise, then u will find out that there r other things that come before u, and u r just not as important to him as u want to be
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| 4/29/2008 8:59:24 PM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
snorrk
San Diego, CA
age: 61
| Lots to be worried about. And nothing to be worried about. That leaves you in the middle to make it or break it. If it was love, he wouldn't be still looking. So she is his fall back position. He likes her a lot and the sex is gratifying. Yet, there is something essential missing. Are you woman enough to fill the void? I guarantee, if you are, that old friendship is over. Is he worth it? Or is it just your ego that wants to triumph? If you play the jealous lover and start to restrict his movements, I also guarantee you will lose. If you are the one for him, he will dump her in the history bin voluntarily. If he loves you, he will realize she isn't worth jeopardizing your loss. How do I know? Let's just say I'm smiling right now.
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| 4/29/2008 9:06:20 PM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
kissssska
Berlin, CT
age: 43
| Start counting his mistakes and after about 3, ask yourself if it is a pattern
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| 4/29/2008 9:11:57 PM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
blushingiegiddy
Charlotte, NC
age: 42
| ut she was there at his house how so how could he talk to her later and call me
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| 4/29/2008 9:13:03 PM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
craftygirl002
Tacoma, WA
age: 40
| 9 times out of 10, there's a reason to worry. However, there's always that 10th time to think about. My high school sweetheart and I broke up on my 18th birthday. Over the years, we've kept in touch. There have been times when I've turned to him for support that just wasn't available from anywhere else. The day my divorce finalized, he was sending me text messages all day telling me how great I am, that I'd survive & how much he loves me. I don't know how I would have been able to get through it without him. Over the past 20+ years he's been my dearest friend and I feel blessed every day knowing that I have someone so special in my life. His wife has been there for many of those years & has become just as special to me. Ours is a unique situation in that it's one you don't hear of often.
I guess the tough part for you will be to determine if this is one of the 9 out of ten times, or the 10th time.
Good luck
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| 4/29/2008 9:13:43 PM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
blushingiegiddy
Charlotte, NC
age: 42
| we have never been intmate yet
its been 3 months he is old fashion
he says they are not sleeping toghter now it ahppened when thier frind ship was early on many yrs ago
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| 4/29/2008 9:26:55 PM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
lexingtonbob65
Spartanburg, SC
age: 43
| Well I can't answer for all men but i believe that honesty and trust should be #1 in any relationship. If thats all she is a friend then he should have no problem talking to you on the phone when she is there. Their should never be a akward moment when shes around, I know you said they had a past, and i do hope for you're sake thats how it stays a past.You seem like a very nice person and i hope he is not dragging you around and leading you on.
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| 4/29/2008 9:31:57 PM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
blushingiegiddy
Charlotte, NC
age: 42
| he said that would be rude to talk to me on the phoen while she was there
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| 4/29/2008 9:36:36 PM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
lexingtonbob65
Spartanburg, SC
age: 43
| Well i honestly can't see why it would be rude unless he has something to hide, and don't get me wrong i'm not saying hes hiding something it just seems kinda strange. If i had a woman friend over and i wanted to talk to the woman i've been talking to for 3months i'm not gonna let her being there stop me.
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| 4/29/2008 9:42:10 PM | Question Girls and Guys? | |
lexingtonbob65
Spartanburg, SC
age: 43
| You seem like you have a very good head on you're sholders,and this is totaly up too you but i would ask him if he is trying to hide something from her. If they are only friends then he should be able to answer you're question quickly.
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