| 4/30/2008 1:15:57 PM | thanks for all the good thoughts | |  klassykitten
 Toccoa, GA age: 51
| Boxer, You and your daughter will be in my prayers. I had what they called " not a viable pregnancy" which I understood to be the baby died but there was no miscarriage. They had to basically force it by giving me some kind of shot and it took about ten days to take effect and then I did miscarry in the bathroom at work. I was somewhere between 8-12 weeks. The quicker that it can be over the better. It does mess with you head some to know you have a baby inside of you and it's not living. I am so sorry she has to go through this but the Good Lord has his reasons, just keep the faith and we will keep you in our prayers.
| | 4/30/2008 1:19:05 PM | thanks for all the good thoughts | |  waytogo51
 Farmington, AR age: 52
| You and your family are indeed in my prayers. I wish I knew the words to say, but at a time like this is there really any correct words? But I do know that prayer and support is the correct thing to do. I am here if you need me.
| | 4/30/2008 1:21:42 PM | thanks for all the good thoughts | |  iloveboxers
 Kernersville, NC age: 41
| thanks you guys,,,,and klassy thats what i think is eatin at her,,,its there but its not living,,,,,,and they told her they didn't know when it would pass,,,,,,so she said she has to carry it around and she feels funny bout that,,,i have never miscarried so i don't even know how she feels,,,,,
| | 4/30/2008 1:22:04 PM | thanks for all the good thoughts | | jewls363
 Lincoln, NE age: 45
| SO sorry to hear that boxers. Your family is definately
my thoughts and prayers
 
| | 4/30/2008 1:24:30 PM | thanks for all the good thoughts | |  iloveboxers
 Kernersville, NC age: 41
| thanx jewls,,,,how ya been girl? missed ya
| | 4/30/2008 1:25:56 PM | thanks for all the good thoughts | |  emmycoe
 Hanson, KY age: 30
| i just now saw this thread boxers....
i am sooo sorry.
know that your friends in kentucky are here if you need us.
love ya girl
| | 4/30/2008 1:36:49 PM | thanks for all the good thoughts | |  deadhead4bunnie Mount Pleasant, MI age: 38
| boxer I`m so sorry that happened.Death is a hard thing to deal with.With God`s help he will bring you into an understanding of his will and reasons for this tragic happening. Babies get a one way ticket to heaven were some day your family will meet this young one I totally believe it.  
| | 4/30/2008 1:38:46 PM | thanks for all the good thoughts | |  kycountrygurl
 Madisonville, KY age: 32
| boxers, I too just saw this thread...I'm so sorry that you and your family is going through that....know that your kentucky girls are here for you if you need us!!
love ya!!

| | 4/30/2008 1:41:28 PM | thanks for all the good thoughts | |  iloveboxers
 Kernersville, NC age: 41
| thanks all of you,,,,,,i believe that agreement in prayer really helps as well,,,,,,and knowing that you all are here makes things in life so much simpler,,,,,,you all are bery good people and i would trade you all for nuthin,,,,,,,
| | 4/30/2008 1:51:49 PM | thanks for all the good thoughts | | jewls363
 Lincoln, NE age: 45
| been good boxers....missed ya too....so glad to see you back 
| | 4/30/2008 1:53:56 PM | thanks for all the good thoughts | |  iloveboxers
 Kernersville, NC age: 41
| its so good to be back,,,,,movin sucks,,,,,,,all the packing and the unpacking,,,,,,and the drive was horrific,,,,,my 70 yr old dad drove the uhaul and towed my car,,,,,i don't think he should be driving,,,,haha,,,,,but i made it and love it here,,,,,
| | 4/30/2008 2:00:49 PM | thanks for all the good thoughts | |  foxy_woman_49
 Omaha, NE age: 50
| sighs..this happened to me and I was devastated!
Just be there for her as you are doing. I had no one but my 2 young kids at that time. It didnt pass either....had to have a D&C and it was like going through full labor with no baby at the end....so much pain...and more pain.Different kinds of pain all happening at the same time.
to this day, it still hurts
She's lucky to have you.
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| | 4/30/2008 2:23:45 PM | thanks for all the good thoughts | |  iloveboxers
 Kernersville, NC age: 41
| thanx foxy,,,,,i appreciate all the advice,,,,and i hope it does get easier for all the ones who gone thru it before,,,,,i know the you never will get over it,,,but hope its get easier,,,,,,luv u all
| | 4/30/2008 2:28:56 PM | thanks for all the good thoughts | | wnd_dragon
 Morristown, TN age: 29
| oh boxers.. i'm so sorry this happened! I just read this thread or i woulda sent my love and uplifting energy sooner.. my sister in law was preg at the same time i was with my son.. she carried her lil girl to 8 months... and she lost her. it's hard.. and it takes time, she'll need you.. she may not know just how yet... just be there, that's really what you can do best...
Love, Light, and Laughter,
~Dragon
| | 4/30/2008 2:30:22 PM | thanks for all the good thoughts | |  iloveboxers
 Kernersville, NC age: 41
| yer such a sweetheart,,,,,,,you know i luv ya girl,,,thanks for the thoughts,,,,,just keep her in your prayers that she will make it thru this ok,,,,she is devastated,,,,,
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