| 4/30/2008 10:54:46 AM | thanks for all the good thoughts | | 
iloveboxers
Kernersville, NC
age: 41
| i just wanted to say thank you for all the good thoughts and prayers you all said for my daughter,,,,you know i moved to be with her and the grandbabies because she was not well and pregnant with her third lil one. well she went to the doctor this morning and it wasn't good news,,,,the baby didn't make it,,,she hasn't miscarried yet,,,she is still carrying the lil one,,,,but she is devastated,,i tried to tell her that usually when something like this happens it is because there might have been something wrong with the baby had it made it,,,or maybe it just wasn't meant to be,,,she has two very small children already and really wasn't ready for a third,,,but had gotten used to the idea and was already starting to look for things for this one,,,so please just say another lil prayer that she can accept this,,,once it passes i think she will be able to move on a little,,,but just keep us in your thoughts and prayers once again,,,,,i luv all u guys and truly believe prayer changes things and hearts.
| | 4/30/2008 10:56:54 AM | thanks for all the good thoughts | | 
57rickie
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 57
| Aw Boxer, that is so sad. God has a way of working things out good or bad. Your both in my prayers honey. 
| | 4/30/2008 10:58:12 AM | thanks for all the good thoughts | |
iloveboxers
Kernersville, NC
age: 41
| thank you rickie,,,,thats means alot to me,,,,,you don't how much i believe in prayer
| | 4/30/2008 11:10:48 AM | thanks for all the good thoughts | | 
unc005
Seagrove, NC
age: 25 online now!
| Oh, that is sooo sad, and disheartening . I am so sorry for y'all.
Y'all will DEFINITELY be in my thoughts and prayers as well!
  
unc
| | 4/30/2008 11:11:26 AM | thanks for all the good thoughts | | 
stormygrl
Longmont, CO
age: 42
| I will send some prayers her way.....God works in mysterious ways sometimes.
It's nice that you are there with her to get her through this difficult time so I send some prayers out to you also.
| | 4/30/2008 11:12:23 AM | thanks for all the good thoughts | |
iloveboxers
Kernersville, NC
age: 41
| thanx stormy and unc,,,,,,that means alot
[Edited 4/30/2008 11:12:35 AM]
| | 4/30/2008 11:12:49 AM | thanks for all the good thoughts | | 
newlife4me2
Saylorsburg, PA
age: 43
| Prayers for both of you on my list...........
| | 4/30/2008 11:13:34 AM | thanks for all the good thoughts | |
iloveboxers
Kernersville, NC
age: 41
| thanks me2,,,,she will be fine i think once it finally 'happens' ya know?
| | 4/30/2008 11:20:49 AM | thanks for all the good thoughts | |
unc005
Seagrove, NC
age: 25 online now!
| Anytime, hon! I have to agree with you--I think she'll be "ok" once things take place. So sad though.
How far along is she?
unc
| | 4/30/2008 11:22:58 AM | thanks for all the good thoughts | |
iloveboxers
Kernersville, NC
age: 41
| i don't know exactly,,,,,,first they thought she was 3 months i think,,,,,then they told her 5 weeks,,,then they told her something else,,,,,i think since it had quit growing it kinda confused em or something,,,,
| | 4/30/2008 11:28:15 AM | thanks for all the good thoughts | |
unc005
Seagrove, NC
age: 25 online now!
| Oh ok. I can understand that. *sighs*
Will she carry the baby through to term, or...?
(I know of some women in which that is the case..they carry the baby to term, which just seems kinda ?"harsh"?, or whatnot..I'd think that would make things considerably (more)difficult...you know?)
unc
| | 4/30/2008 11:29:29 AM | thanks for all the good thoughts | |
iloveboxers
Kernersville, NC
age: 41
| no it will pass,,,,,,i think,,,,,i don't know i will ask her in a minute or two
| | 4/30/2008 11:45:58 AM | thanks for all the good thoughts | | 
sumbeach777
Red Springs, NC
age: 45
| My daughter, friend lost a baby 4 yrs ago. She had ,had a baby shower and was told she was going to have a little boy. then one night Danielle wasn't well, she called the docs , and was told to go to the hospital.
Hours later she was not doing good, so they gave her a emergency C-section.
And it was a little girl. the baby died 7 hrs later. She wasn't ready to be in this world.
And so last yr, Danielle and her husband had a wonderful little boy, named Zach.
Watch , your Daughter, she will experience depression very badly from this.
I did after loosing a child 17 yrs ago. And I didn't even know I had depression.
Don't keep saying it was ment to be, Because thats not what she needs to hear.
Let her deal with it her way, but don't let her feel she is alone. And it never happened.
Just being there is all she needs, and thank you for doing that, not alot of people would in this day and time move to be near someone. I know that too.
And maybe a good help group, when she is ready. Sometimes strangers, help is the best at a time like this. If there's anything I can personally help you both with just e-mail me Ok.... And bless the both of you at this time..... Beach
| | 4/30/2008 12:11:55 PM | thanks for all the good thoughts | |
iloveboxers
Kernersville, NC
age: 41
| thanx beach,,,,,,yeh i know not a lot of people would pack up and move,,,,i quit my job,,,and moved after two days of packing,,,,,spur of the moment,,,,but i would do anything for my kids and grandkids,,,,i put my needs aside to help her,,,,and i love the opportunity to spend time with my grandson zach and granddaughter kyndall,,,,,so this was a good decision for me as well,,,,but yeh i agree,,,,,i should try to just be there and let her heal on her own in her own time,,,,,and i will let her know i am there whenever she needs to talk,,,and hey the same goes here,,,,if you ever need to talk,,,,,just email me,,,,,luv ya
| | 4/30/2008 1:08:44 PM | thanks for all the good thoughts | | 
blondechick37
Industry, PA
age: 37
| boxers i am really sorry for you lose... your family are in my thoughts and prayers..
i went through the same thing 15 years ago... and it still hurts
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