4/30/2008 1:15:57 PMthanks for all the good thoughts 

klassykitten
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,917)
Toccoa, GA
age: 51


Boxer, You and your daughter will be in my prayers. I had what they called " not a viable pregnancy" which I understood to be the baby died but there was no miscarriage. They had to basically force it by giving me some kind of shot and it took about ten days to take effect and then I did miscarry in the bathroom at work. I was somewhere between 8-12 weeks. The quicker that it can be over the better. It does mess with you head some to know you have a baby inside of you and it's not living. I am so sorry she has to go through this but the Good Lord has his reasons, just keep the faith and we will keep you in our prayers.

4/30/2008 1:19:05 PMthanks for all the good thoughts 

waytogo51
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,764)
Farmington, AR
age: 52


You and your family are indeed in my prayers. I wish I knew the words to say, but at a time like this is there really any correct words? But I do know that prayer and support is the correct thing to do. I am here if you need me.

4/30/2008 1:21:42 PMthanks for all the good thoughts 

iloveboxers
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,817)
Kernersville, NC
age: 41


thanks you guys,,,,and klassy thats what i think is eatin at her,,,its there but its not living,,,,,,and they told her they didn't know when it would pass,,,,,,so she said she has to carry it around and she feels funny bout that,,,i have never miscarried so i don't even know how she feels,,,,,

4/30/2008 1:22:04 PMthanks for all the good thoughts 
jewls363
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Lincoln, NE
age: 45


SO sorry to hear that boxers. Your family is definately
my thoughts and prayers



4/30/2008 1:24:30 PMthanks for all the good thoughts 

iloveboxers
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,817)
Kernersville, NC
age: 41


thanx jewls,,,,how ya been girl? missed ya

4/30/2008 1:25:56 PMthanks for all the good thoughts 

emmycoe
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,706)
Hanson, KY
age: 30


i just now saw this thread boxers....
i am sooo sorry.
know that your friends in kentucky are here if you need us.

love ya girl

4/30/2008 1:36:49 PMthanks for all the good thoughts 

deadhead4bunnie
Mount Pleasant, MI
age: 38


boxer I`m so sorry that happened.Death is a hard thing to deal with.With God`s help he will bring you into an understanding of his will and reasons for this tragic happening. Babies get a one way ticket to heaven were some day your family will meet this young one I totally believe it.

4/30/2008 1:38:46 PMthanks for all the good thoughts 

kycountrygurl
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (14,178)
Madisonville, KY
age: 32


boxers, I too just saw this thread...I'm so sorry that you and your family is going through that....know that your kentucky girls are here for you if you need us!!

love ya!!




4/30/2008 1:41:28 PMthanks for all the good thoughts 

iloveboxers
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,817)
Kernersville, NC
age: 41


thanks all of you,,,,,,i believe that agreement in prayer really helps as well,,,,,,and knowing that you all are here makes things in life so much simpler,,,,,,you all are bery good people and i would trade you all for nuthin,,,,,,,

4/30/2008 1:51:49 PMthanks for all the good thoughts 
jewls363
Over 1,000 Posts (1,831)
Lincoln, NE
age: 45


been good boxers....missed ya too....so glad to see you back

4/30/2008 1:53:56 PMthanks for all the good thoughts 

iloveboxers
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,817)
Kernersville, NC
age: 41


its so good to be back,,,,,movin sucks,,,,,,,all the packing and the unpacking,,,,,,and the drive was horrific,,,,,my 70 yr old dad drove the uhaul and towed my car,,,,,i don't think he should be driving,,,,haha,,,,,but i made it and love it here,,,,,

4/30/2008 2:00:49 PMthanks for all the good thoughts 

foxy_woman_49
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,541)
Omaha, NE
age: 50


sighs..this happened to me and I was devastated!

Just be there for her as you are doing. I had no one but my 2 young kids at that time. It didnt pass either....had to have a D&C and it was like going through full labor with no baby at the end....so much pain...and more pain.Different kinds of pain all happening at the same time.


to this day, it still hurts


She's lucky to have you.



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4/30/2008 2:23:45 PMthanks for all the good thoughts 

iloveboxers
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,817)
Kernersville, NC
age: 41


thanx foxy,,,,,i appreciate all the advice,,,,and i hope it does get easier for all the ones who gone thru it before,,,,,i know the you never will get over it,,,but hope its get easier,,,,,,luv u all

4/30/2008 2:28:56 PMthanks for all the good thoughts 
wnd_dragon
Over 2,000 Posts (2,891)
Morristown, TN
age: 29


oh boxers.. i'm so sorry this happened! I just read this thread or i woulda sent my love and uplifting energy sooner.. my sister in law was preg at the same time i was with my son.. she carried her lil girl to 8 months... and she lost her. it's hard.. and it takes time, she'll need you.. she may not know just how yet... just be there, that's really what you can do best...

Love, Light, and Laughter,

~Dragon

4/30/2008 2:30:22 PMthanks for all the good thoughts 

iloveboxers
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,817)
Kernersville, NC
age: 41


yer such a sweetheart,,,,,,,you know i luv ya girl,,,thanks for the thoughts,,,,,just keep her in your prayers that she will make it thru this ok,,,,she is devastated,,,,,